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this was my first experience with a girl that was exactly my type,
She ticks lots of idealized boxes you have inside your mind.
But... BUT... she's proven herself as NOT your type, by one of the most important measures of all: the level of attraction and commitment she feels for YOU!
Long and hard experience, and copious sharing of notes, shows that virtually nothing you do will turn this situation around to what you hope for. Further, that TRYING anyway, ends up working against you by many measures, from opportunity cost, to pride and self esteem, to the woman sometimes willfully exploiting your attraction with zero intention of delivering anything you actually want, aside from minimum scraps of attention to keep you on the hook.
Accept that you shot your shot, it didn't develop how you hoped and never will, and relegate this woman to the scrap heap of your attraction/dating history.
This makes you fully mentally and physically available to pursue other prospects, and land a woman who DOES act the part of holding mutual attraction with you.
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They get attached to emotion, fickly. It's easy to sudden evaporate her interest.
Does sex equal a more intense attachment - of course.. but are the fan girls of top chart celebs fucking those guys?
My real honest opinion is, don't worry about it. You can be fuckin a girl for a while, think she loves you or sees you as special, just to find out she's blowing her botox technician.
Edit/addendum:
Yes, of course men and women have some drives and instincts that are different from each other, such as men being willing to fuck almost anything, and women being hypergamous. Didn't phrase the original one very well, but the point still stands.
@Kloi The average dude says he likes bitchy entitled women with short hair, if he thinks it'll get him a chance. Most guys don't have so much a preference as they do have a justification for whomever will give them attention.
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She's 39 with no kids. In other words, 20 years on the cock carousel and becoming the man she always wanted.
Where have all the good women gone?
