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@Vermillion-Rx *feels left out*
The commentariea on my TRP posts are frequently longer than my OPs!
The idea is simple - women are heavily influenced by the perceived desirability of a man to other women. If she sees that other women want you, something switches on that no amount of game, looks, or status can replicate on its own. It bypasses the logical vetting process entirely. You don't get interviewed. You get pursued.
Pre-selection is real and it operates completely below conscious thought - She wasn't sitting there running the logic. A hotter, younger woman showed up, paid attention to a man she'd written off thirty seconds earlier, and something ancient took over. Millions of years of evolution crammed into one pathetic 180 degree pivot at a beer festival.
Human brains are lazy and take shortcuts whenever possible.
Women aren't as visual as men, and determining if a man is worthy of spreading her legs is for is more mental work for them than our determination if a woman passes the boner test. Note that I'm talking about fucking, not commitment or any of that. Throughout human existence until the invention of the birth control pill, uncommitted sex was a huge risk for women, so the threshold was high. This is mostly instinct and they can't help it without a lot of effort.
If another woman has already done the work of determining that a particular man is worthy, it's sometimes easier to try to poach him than to figure out a whole new man. Even better if multiple other women have done the work. That's why so many music stars who are total uggos still have throngs of women in the audience just hoping to get backstage.
It's why some women, when they see my wedding ring, try even harder to get me interested.
It's why so many women mate poach compared to men (that, and they don't have the threat of violence at the same level we do).
Read MoreAs per usual with your field report bangers, this would be a great TheRedPill forum post
No modifications needed. As is good, flaired Redpill example
In the artificial world of meeting strangers at events and in entertainment venues, often noisy, people have little real data to go on. In such situation small data points may be all people have and so their consequence may be exaggerated. Its definitely worth bearing in mind.
Had a very interesting example the other day of the power of pre-selection.
Met up with some buddies and we went to this event. Bit like a beer festival I suppose. It's outside, there's music and lots of tables. Everyone drinks beer until late in the evening.
One of the guys I was with bumps into one of his friend and he brings us over to his table to join his group. I'm sat on the end of the table with a few other guys and two girls, both early 30's. I introduce myself and start making some conversation.
Very quickly, the girl sat next to me starts making conversation. what do you do, how do you know X etc. - the usual pleasantries.
As this goes on, it becomes very apparent that she is vetting me. She is doing what I would call "the job interview".
Lot's of questions all aimed at vetting me, my status, my frame etc. What's your job. Where do you live. What are you hobbies. What's your politics. What music do you like. With a few IoIs sprinkled in.
I hate women like this, and I always find it's the late 20s - 30s women who do this. As soon as she started I became disinterested. But it's still fun to wind them up and play upto the crowd.
A short while later this guy turns up, presumably someone that she knew. He pulls up a chair between me and her and they have a brief conversation. Her demeanour is one of complete apathy beyond social pleasantries. She goes back to interrogating me.
Some time later, a girl turns up. This girl is smoking hot. Mid twenties. She squats down next to him and they begin chatting for 5 - 10 minutes before she walks off.
Almost immediately interrogation girl turns her undivided attention towards this guy and her entire demeanour changes. Her apathy turns to flirty and playful. No interrogation at all.
Quite frankly, I was happy to get rid of her and go back to chilling with the main group. But for the next few hours (until I left) she was following him round like a puppy.
Read MoreYes, but there is meeting in the middle laterally (side to side) in which you are making lateral concessions – maybe you are just sacrificing some progress/resource/time to meet someone in the middle
And then there is meeting someone in the middle vertically - in which they are beneath you (morally, because they are being a piece of shit, manipulative, etc., and dealing with them is the lesser of evils)
And I'm saying that it's best to just take the L in a lot of cases than try to meet someone in the middle beneath you
