@sandman1998

How to sleep with a friend

I have a friend for about 5 years. She sees me as a platonic-only and same with me. I did date her friend 2 years ago briefly. Atp, were more like just two dudes. But shes single for a year now and I`m also single. We dont live in same city but communicate regularly.

Im feeling too horny and want to just sleep with her. Id be visiting her for new years and want to do it then. Problem is were too platonic, Im not in shape and never flirted etc (i saw her just as a friend). How do I make this happen. I just want to get into a fwb kindof situation, but how do i initiate and not come off as creep etc.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtwiAkUj5Go

Don't bother. Reads like she friend-zoned you years ago. Better to use your time and energy to study the book, develop yourself, and approach other females instead.

@Larrythelobster

Day Game and Rejection

Day game based

So women give me sexual IOIs in a sober environment. Out shopping, university, gym, library.... Yet when I approach them I get rejected with "I have a boyfriend"

They'll look at me and align their ass to my crotch, sensual eye contact, get close to me. Etc...

Are women constantly emotionally cheating like this or am I missing something? Cause that sucks. Advice?

I got a good face, I'm pretty strong. But I gotta lose BF. Got a muscle dad bod. I'm working on it. But other than that I get confused.

Women wouldn't be imagining having sex with me or "playing" with me if I wasn't at least a prospect.

I'm getting back into approaching. I live in the suburbs and I'm comfortable here. But it's not great for getting loads of dates.

I have around 20 approaches in a suburban area. Most nos and I got 3 flakes. I just text logistics.

What's the ratio of how many women I'll have to approach? 100? Cause God damn. Its not like a city where you can cold approach 50 in a day. Suburbs not so much. Maybe 3-5 a week.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@kaanstks

cockblocking myself..

When I see a cute girl and feel the urge to approach (I have zero approach anxiety thanks to approaching hundreds of women), I end up cockblocking myself.

Internally, I think I’m not man enough. It’s not about her. It’s not about that one person. I know I can pull the woman I’m approaching—hell, I’m already flirting, having fun, and staying outcome-independent—but I don’t ask for her number, and I don’t even want to have sex with her. It feels like too much hassle.

It’s not that she’s out of my league or that she’s so beautiful she’ll reject me. Who cares? What really bothers me is that I know my potential. I was once in incredible shape—mentally, physically, and spiritually strong; resilient and disciplined. I think this goes deeper than women. I want that man back. I need to work on this.

What’s your opinion on this? I’m not looking for advice like “approach more” or “fuck more.” I want to keep this philosophical. Is there anything I’m missing in the bigger picture?

Ps. I had a lot of partners in the past, I know what woman is, what sex is, what abundance mentality, spinning plates, oneitis is etc. These are not my problem.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.