Other than the previous posts you have about the green card or moving or whatever you provide very little details for how it got like this

It is very hard to advise such vagueness

You are only looking at half the equation..... a female must weigh up a delicate balance when she is choosing a male for impregnation.

She has to optimise for a lot of things, like propensity to stick around but she also wants the best genetics she can get for her offspring....even at the expense of the guys sticking around.

When women see tall, ripped, chiseled, violent, arrogant males, they expereince intense desire that makes them put all their chips on red - they realise that this dude is not going to to stick around, but at least he scores 100% on the genetics.

you are in the wrong forum

This post fits the time line of attention whores. When they are younger they can get quite a lot of A&V from men, just by putting out. That dries up pretty quick.

To replace the A&V they used to get from men, they pivot to creating content which is basically a desperate pity party. Men no longer notice her BUT she can still get likes and comments from other fems.

The click bait of this kind of women is that she is counting on other women say 'but you're so beautiful!!!' any man would be just so lucky to have you!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe they are intimidated by your extreme beauty!!!!!!!!!!!!

42f: "I still feel young and sexy"

I'm afraid I have bad news for you.