RP is a reaction to “WHAT IS” rather than what anyone thinks it should be. It’s not that guys like us asked for any of this. I’m old enough to remember when we warned against it, in fact.

We were called “Male Chauvinist Pigs” back then, and told that our warnings were unwanted and outdated. It turns out that understanding human nature is not outdated, after all, but the toothpaste is out of the tube now, and it’s not going back in by itself.

Like a fever, the manosphere is a symptom of an underlying systemic condition, and lowering the temperature doesn’t help unless the condition is addressed. A fever can become a problem in its own right, and the manosphere is no different: there is some toxicity in the space that’s making some things objectively worse, but still… concentrating on the Andrew Tates of the world is like giving aspirin to a bubonic plague patient: the fever may abate a bit, but you’re not really solving the problem.

Some context first. I've been spinning plates for the past couple of years

That's good, so you should have some abundance mentality as a baseline

1)She broke up with me for a few hours because she thought I didn't find her pretty.

So you have two years of plate spinning experience, and you settled on a histrionic narcissist?

2)Yesterday a bitch left a flirty comment on my Instagram post. She assumed I was entertaining other women in my DMs and micro-cheating on her and called me.

she was likely cheating and projecting

Instead of ending things that time, she in a mature tone offered to go back to being non-exclusive.

Because she was cheating on you, and used another woman's posts as fodder to open up the relationship instead of admitting to what she had done. This is her way of getting permission to see whoever she was fucking around with without ever admitting it outright

her feelings and expectations would just be "better managed."

she cheated and wants you to better manage what she did by getting permission to fuck the guy

She's worried I'll get bored and go back to that lifestyle.

no, she's a hoe and belongs to the streets

Here's the thing: she's a genuinely great partner.

she's not, you vetted poorly

Low body count

doubtful, but even if it's low, it's lower than SHE wants it to be, as evidenced by how badly she wants to fuck around

treats me well, doesn't demand constant dates or attention

she treated you like ass and swindled you, and she doesn't need that much attention because she's getting it elsewhere....

but I'm enjoying monogamy with her

she's certainly not being monogamous with you.

I want to actually give a monogamous LTR a real shot.

It's not going to work with this one. and LONG TERM is 2+ years. This didn't even go one month without absolute nuclear bullshit and cheating happening.

So I'm stuck: [irrelevant reasons]

bro you are naive as sin about this one.

NEXT

Learn to vet better. You definitely missed with this one.

Oh don't you love the Guardian!

They really don't understand the world. That would be cuck college not the manosphere? But lets actually examine what she says; Lifting others up. Actually that is what we exist to do -to lift men up out of misery and abuse and help them find happiness and security. Take back responsibility for situations under a man's control -"Actually my no dear" The power of no is revolutionary but its greatest enemy remains thirst. Communications maxxing -yeah actually lots of guys come here asking pretty much just the question she wrote if in slightly different words. But we do advise most of the time against telling women your problems as they just find it a turn off, they rate you as weak and useless. They probably blame you for putting it on them too. I am cool with the idea that men need to accept it is OK to be vulnerable and women need to be safe and heard but I would add that its best not to be too vulnerable in front of women as they never really help and just punish you for it and I would also say its OK for women to he heard but that does not mean obeyed. Sorry ladies, "No" remains an option. My body my choice and all that.

I do not like it... and it deeply upsets me

Oh no! Hold the press! Her Ladyship is upset!

Yeah sorry princess, no one cares if you think it's horrible. It's reality, and your hypocritical attitude and moral outrage will just make it worse for you.

This is the result of generations of male oppression at the hands of the feminist matriarchy. We're in the "bad times create strong men" area now, and you're not going to be pleased when we dismantle your power structures and reinstall the universal, timeless patriarchal norms that used to keep your sex in line.

Men want to be treated like women nowadays

No, we want to be treated like the kings we are. Your job is to get behind a man, stick with him for life, raise his children, keep his castle neat and clean, and support him in every way possible. Welcome to the new world order.