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Good summary
it's also that women all lie to eachother (I don't think necessarily nefariously) about how just existing and barely doing adult things makes them "deserve" a man
No one but nice guys tells other men they deserve women just for being "nice"
Men are generally pretty willing to tell other men they have to do something right to get women
Women don't, they operate on a default deserving state and give each other dogshit "advice" and feedback
I don’t understand how so many women have so many beautiful, brilliant, amazing gal-pals unable to find men.
First of all, the average adult American woman is 5’3.5” tall and weights 172 pounds, which is borderline obese. She’s likely had more men inside her than a Yankee Stadium dugout, and she’s tens of thousands of dollars in debt. She doesn’t own a cookbook, and if she has a vacuum cleaner, it gets about as much use as her treadmill. Yet somehow every woman on social media is surrounded by countless stunning, high-quality women who just can’t seem to find a decent, regular guy.
The other side of the “surfeit of amazing women” idea is the alleged “absence of good men” trope. Yet even a fossil like me knows that any woman with a smart phone or an internet connection can scroll her way to a meetup with a man three points higher than she is.
Could it be that her “amazing” friends aren’t as amazing as she lets on, and that they don’t qualify for the men they want?
Read MoreThe situationship situation is very telling. Sweetheart, you chased tingles instead of a real relationship for three whole years, and now you're crying because you're single. My sympathy is significantly diminished.
Listen, lady, I'm in my soft guy era, alright? So if you aren't prepared to hold the door for me, and pay for my meal, there are plenty of real women out there who will. Drizzle, drizzle.
If her friends really wanted dates, they would have left their boyfriends who didn’t take them on a single one. Either they don’t care for dates or the boyfriends offer them something they like more (being out of their league most likely).
5h ago 2026-10-10 12:29:09 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
These chicks act like the last six decades didn’t happen, and rather than taking her fellow women to task for perpetuating the incentive structure that divides men into “Bad boys I have sex with” and “Nice guys who give me the ick”, she complains about the lack of bad boys who are also nice guys.
Also, can we normalize young women not dropping f-bombs on TicTok while they complain about the loss of traditional behavior?
3h ago WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
5. Don't settle!!!
- Don’t settle!!! https://streamable.com/d2tyfa
Men don’t typically approach you when you’re not the pretty one. https://streamable.com/r8dsc1
My Situationship https://streamable.com/dyvc9z
Things that make me feel like I'm failing at life as a single girl with a disability. https://streamable.com/znz57s
Do men brag they live on their own? https://streamable.com/il0dqf
Being single isn’t empowering https://streamable.com/kk9bth
3h ago 2026-10-10 13:51:23 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
I’m certainly not the first guy to point this out, but men figure out very early that picking your battles REALLY matters. ????-blocking two strange men in a bar is a fairly straightforward way to end up with a barstool bouncing off the back of your head, or even a manslaughter charge if things really go sideways.
Women rarely understand the force doctrine because they almost never face physical violence. Unlike with men, women don’t have to calculate the possibility of having to back up their words with their fists. Men always do. Sure, we make it costly, but the kind of guys who throw hands at perceived slights are unpredictable. Violence is almost entirely theoretical for women, so getting one guy to square off against two “creeps” (just normal guys shooting their shot, no doubt) doesn’t pose a hazard to them.
It begs the question, though: if they’re SIWWDNNM, why can’t THEY just tell the “creeps” to back off?
Read MoreYou fuck the ones who aren't gentleman and then wonder why there are no gentlemen around anymore? That said if she lost 20 lbs she might find a nice guy to friendzone that she could breadcrumb into doing all the gentlemanly shit she wants while getting sex from the bad boy that actually gets her wet.
And to women that say that's all incel-talk, STFU. I've seen it in my own life. After bad breakups, when I go through a bitter misogyny phase, I would have women crawling over me. The worse I thought of them, and the less I did for them, the more they would scratch each other's eyes out to get to me. And of course when I got back to normal, the heat would die down too.
