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29m ago Ask TRP Forum
1.5 months into an LTR, weekly fights over her insecurity about my past. Do I commit to monogamy or keep my options open?
Some context first. I've been spinning plates for the past couple of years. About 1.5 months ago I got into an LTR with a girl I'd been exclusive with for a few months before that. During the exclusive phase she never fought and was always on her best, most positive behaviour.
Since making it official, we've been fighting weekly over small things. Examples:
1)She broke up with me for a few hours because she thought I didn't find her pretty. 2)Yesterday a bitch left a flirty comment on my Instagram post. She assumed I was entertaining other women in my DMs and micro-cheating on her and called me.
Instead of ending things that time, she in a mature tone offered to go back to being non-exclusive. She said she'd be fine with me sleeping with other women, we'd keep hanging out like nothing changed, and her feelings and expectations would just be "better managed." I was caught off guard and hesitated before answering, which I know was a mistake. I eventually reassured her and calmed things down.
She knows about my past, and I think that's the root of it. She's worried I'll get bored and go back to that lifestyle.
Here's the thing: she's a genuinely great partner. Low body count, treats me well, doesn't demand constant dates or attention, and she's peaceful and fun to be around. Honestly, she's low-maintenance compared to managing multiple women. I'm not usually the reassuring type, but I'm enjoying monogamy with her and I'm not in my plate-spinning phase right now. I want to actually give a monogamous LTR a real shot.
At the same time, I see the appeal of the other side. I still want to flirt, talk to bitches on Insta, cold approach, and so on and thats a fun lifestyle not gonna lie
So I'm stuck:
How do I handle her insecurity without becoming her full-time reassurance machine? Was her non-exclusive offer a genuine option or a shit test? Can I realistically keep flirting and approaching while in an LTR, or do I need to pick a lane?
Read MoreI'm not all that interested in hiring out help. I've found my bread in butter with customers who aren't to rushed on time (meaning I can get it done solo) and I'll come in a little cheaper than the big dogs that can flip the job in a few days. Delivering quality over quantity.
In a perfect world I'd set myself up working the six not so nice months and enjoying spring and summer to myself.
Though I am eye balling moving back out West to snowbird/work and come home during the nice months to also work a bit.
We'll see how February goes when I fly back to Portland for a month to dip my toes in the water. I just really haven't been feeling a small city (sub 300k population) and multiple people have asked why I'm in town, hinting at my personality suits a bigger city.
@Vermillion-Rx and again! He didn't call her a whore! He said that they dress like whores!
However, I will call her a retard.
@Vermillion-Rx part of what simultaneously amuses and annoys me with this whole "controversy" is how many of these shrieking harpies and white knights keep saying some variant of "Shane Gillis called all women whores!" when what he said was that they dress like whores.
Fucking retards don't know the difference?
@Vermillion-Rx I found a way to make it open my voice recorder app, but I would still have to look at and touch the screen to start recording
Upon further reflection, A few things jump out at me after having read that.
The first is that her fever dream essentially embraces the premise of “The Handmaiden’s Tale” with the sexes reversed. I’ve never read THT, of course, but I know enough from what feminists say about it.
The second thought is to wonder who would enforce the restrictions on the men? We know that women can’t do it, and having men do it defeats the entire purpose, because they could (and very quickly would) simply take over.
The third is that she makes the same mistake every feminist makes when she assumes that society would continue running without the labor of men. Every link in every supply chain is utterly dominated and dependent upon a large pool of men willing and able to learn and perform highly specialized tasks.
Her “Manservant’s Tale” utopia would fail before it even started along the path to fruition. If someone all-powerful group could snap their fingers and go straight to the finished product, it would implode within days… if not hours.
Let’s face it: she just hates men.
Read MoreSomething huge I just realized
Women fuck the way they partner dance:
If they are apologetic and insecure in dance they are apologetic and insecure in sex
If they are controlling and don't let go during dance, they are controlling and don't let go during sex
If they are confident, fluid, and warm during dance they are confident, fluid in warm during sex
I just had a massive epiphany about all the dance partners I've fucked
