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[Surely you've all seen this movie?]
That might be a small part of it, but it's a compelling storyline. A man erroneously convicted for something he really didn't do, kept in prison by a corrupt warden, who manages to escape and turn in evidence against the warden and the guards. A lot of entertaining shit happens along the way.
we like the most, what we don't have?
I don't even really remember that being a theme.
A) smells like bullshit from start to finish.
B) I would hate going to a convention. I'm always surprised anyone even goes to those things.
C) you've been using an inordinate amount of emojis lately. Are you sure you aren't on Grinder?!
My favourite part.... and it's subtle but....
"Must be ... within or close (plus or minus 2) to 38 to 50".
Why not write "Must be 36 to 52" ???
if I don't find exactly this (all of my demands met) I'd actually be happier alone.
Hope you will enjoy aloneness as much as you claim then.
Is Shawshank Redemption considered this good because we like the most, what we don't have?
Ok man, that's genuinely tough, it really is.
We often feel a deep bond with our first, and hope that it works again. As men we hold out hope for a reconciliation for a long, long time - wishing for the good times to return.
I don't know where you stand on evo psych, but there are good reasons for this. Partly it's based on scarcity - good times with attractive girls are usually rare. Possibly based on "she's still the mother of my children", and in evolutionary terms (pre birth control), she would have kids by now.
I doubt this helps you much except to say your feelings are real and normal, and I bet a lot of people in your life are not understanding enough about them.
As I read through the first half of your post, I was thinking "yeah, this guy needs to get another girl or three".... and then I got to the punchline and that advice rings hollow. Except it doesn't. It's still true. You're so raw about this because she was your first (and so far only, I think) girl.
The grieving won't ever fully go away, but it will lessen and you'll be more able to cope and function normally, eventually.
I'll end with this: This is genuinely tough, it really is. You've had some rough times, and well done for surviving it. That's all you have to do. Just survive.
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