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Me in my thirties, on dot reds
@adam-l luxury beliefs exist out of luxury but a luxury hotel loses a lot of glamour when the power goes out.
If TRP is praxeology, then the state of a man's red pill journey can only be judged from where he's actually at in real, lived terms. If all his theoretical knowledge only brought him to a place of perpetual resentment, schadenfreude, victimhood, and a need to complain about everything under the sun, then either the theory is wrong, or he hasn't demonstrated that is has actionable value.
While that's an interesting idea, have you ever considered that the guys you've noticed who're completely unable to advance beyond the anger stage of grief after taking the red pill might simply be Gamma's?
My third installment of the dance guide series is out: Part III (Advanced Kino)
www.forums.red/p/theredpill/324717/vrx_social_dance_guide_part_iii_advanced_kino
@adam-l I always think that a good way to separate the two types is to ask a question "Your friend in a moment of folly committed a small crime and the police ask you if he was responsible. What should you do?" One side say "I must report him, its the right /honourable thing to do" the other say "He is my friend, how could I report him?"
Its really good to find out which sort are which and avoid ever considering the first (dishonourable) type as trustworthy. The think compliance is honour.
I don't think you are missing anything. There just isn't anything much there to find.
She is used to attention. She is a politician. Has held political office. She likes to win people over. She was too focused on her career to move to the US with her man. She is self self self. One of your first impressions of her was that she was very self centred. It looks to me like you were right.
If she wanted to she would have.
Same applies to the mother. She has a 30 year old daughter on her hands. If she considered you as a potential son in law, she would be send you two off alone together. This is not an innocent, unworldly 16 year old virgin, who needs protecting from players. This is a daughter who needs a mate, soon.
They like the attention, when they want it. That's all. It is just possible that she might at some point want the attention of your dick but this would be a bad result for you as your mind has already been captured by a smile and you would then be well and truly fucked with. She is never going to love anyone but herself. She is also never going to be doing anyone but herself a favour unless she gets more for the favour than she gives.
Go all in and 80% you get nothing, 10% you get some dates and no sex, 10% you get some sex but her heart is not in it and your get your brain scrambled with oneitis when she cools off soon (judging by the length of your post this is a genuine risk here).
This is a barren field to cultivate. She loves only herself and if she wanted you she would be going out and getting the thing she wanted not avoiding your repeated attempts.
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