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Almost gets it. She played the dread game. It worked but most dread game players -men and women are needy and hiding it. I bet she was really needy and that drove them away. Dread doesn't really make you love anyone, just fear losing them. It has its uses but as a day to day strategy it is retarded.
She is right to drop it now though. Now she is not the 20 something prize with working ovaries and no brats. Now she is a charity case. Better ask for what you want. Would have been better from the start but never mind. Bet you did OK anyway when you took Beta's shit and ran at menopause. It worked out till now. Now it gets harder. happily we can just say "Manout"
Sheesh, she has one amazing hamster wheel. Its like a wheel in a gyroscope. She can hamster every angle. She is having her eggs harvested at 38 because of non committal men. She only wanted FWBs for a while. She only had one non committal guy. A Chad wanted to marry her for 6 years. She thinks the patriarchy exists and benefits men after a life of calling the shots with them and dumping them, only getting once burnt with a player.
Ok lady you are a perfect example of an attractive woman (I am assuming the photos was of an attractive woman before it was covered up?) who played the field and rode the carousel tell she was all ridden out. I bet she will trey to "settle" in the next few years. It won't work. She ruined herself by enjoying her options.
So I am retiring the strategy. I am done auditioning for the role of Cool Girl. She was exhausting to play – and frankly, the reviews were mixed. I’m replacing her with a woman who texts back. Who says what she means. Who admits she wants to be held. It is a terrifying bet. It goes against 30 years of training. But I’m betting on this: The right man won’t want a challenge to conquer. He’ll want a partner to rest with. And God knows – I am ready to rest.
One tiny problem there... that right man was 30 years in her past. Your average 50-year old man has too much experience with women and not enough attraction for aged hags for her to have a realistic chance.
I wasn’t training them. I was hiding.
Oh but you were training them you stupid hag. It just wasn't training them to do what you wanted. You were teaching them that "anyone else" would be a better prospect. You and millions upon millions of crones and crones-to-be, all of you marching in lockstep for decades, meaningfully differentiated only by the increasing wrinkles of age etched upon your faces like serial numbers for slags.
And now you have your just rewards. Solitude, desperation, and the indifference of men that realized they can do better than you.
We treat them mean because we think kindness reads as desperation in a woman our age. And the deeply annoying part is: it works. Beautifully. Just in the wrong direction. Treat ‘em mean is a filtration system for avoidants.
Oh look, a split second of clarity...
When you perform unavailability, you don’t attract secure men. Secure men don’t want a puzzle. They want a person. They want to know if you’re free on Friday so they can book a table. Play the game, and you attract the hunters – men who love the chase because the chase requires no intimacy. Men addicted to voltage. To uncertainty. To the spike.
There it is, the cope and blame redirection instead of admitting she was chasing men too far above her station in life instead of settling for a mere mortal on the same level as herself. Bitch-Icarus flew too close to the Chad-sun and her wings melted but somehow that's all his fault.
Drown in the sea you cunt.
Read MoreMost men actually want and benefit most from relationships
Oh yeah? Are those men all using time machines to get women who put real effort in a relationship, instead of just spreading her legs and expecting her man to spoil her for it?
I don't even get what the hamster is doing anymore, what does the modern woman actually believe she's contributing in a serious relationship that compensates all the shit she demands?
Brevity is often valued in writing, so I've decided to help her out. Free edits, you're welcome ma'am.
In my 20s
, this felt like power. (It was mostly fear in better lighting but I didn’t know that yet.) I mastered breezy indifference. I timed my texts to the minute: double the time he took, plus 10 for mystery. I thought I was teaching men my value. I thought I was training them to love me.I was attractive.But I am 51 now
. Looking back on that first year of dating after divorce at 50 – the apps, the profiles, the quiet violence of being matched and discarded by an algorithm – I realise something uncomfortable: I wasn’t training them. I was hiding.and am no longer attractive.
Yep, she looks like plenty of girls that didn't think I was worthy early on.
Men build, women collect gifts.
So it took me a while to build, and now I'm able to do whatever I want. I smile to myself about the girls that passed, they'd shit themselves if they knew what resources I have now. But of course, they all have stretch marks and opinions like the author, and really aren't any fun to be around.
No thanks, I'll keep living my stress-free life.
