Why are you acting like you just went through war after you saw plenty of posts saying OLD was going to likely be a waste of time

1 ) sees dozens of posts saying not to use OLD
2 ) uses old anyway
3 ) feels bad
4 ) makes AskTRP post about ignoring warnings

Look. You more than likely struggled on OLD for the same reasons you'd struggle in in person. Need to have a more vibrant and interesting life (didn't have that in your photos to begin with), needed to improve your style and lift more (not shown in your photos) didn't have enough friends to improve your social skills (not in your photos) and probably didn't "get it" (understand women; likewise probably wasn't evident in your bio/DMs)

If you're struggling a lot on OLD, you probably aren't doing a good job of recording your in person life for photos, and probably because you can't get it on photo because you don't have it to photograph. OLD lives and dies on your pics before a word is spoken

Secondly, women on OLD do not act like women in person. I have been ghosted and ignored by women on OLD who I later organically crossed paths with in person (and they didn't recognize me) and they were very interested in me. I just about alpha widowed one of them. She didn't even respond my message back on Hinge and I ended up hitting it 100+ times and then she wouldn't stop staring at me after I told her I was done seeing her

Women are delusional on apps. They have 2500+ likes in two weeks, talking to 50 guys at once — most conversations are "hey" and "wyd?" - and even the majority of the guys they tried tomatch with suck.

Of the guys they go out with they still are narrowing down their options to a couple dozen men and most of those men are matching with half the town and not trying to settle down with anyone so it's an endless pump and dump app even for cute women. And that's on top of all the men these app women are still meeting in person so they are delusional with the amount of choice they have

If your profile on OLD does not stand out is because your pics are not good and they are spoiled for choice

We told you not to use it, you used it, and now you feel bad. Stop the pity party and make the improvements you should have made in the first place

Overwhelming view on trp was that online dating is usually not too much of substance and is not as fun as irl but peer pressure or jealousy was I should give it a try once cz I have this bud who has chiseled jaws crystal green eyes and thick eyebrows he was getting nudes everyday I felt kinda jealous cz even though I'm not top tier in looks I was abit better than the rest of the guys who were doing this stuff long story short many girls blocked me I got minimal views minimal likes it broke my self esteem now I'm wanting to delete my insta account and go clean irl but I still have this urge maybe I'm not doing it right what should I do I need brutal actionable advice that would help me either maybe grow on social media in the looksmax and self improvement spectrum or just go all in on one source of dating social circles and cold approach pls help guys after every hit on my self esteem all I can think of is jerk off you jerk off. It doesn't help that blackpill seethes in everytime I'm in doom gloom mindset. Yes ik I didn't write this para properly just bare with me

Guys can start the talk in bumble, but huge majority don't, and out of few who does, some make the comment that "this is an app im which woman starts the talk"

Well, ladies, you are the ones putting the goods up on display. I see you're cute and have a nice ass and tits, but what I want to know is what you are offering outside of all the other hundreds of girls who are cute with nice asses and tits.

I'm very independent person

You showed your cards too soon. What I hear is, combative, competitive, and not cooperative. What I hear is that instead of following my lead, you are going to do what you want. What I hear is you are going to question every decision I make that doesn't benefit you exclusively.

Sorry, sweetheart, not interested. I'm sure there's a lovely bear out there somewhere just perfect for you.