One of my plates is mad about lack of communication. In her defense I did not communicate a couple of big things well to her for my own solid reasons and now she’s gotten really mad.
She texted me about 5 paragraphs about how I don’t communicate and she always has to double text. I told her im literally busy which is true and I don’t have time to respond to texts like I used to.
She just keeps repeating it that im communicated badly. This initially started when I ignored her when she asked about my project… that I haven’t told anyone about, seems like it was pent up.
Anyways she texted another 5 long paragraphs earlier today saying she doesn’t know if its the right time to make seeing each other work, followed by a paragraph stating things havent been the same .
I don’t think dare will work in this situation. Or if anything.
Why care? She's a plate, you've got others. That you've not shared what, if any, critical feedback regarding how your communication skills were lacking in her short essays suggests that she's doesn't value either your time or her own. It's not like you're married or raising kids together, she should've just ghosted you if she wasn't enjoying her time with you.
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Women and second chances in life
Some times in the manosphere is see these absolutes. One of them is "Once a cheater always a cheater." I know this girl that confessed that when she was in academy training that she cheated on her boyfriend. She had a drunken ONS. The reason I ask is because I am reflecting on my past and all the major fuck-ups I pulled. I was busted down in the military, but was retained and I was able to climb the ranks. I was fired from a department and by the Grace of God hired by another agency. If I didnt get those second chances, I would be living in a cardboard box under a freeway. I was wondering about women that have done slutty stuff. Can we write those off as poor judgement and feels over reals and then move on? I do draw the line at high body count, a few is finding yourself, double digits means you are broken beyond repair. But what about the good girl that one night a decade ago tried a MFM threesome? Cheated once because she was isolated and lonely? A caveat is not being currently being cheated on or she is still on the CC. I mean that whatever she did, it was a blip in her radar and it was in her past.
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Read MoreHow do you psychologically handle her being a non-virgin?
I recognize cum dumpsters when I see them. That depraved and exhausted, fully soulless eyes of them. The ones who always get cummed in raw. These are 99% of times 7/10 girls. 7/10 girls are especially notorious for this. Who will wait years for the "perfect" one (they couldn't get anyways), then just straight up become a cum dumpster. Because her staying a virgin in her prime years, those "empty" years had piled up like a mountain for her, and now she must have sex excessively. Everything goes out the window. She will get gangbanged by 10 black/brown guys. Literally. Just for her to feel anything. She has totally became desensitized by the 8 inch cocks. You guessed it, she won't ever be a normal woman! Not like she wanted to be, in the first place. Yes, this is about my old oneitis. My old oneitis, is the definition of a 7/10. She is not better, not worse than that. My old oneitis. In comparison with her they seem like goddesses. Who seem like goddesses? The women that eyefuck me all the time now. Yes, her massive increase in ego that was noticible in those first 3-4 months of us meeting, was brutal. I gave her the first validations and I wasn't illiberal about the amount of it.
Now, after this short introduction, let me tell you about the topic. I saw a 40 year old man on Tiktok who is travelling around countries, and is a virgin. A hopeless one at that. It's not about his looks. It's fully about his stance on girls. He is completely sure that women don't want him. However there is one recurring idea of him that has occupied my mind ever since.
The idea is that, if a woman has been with a guy sexually before, she is ruined. The guy has surely came inside a few times, the semen tainting her pussy forever, it cannot be washed out, etc... He says he wont fuck anything who is a non-virgin. As a result of that, he will probably stay virgin forever. At his age (40) its impossible to get some younger virgin woman.
A completely paramount part of making her sexually satisfied is licking her pussy. But when she is a non-virgin, that one becames completely disgusting for me at least. All the sex methods describe licking as very important. And I assume you extreme sex havers do it also. I know, that girls can shower. They can bathe. But there is some psychological part, and this 40 yo guy is right in this. Everyone from my home country despises this idea, because they'll gladly have sex with whoever they can. They are like: who cares who she has been with, etcc..
I know, that its your turn only. I know, that you endorsed guys aren't exactly the youngest ones to always get together with virgins. Still, how do you manage this thought? Or you just don't even think about it twice?
That's putting the chicken before the egg. Why would any guy experienced with dating open to more than a bang and bounce concern themselves regarding a females sexual history until they've determined if she's mentally stable? If she's got the thousand cock stare, as the females you've described in the first paragraph, that firmly places her as "a nutter", as the Brits would say. Most experienced guys in that situation don't humor any delusions that her sort wants anything more than to bang and bounce.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read MoreWhat does her Instagram bio say about her?
"Hot, young, and having fun. ? Child of God. What I do is between me and him."
She updated it within the last few days.
@MentORPHEUS thanks mento. We have our disagreements but you're a real positive person to have here.
My drug of choice for bipolar disorder.
Self-medicating for legit biochemical issues is problematic in itself. But choosing ALCOHOL, which only ADDS physical, social, psychological, and physical issues ON TOP OF those the underlying bipolar bring? Ugh, what a downward spiral alcohol represents here.
Get in touch with local AA group. From everything I've heard, this has WORKED for countless people who failed at other ways to tackle their alcohol back-monkey. Going cold turkey from heavy alcohol consumption comes with medical risks, something those further down the path of breaking this addiction are best qualified to help with.
The GOOD news here: once you stop poisoning your body with alcohol, the secondary issues often resolve themselves. Alcohol breaks down first into acetaldehyde in the bloodstream, which like its cousin formaldehyde, poisons and hurts EVERY cell in the body, faster than natural building and healing processes can keep up.
Not sure I'd recommend going with a dopamine-pathway manipulator like Naltrexone as a first or even second resort.
You've got this, brother. And, you have a community of men here interested in your well being and development as a man. Admitting the issue and your responsibility for it is a big first step. Now, continue on the path to betterment!
Read MoreUnderstanding Comics: The Invisible Art
“Reading Understanding Comics blew my teenage mind, and gave me a toolbox full of ideas that I still use today.”
Will Eisner Comic Industry Awards Winner, 1994
The bestselling international classic on storytelling and visual communication.
Praised throughout the cartoon industry by such luminaries as Art Spiegelman, Matt Groening, and Will Eisner, Scott McCloud's Understanding Comics is a seminal examination of comics art: its rich history, surprising technical components, and major cultural significance. Explore the secret world between the panels, through the lines, and within the hidden symbols of a powerful but misunderstood art form.
You can find mention of this book on both Youtube, The Internet Archive, and other websites.
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Read MoreYup. I didn't want hookup culture growing up, it's just what I had to deal with. Conceded after around 5th serious relationship went up in smoke. Maybe it's the area I live in.
Hook-up culture's always been around in some form or another just with pithy slang for the young and retarded, duped into thinking their smart because they use codes and acronyms. Participation is optional, but always encouraged among those too stupid to realize it's a trap.
While you may see your relationship situation as not ideal, it's better a relationship end as soon as either party realizes their incompatibility with the other, rather than endure several years of a frictional marriage with children.
Regardless, something in you drives you to sort yourself out, dust yourself off, and try again. I can only pray you never loose that spirit and achieve your goal. For what it's worth, while it's not your fault they're stupid, they will make it your problem all the same. You're not obliged to put up with their stupidity.
Read MoreLOL the EU is planning to draft women!
Wokeness gone amok.
Tbh, I'm all in for equality in the war slaughterhouse, but thinking you might be at the frontline having a woman cover your back... that's absurd.