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@Bozza I had a similar bait-and-switch at my current job involving per diem
Looking for something else too
Shit week for me this week.
My car was broken into. Need to pay out for a new car window. Along with paying out for a car battery charger because the fuckers left my interior light on and ran the battery flat.
Started a new job last week billed as "remote/WFH". Today they pull a switcharoo on me and tell me that as of Monday I will be expected to be in the office full time.
Absolute muggins here took the company at their word. Contract stated "upto 5 days a week in office". I queried it and was told that was standard practice for remote/hybrid roles and that I could be asked to come in "occasionally". Well here we are on week two and they've completely pulled the rug on me. They now want me in 5 days per week -.-
While I'm going to push back, legally I've been snookered. After being unemployed for 6 months I need the cash and I'm not in a position to argue. But it's left a very bad taste in my mouth.
More fool me I suppose. You live and you learn. Guess I'm job hunting again.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv hopefully because they're all busy getting some. I especially hope that for u/clasvr.
I'm glad these know it all boss babes are becoming spinsters because they decided to pick a man's career path while maintaining a woman's sexual strategy
Good luck with that
If we’re talking about long term relationship frame, it’s obviously better if you, the man, has it. And she follows your frame.
In her case, she wanted to do her own thing: move abroad. I don’t know the reasons why (study, work, family, etc), but she chose not to stay in your frame. And this is not “wrong”, as in this world, you are free to have your own frame, or follow in someone else’s, man or woman.
And because she made her own choices, to be in her own frame, by moving abroad, you decided (correctly) that her plans, her frame were not compatible with yours. So you broke up with her. Fair enough, I guess you did want to have sex, and didn’t want to be on the phone 2 hours every night.
But here’s the thing: she has demonstrated that she would rather live in her own frame than in yours. Twice in fact, with the 10 week vacation. She wants to live with the benefits of having her own frame, while being able to fall back to you when it suits her. Hence the on-off, hot-cold behavior.
People are already telling you here, but I’ll say it too. Let her go. You’ve both shown you want the benefits of having your own frames, but also the benefits of being together in one frame. It won’t work. Better for both of you to be free to find what you want.
Read MorePublic service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv Perhaps this would qualify for weekday content since the woman is looking to get wifed up but her story is told by a matchmaker so posting Friday to be safe.
Used Mac-screen recording with physical-audio patching and a sticky-note posted over the title to save time from using “free” watermark removal tools with all kinds of paywalls…
The title is taken from where I found it elsewhere and I thought it was clever so giving credit where it’s due. Happy Friday, everyone!
Essential reading:
1) Rooting Through Garbage by Rollo Tomassi. This is from year one of The Rational Male blog and his first book, which is part of the sidebar.
2) Trying to make it work - why trying to make it work is fucking up your dating life by @mattyanon
3) my comment to a different askTRP here which I might as well turn into a copypasta or at least a standalone post.
None of Red Pill is about trying to get any one particular woman. This one is done. Next.
Why have you assumed that it is your job to fix whether or not she is fully invested in you? That assumption is what you need to fix.
