@Mate1212 what is YOUR estimation of YOUR readiness to start a family, and YOUR financial ability to accomplish this over the 20+ years ahead of us right now?

By your, I don't mean you personally so much as the present generation.

He'll, when I was coming of age way back in the mid 80s, I was able to sense, despite my naively optimistic idealism, that the world my Boomer parents got married and launched our family in, was already gone forever.

I thought I was ready to launch, and propose to my first girlfriend around age 19-20. But in the moment of almost doing it, I felt an inhibition far deeper than what gets called cold feet. She was a decent woman, though not much of a looker, and the relationship part of it might have worked.

But, I felt an overwhelming sense that the Trad life was not going to be the life for me.

I'm not at all regretful. I had all the things- house, cars business. Covid lock downs rug pulled everything I worked for, for decades. Now I live in the remote desert starting financial life over approaching 60.

Mu Brother, who also had all the things, corporate job wife kids house, got that rug pulled when she ran off with the guy she totally wasn't banging on the side till she was. Now he lives in a small townhouse and was driving Uber for a while after the company got bought out and broken apart and his salary and pension vaporized

As my Grandpa said on his deathbed, "I'm not sad, I feel lucky that I lived during a great time. I feel sorry for you and the generations to come, though!

During my life, there was still some meat on the economic bone. The female centric SMP that TRP works to navigate, isn't the cause but a second order SYMPTOM of Late Stage Capitalism. The American Empire is already over the cliff. I caution young men coming of age now, to be careful and realistic what you hope and strive for. A marriage,, family, and kids started now, will have to exist in a world that is ending as we know it forever, within the time frame of kids born today reaching adulthood.

It's practically impossible today to find a woman worthy of becoming a wife and mother of your children.

Even a unicorn usually can't weather the 20-30 years needed to raise a family, and is eventually exposed to be a mashed up mule.

The problem is that men are deprived of the authority needed to enforce the constant readjustments that a woman requires. Women are alien to civilization, any kind of it. And not only marriage, but family itself is a product of civilization.

Dr Helen Fisher, a fientist ("feminist scientist") who is incredulously consider a "world expert" on love, in her book Anatomy of Love concludes that the solution, from her female standpoint, is "forward to the past", a past where women would fuck freely whomever they wanted in the bushes. That is the pinnacle of female existence, whatever we men might say or think.

@Gyaunsi67

What exactly is my girlfriend doing?

Hi! I have a girlfriend and we have a sexual relationship.

Last week, I got into a real brutal fight with her one and only long time best friend who is male. He brutally beat me up in the fight in front of her which left my face suffering bone fractures. The fight happened due to him hating me and I don't know why. I feel like there is no reason. He's so strange. They were best friends before I met her. They are the same age while I am 3 years older than her.

Due to his gym habits, her best friend is muscular with six-pack-abs and big biceps and he is also physically stronger than most people his age such as when it comes to lifting, pulling, pushing, etc. He is also physically robust and strong due to constant manual labor. Also, he is a high-level hardcore MMA fighter while my girlfriend is a hardcore MMA fan.

But here's the weird part about my girlfriend.

After he brutally beat me up, she often hero-worships his MMA fighter identity in front of me, brags to me how amazing of a warrior he is, and how stronger and braver and more fearless he is than me. When I politely disagree neutrally and try to offer a logical explanation why, she often trash talks me about how her male best friend will destroy me easily like how rival NFL fans trash talk each other.

He is literally her idol and she thinks that he is the strongest, most badass person she ever met personally or knows in close proximity.

In front of me and after he brutally beat me up for no reason, she often hero-worships him(like how an overly enthusiastic little boy fans over his favorite male superhero) by saying to me that he has the face of a strong mythical brave legendary heroic young warrior chivalrous knight champion male. She was talking about his facial structures and his face's physical appearance when she said that. She wasn't referring to his personality or skills when she said that.

Honestly, she already hero-worships him these ways before I even met her but doing it after he brutally beat me up? Strange.

Seriously, what the fuck is happening and why is she acting like this to me?

Also, she said this to me:

“Babe, you are my boyfriend but my idol hero and warrior demigod is him.”

And then I was like “What the fuck?”.

What's wrong is that your slut girlfriends pair-bonding ability is completely atrophied, which is just as well. Be sure to DNA test any children any female in the future claims you fathered. Demigods have a habit of siring bastards.

Beyond that, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@Durek_The_Bald

Nuns. Surprisingly, a lot of them do porn. I've seen it.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=4uE96qUlJ_4

With how sophisticated A.I. rending has become and a few prelates having been outed as being involved in organized crime, I don't doubt you've seen women in nuns habits in porn, but unless you're naming names, most people will in the least, conclude most of what you saw was actually cosplay and A.I. renderings.

Entho-exoticism is as real a as ethno-masochism, rooted in the same psychological dysfunction that fuels industries like porn as they've always catered to guys with preferences of all sort. Technology only makes it easier for people to find them. The average porn watcher won't care that the person portraying a Muslim female choking on kafir cock isn't actually Muslim, of Arabian, north African, or east Asian descent anymore so than they care that the tribal wearing blacks weren't plucked straight out of Africa or the native dressed women are actually Italian.

At this point, I'm inclined to conclude short of a brain drain, technology will render this all mute. A.I. rendering will continue to advance raising the bar for women entering porn until they simply can't build the starting momentum needed to carve out an audience for themselves. Androids are also developing greater sophistication, so I expect they'll piggyback on the real-doll gain into the recreational sex market space. Frankly, I'd be surprised if guys flush with cash aren't talking about investing into tech pimping, prostitution, and porn with the same excited enthusiasm as guys talk about investing into crypto-currency today.