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We are convinced our real selves are simply … too heavy. We have lived. We come with stretch marks and opinions.
Exactly what I'm looking for. A needy post-wall hag with opinions.
"the quiet violence of being matched and discarded by an algorithm"
Ah, yes, those pesky algorithms - the violent part of mathematics.
Brevity is often valued in writing, so I've decided to help her out. Free edits, you're welcome ma'am.
In my 20s
, this felt like power. (It was mostly fear in better lighting but I didn’t know that yet.) I mastered breezy indifference. I timed my texts to the minute: double the time he took, plus 10 for mystery. I thought I was teaching men my value. I thought I was training them to love me.I was attractive.But I am 51 now
. Looking back on that first year of dating after divorce at 50 – the apps, the profiles, the quiet violence of being matched and discarded by an algorithm – I realise something uncomfortable: I wasn’t training them. I was hiding.and am no longer attractive.
Yep, she looks like plenty of girls that didn't think I was worthy early on.
Men build, women collect gifts.
So it took me a while to build, and now I'm able to do whatever I want. I smile to myself about the girls that passed, they'd shit themselves if they knew what resources I have now. But of course, they all have stretch marks and opinions like the author, and really aren't any fun to be around.
No thanks, I'll keep living my stress-free life.
She feels this way as of the writing of the article. This is an expression of temporary emotion for her.
Let her get her hands on a truly nice man. We all have a friend who is a seriously good person. She will chew him up and spit him out and laugh about it on r/twoxcrhomosomes for the lulz
@MentORPHEUS Did Cuck stay with her? Oh I hope not. Thirst kills. She has caused all this by trying to keep them both and squeaky voice bad boy has got himself into a corner he can't escape and his life is now ruined. By the time he gets out there can't be a normal life for him. All because he got feelings for an unfaithful woman, who lived with the father of her child.
Slut of course walks free, when she really was the cause. Both guys thought they were defending her. They probably thought she was a prize. She would be a generous 5/10 in her own age bracket. But they still did all this.
Wonderful title. They want "no games" just when they start to lose them. I don't think she's being authentic because she's had a change of heart: She knows she's beat.
This ties into this one: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/325242/why_can_t_the_man_just_do_it
The "play hard to get" game got her left alone wondering whether she's going to die alone so she approaches Chad and Chad rejects her! "Why can't Chads do the approaching again! I'll even do coffee dates now!"
Too late! Luther! Too late! https://www.youtube.com/shorts/PZ4lmw2oQIM
