@Saltycroc Because it's substantially contradicting what you've been indoctrinated in the degenerately gynecocentric society with; such as what the Jewish Hollywood romantic comedies are actually indoctrinating you to believe "that the "nice guy" gets the woman 'cuz he is not a jerk! WAAHHHH" but still in objectively factual reality women are still actually preferring a man who ia actually fun & challenging, not throwing angry insults at them but still masterfully playing the game and having nonverbal asshole attitude without sexually harassing them or physically abusing them, still effectivelly flirting, being actually in fact mentally strong and masterfully treating them like trash in a really high confident IDGAF way.

It's essentially waging war with your inner moral bullshit you have been indoctrinated with from childhood by your mother, the society ("WE HIT WOMEN ONLY WITH ROSE WE HIT THEM! YOU DON'T HIT THEM!"), simping songs about love from beta cucks both in Modern Greek such as in Kazatzidis case which is essentially Turkogypsy cifteteli Oriental beta cuck pussy-slaveing bickering & other effeminate faggot songs of alt rock bands from 2000s by beta eunuchized cucks like Breaking Benjamin or whatever you have subconsciously heard and you shouldn't, beta male teachers and women teachers, the still propagandistically coward Jew Hollywood, etc. It's also actually coming from the fact you've still most cowardly lied to your whole life.

Partially, maybe even being a birth wiring, if you're not born a psychopath, sociopath or someone in fact with still innately very-dark-triad-traits you'll have trouble. Some men actually in fact innately have social aptitude and social charisma. Etc. Many reasons contribute to the escalation of anger phase.