In this post I'll discuss the how's, why's, and what do's when you get blown out

Wrestling is my favorite sport in the world. There are very few sports that allow you to physically dominate your opponent with no legal ramifications. I no longer practice the sport, but I am an avid watcher of it. In high stakes matches, most wrestlers wrestle a bit more conservatively. They are trying harder no to make mistakes. One wrestler in particular that goes for the big move every single time is Vincenzo Joseph of Penn State Nittany Lions.

Last year, he won his first NCAA title by pinning the returning 2X NCAA Champ - Isaiah Martinez. Not only was Joseph facing a juggernaut that was expected to win, but he was a redshirt freshman as well. Throughout the match, Joseph repeatedly looked for big moves. He constantly tried throwing and tripping. Eventually the moment was right and Joseph tripped Martinez to his back and won his first NCAA title with a pin. It was fucking ridiculous!......But how does this tie into getting women?


In most cases, a woman will know almost instantly if she will ever want you. There's no need to try to 'build attraction,' 'make her comfortable,' or any of that other shit. What you want to do is find out whether she's dtf or not. You find this out by getting physical asap. Just meeting her? Shake her hand and place your hand on her shoulder. Been talking for a while? Say something sexual or get her to walk with you - to your car. In every situation, you need to be pushing the interaction forward (physically) so you can uncover whether or not she is dtf. This will save you time so you can spend it with women that actually want you.

Getting blown out is one of my favorite things in the world.

After you've been screening for a while, you'll begin to get a sense of when you're approaching the answer of whether she's dtf or not. For instance, you're hanging out with a girl and you try and kiss her, but she pulls away and continues to hang out with you. After a while she may start giving off a vibe that lets you know that she's getting uncomfortable. You're nearing the truth. In situations like this, you need to turn it the fuck up about three notches!! She will either run away or she will be sooooo excited and happy that you BLASTED through the situation like that. She will either get laid or get lost. Either one is fine because now you have your answer as to whether or not she was dtf.

What happens when she gets lost though? Absolutely nothing. She wasn't interested in what you were offering so that isn't your problem. If she isn't dtf, maybe the next girl is.

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If you're a reader of this site, then you know that screening is my bread and butter, but what is my overall vibe? Better yet, what vibe should you cultivate? In this blog post, i'll answer both of those questions

I'm a chill ass dude. The only time I get hyped up is when i'm hanging with my friend molly and/or drinking some coke - if you know what I mean.

Eye contact and Other Body Language - When i'm in the field, i'm constantly on the lookout for something that catches my eye. If I see a female that I like then i'm approaching and screening hard. If I see a hottie that looks at me too then i'm on her and screening. The only time IOD I really look for is if she looks terrified when I see here - i'm not interested in catching a case of any kind.

Inner Game and how I feel on the inside - The only two things on my mind when i'm approaching someone is 'screen screen screen' and logistics. This leads to very banal conversations with lots of touching and/or sexually charged conversations with lots of touching. Either one is fine as long as you're screening the whole time. On the inside, I am sensing her vibe towards me as well as feeling how turned on she makes me. In the beginning, you most likely will feel very nervous and lots of anxious high energy in yourself. The inner calm and ability to sense her vibe comes with time and the blowing out of many sets. Keep screening!

Rejections and how to handle them - Screening women will lead you to saving lots of time, but you'll get rejected a lot more. When I say rejected, I mean that she will run away and/or terminate the interaction. Let her go. Do no give chase. The set is yours to cultivate and hers to terminate. The only way you should be getting rejected is if you push too hard - but there's no such thing as pushing too hard. (I'll post on this later.)

When I get rejected, I accept her denial and continue screening. For instance if she says 'wow you're really touchy. You should stop.' I'll agree as I continue to screen and escalate. Eventually she'll leave or I'll turn up the heat on her.

If you're out there screening, it's important that you quiet your inner insecurities so you're able to focus on the task at hand - screening.

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