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If you do everything you can for a woman who hates herself she will hate you because you lack the self respect to avoid her.
Instinctively her hypergamous nature knows that by sacrificing everything for her you could not do better
It's a catch 22. Do not save a woman who doesn't even bother to save herself
She knows you are only doing so because you could or would not do better than her
@Bozza I had a similar bait-and-switch at my current job involving per diem
Looking for something else too
We are so cooked. UK gov wants to bring in a law that if you live with a woman for 3 years she has claim to your finances - to bring things upto "modern arrangements".
haven’t posted here in a while, but this past year changed a lot for me. I hit income levels I never thought were realistic, improved my looks, got in better shape, upgraded my lifestyle, and overall became a much more attractive option than I used to be.
Getting attention from women has never been easier. But what I didn’t expect is that the same things that attract women can also create anxiety once they actually start caring.
I recently had a relationship end with a girl I genuinely cared about. From my side, I was loyal and never would have cheated. But from her side, she seemed to feel like I had too many options, that she was replaceable, and that I could never really love her specifically. Eventually it felt like my value became a threat instead of reassurance.
It made me realize looks, money, options, and lifestyle get you in the door, but they don’t automatically make a woman feel safe, chosen, or secure.
Curious if anyone else has experienced this: becoming more attractive/successful made dating easier, but made serious relationships harder because of competition anxiety.
Read MoreShit week for me this week.
My car was broken into. Need to pay out for a new car window. Along with paying out for a car battery charger because the fuckers left my interior light on and ran the battery flat.
Started a new job last week billed as "remote/WFH". Today they pull a switcharoo on me and tell me that as of Monday I will be expected to be in the office full time.
Absolute muggins here took the company at their word. Contract stated "upto 5 days a week in office". I queried it and was told that was standard practice for remote/hybrid roles and that I could be asked to come in "occasionally". Well here we are on week two and they've completely pulled the rug on me. They now want me in 5 days per week -.-
While I'm going to push back, legally I've been snookered. After being unemployed for 6 months I need the cash and I'm not in a position to argue. But it's left a very bad taste in my mouth.
More fool me I suppose. You live and you learn. Guess I'm job hunting again.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv hopefully because they're all busy getting some. I especially hope that for u/clasvr.
I'm glad these know it all boss babes are becoming spinsters because they decided to pick a man's career path while maintaining a woman's sexual strategy
Good luck with that
If we’re talking about long term relationship frame, it’s obviously better if you, the man, has it. And she follows your frame.
In her case, she wanted to do her own thing: move abroad. I don’t know the reasons why (study, work, family, etc), but she chose not to stay in your frame. And this is not “wrong”, as in this world, you are free to have your own frame, or follow in someone else’s, man or woman.
And because she made her own choices, to be in her own frame, by moving abroad, you decided (correctly) that her plans, her frame were not compatible with yours. So you broke up with her. Fair enough, I guess you did want to have sex, and didn’t want to be on the phone 2 hours every night.
But here’s the thing: she has demonstrated that she would rather live in her own frame than in yours. Twice in fact, with the 10 week vacation. She wants to live with the benefits of having her own frame, while being able to fall back to you when it suits her. Hence the on-off, hot-cold behavior.
People are already telling you here, but I’ll say it too. Let her go. You’ve both shown you want the benefits of having your own frames, but also the benefits of being together in one frame. It won’t work. Better for both of you to be free to find what you want.
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