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@carnold03 Atheists don't hate any gods because they don't believe in any gods, so this makes zero sense.
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polishknight - Tears of unfathomable sadness.
I bet she used to get up in her ex-husband's face just like that, and that's why she's now a single mom.
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Reply To polishknight - Tears of unfathomable sadness.
6h ago 2025-08-18 03:42:14 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword
who would have thought that a woman with a septum peircing and chest and arms tats would have find it hard to be a mother?
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There's a reason I stop and watch every time I see women playing volleyball or tennis and generally don't spare a second glance to women playing soccer or softball unless they're running around in athletic shorts.
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AbusiveFather1 - overcoming external validation
those of you that overcame the need for external validation and approval, how did you do it and what are some tips you can give? ... [more]
If you want a practical tip - meditate and learn to process your emotions/sit with them.
In my opinion, the majority of need for external validation comes from inability to cope with whatever negative feeling arises (loneliness, sadness, fear, etc.)
As you learn to do that, the need for external validation will automatically subside.
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Reply To AbusiveFather1 - overcoming external validation
those of you that overcame the need for external validation and approval, how did you do it and what are some tips you can give? ... [more]
The fact that you asking this question indicates that you are on the right path. Good on you.
Overcoming external validation is basically a rite of passage for young men. the sooner you achieve it, the better off you will be.
I would suggest the following;
be realistic about how much you can live without external validation. Think of the great men, study them, read about them. Pick your own heros. For me, there are many, and they might seem contradictory - men like Albert Einstein, Ghandi, Winston Churchill, many philosophers, composers and artists.
They all had a purpose, a mission. But no man is an island. They all did get external validation. Churchill didn't write those speeches for his own amusement - he wrote them to stimulate a nation to resist the facsists.
Men need the company and validation of other men. They cannot exist in a vacum. It is right and proper than men lean on each other, support each other and socialise together.
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Reply To polishknight - Tears of unfathomable sadness.
6h ago 2025-08-18 03:45:21 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword
"This shit is not fair"
I am guessing it has to do with money? 250 is not enough. She needs much much more. She needs at least 10k a month.
I suggest that everyone on this forum get together, and if we all put in 100 month, we could reach our goal to fund her so that she can have what she deserves. We'll hardly notice the loss of 100 a month, but we'll all be happier if we know that we have done the right thing.
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Reply To polishknight - Tears of unfathomable sadness.
6h ago 2025-08-18 03:43:02 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword
"I don't know how to tell you what is the right man, because I thought that they were both the right man"
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