She sees me as a platonic-only and same with me

Same with you..... see you see it as platonic only, got it.

Im feeling too horny and want to just sleep with her.

err... ok.... so you're not seeing her as platonic only like you said above.

Id be visiting her for new years and want to do it then. Problem is were too platonic,

right

Im not in shape

right

and never flirted etc (i saw her just as a friend).

right

How do I make this happen. I just want to get into a fwb kindof situation, but how do i initiate and not come off as creep etc.

my dude...... assuming this is a serious post, there is so much wrong here.

Here's your fundamental problem: you are not in shape, you are not dating, you do not have options.

But you are horny and somewhat desperate (not being unkind, just reading between the lines) and therefore you are choosing a female you know, and you hope that being friends will somewhat smooth the way to getting laid.

This won't work, because you are friends with her. You are in the friend zone. She does not see you as a sexual being. She sees you as a friend, and she knows that sleeping with you will spoil the friendship (ie it will stop her receiving the future benefits of your friendship). She is (I would guess) at least somewhat attractive, therefore has good options.

You, however, do not have good options.

Unless she is blind, deaf, dumb and retarded: she is also very aware of everything I've said above.

Honestly it is easier to fuck a stranger than to fuck a female friend for 5 years. If she liked you, even a little bit, you would already know it by now.

If you want to try and fuck her:

• Do nothing for her. No friendship benefits. No friendliness.
• Accept that you will not be friends after this.
• Flirt
• Smile
• IF she reciprocates, tell her slowly while staring into her eyes.... "You know, we don't have to be JUST friends...."
• Escalate from there

The odds of this working are about 1 in 1000 if you're good, less if you don't know what you're doing.

Here's a better game plan to save your poor penis from a life of drought:

• Get your fat ass in shape
• Hit the gym
• Eat better. Much better. And eat less.
• Hit the gym, did I mention that?
• Find a source of women you don't know, who you can get to know WHILE THEY ARE AWARE YOU HAVE A PENIS.
• Do not use friendship to secure sexual relations, this does not work.

I have a friend for about 5 years. She sees me as a platonic-only and same with me. I did date her friend 2 years ago briefly. Atp, were more like just two dudes. But shes single for a year now and I`m also single. We dont live in same city but communicate regularly.

Im feeling too horny and want to just sleep with her. Id be visiting her for new years and want to do it then. Problem is were too platonic, Im not in shape and never flirted etc (i saw her just as a friend). How do I make this happen. I just want to get into a fwb kindof situation, but how do i initiate and not come off as creep etc.