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Is it just a matter of time untill this plate will break
Hello everyone
I've been seeing this girl for about two months. She lives in another city (1h by car) where I have some friends, so I only go there once a month. She's 21F, around a 7.5/10, and the first dates went really well , she showed interest, escalation was smooth.
On our second date we made out, but I had to go back to my city. She later came to visit me, I invited her to dinner, we hooked up and she spent the night. I saw her again when I went to her city, we slept together again.
The issue started when I told her I had a “surprise” for her. What I meant was that I was going to give her a very good time in bed , and I did , she complimented me at bed but who cares she can say this to everyone . She later mentioned she was “waiting for the surprise,” and I got the impression she was expecting something material, which I’m not doing.
Then she reached out again, saying she wanted to come to my city, but she kept pushing to know exactly what we were going to do and if it gonna be more interesting than last times , almost like if my plan didn’t impress her, she wouldn’t come. I told her to come and discover, but she kept insisting. After that she sent me some sexy picture in the lingerie she was wearing last time , and asked me if i miss the red cold , i liked the picture and told her i like red color and looking to see what she gonna wear next time in order to not seem needy .
Looking back, the problem is that I positioned myself as a provider. She’s a student, and I paid for all the dates and now she’s pushing for more. She does show some qualities for an LTR, but since it would be long-distance, I’m questioning if it’s worth it especially that she is hypersexual.
So now I’m wondering: Should I see her one last time and close it properly, or should I just walk away and consider this plate done (She is the only plate i sleep with i have now ,but i'm seeing other girls , scarcity...) ?
Read MoreClassic mistake. Sex isn't a "surprise" for women. She can get sex from any old chump.
When you tell her you have a surprise for her, you better come up with something unique and interesting. Otherwise, don't say anything like that at all.
In terms of the relationship: all plates break sooner or later. This one seems salvageable, so I suggest keep it spinning longer. No need to drop her because of your silly mistake. Just keep doing what you're doing until she breaks herself.
Note how none of the packages mention getting a husband or kids now, despite it being assumed they'd still available back when the 30's packages were being picked.
I like two things in particular.
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It depersonalizes it and explains things from a biological perspective.
- The tape analogy is great.
5 10 “, 250lb
I bench max 150
You are soft and weak. Keep hitting those weights. Add in some cardio.
I haven’t done squats
Don't skip leg day. Squats are the king of exercises. They aid in boosting testosterone production and thus growth in all muscles.
I’m wondering on what to do I’m hitting like a plateau
Change it up. Muscle confusion. If you're using barbells, switch to dumbbells for a few weeks. If you're doing high weight, low rep workouts switch to low weight, high rep for a few weeks. Change things up a bit so your muscles have to start adapting.
I had a girlfriend for 2 days then wimped out didn’t even reach first date before I checked out
How the fuck was she your girlfriend if you didn't even fuck her yet? Are you granting unearned titles and unearned commitment?
Have you even read the sidebar? Especially HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches?
[court stuff]
Sounds stressful. Keep at the gym for stress relief, and follow your attorney's advice on shit.
my accident where the lawnmower severed my toe. What do I do?
Try to be more careful!
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