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@SwarmShawarma One of the liberals greatest wins was to make everyone terrified of a war with bombs and then blame this risk on the white male.
@SwarmShawarma The liberal agenda is working. The white male genes are going to diminish and the world will be "saved"
I looked again at verms entry and think we need to establish a circle jerk, otherwise were fucked. The rules will be following a pyramide scheme. Every new entrant has to jerk off existing members.
Enter now ro avoid terrible waste of time.
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Good luck on your journey! I was a very high functioning daily pot smoker for decades. Once I quit about 3 years ago, there were no cravings or struggle, I never looked back and don't miss it at all today. Same in my mid 20s when I gave up cigarettes for good after several lame half hearted attempts. I decided I was DONE supporting the corrupt tobacco companies, quit cold turkey, and carried an open pack of Marlboros in their usual shirt pocket for 3 days before gifting them to a smoker colleague. It's down to deep determination and willpower in the end, and this goes for pretty much all the panoply of human addictions and compulsions. Expect it to feel a bit rough at first, don't beat yourself up and backslide all the way if you give into temptation. Stick to it, and after 3 days I bet you'll find it much more manageable.
Read MoreCutting out cheap dopamine is a great start but you need to replace it with meaningful activities
You have an understandable natural drive coming back but it will calm down when you diversify your dopamine sources: exercise, adventure, companionship, company, good home-cooked food, hobbies, physical touch, etc.
You'll feel less of a sexually insatiable madman when you get a wider variety of healthy dopamine fix in.
When I set boundaries I ask two questions:
1) is this boundary necessary for a relationship ?
2) is this boundary bad for someone's well-being?
If not having a boundary would hurt the relationship make a boundary. If it would be terrible for someone's mental health don't make it a boundary.
Example boundary: no girls nights out at bars, pickup joints, different states/countries (no girls trips). But yes to having female friends and they can go to lunch, restaurants, and tame places people aren't going to get laid
