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@MentORPHEUS There are so many vested interests making money off the current state of affairs that major changes don't seem possible. It's very unfortunate. Regulatory and fiscal changes could improve some markets, but I don't see it happening. Average people don't have enough information about how certain markets work, and those who do have the information want to keep things as they are or rig them further.
I can't even follow her logic. Some Chad dumped her, so, she wants strangers to call him to get his side of the story? Wtf?
Here's the truth lady. It's on you to police Chad's behavior because you're the only person that has something he wants. Give it away for nothing, and he'll learn he can get it for nothing. Make him work for it, and he'll learn he has to work for it. Choose a nice guy to fuck and he'll become a nice guy.
If a random dude walked up to him and asked him to change his behavior, what exactly is his leverage? Chad's not looking for sex from a dude (not that there's anything wrong with that ;) why would he even listen.
So, no, you can't outsource your responsibility for his behavior to the rest of men. It's on you and the rest of the sisterhood that reward his behaviors with pussy.
Read MoreYou're not being honest with yourself first and foremost!
If you can't have a minor disagreement without going out and getting hammered and cheating on her, you need to do a lot of self reflective work on you.
Stop promising exclusivity if you can't deliver on it. If you want to keep thingsnopen that's fine. But stop making promises. The guilt is going to chew away at you.
Don't tell her about your infidelity. Your pushing your guilt onto her and hurting her in the process. I suggest ending it with her. It will suck, but you need to work on yourself.
Here comes the uncomfortable truth. This is your medicine. You are a professional victim.
Everything your bitching about is your choice. Let's just cut the shit. You've done nothing and you aren't doing anything to improve your situation. Do you really think there's a magic answer when you're putting yourself in these stupid situations?
Get off your ass and fucking try. You're worried about coming off as a loser because you're being a loser.
You're 40 years old man. Grow some balls and lay down boundaries and consequences with your parents. It's your house invite women over. Read what you wrote and tell me if bitching has yielded you any results?
@SeasonedRP Agreed! And, for the record, I'm not advocating for Real Socialism^TM, of the type which has Never Been Tried. I'm calling out how Normal in our American political system, has drifted SO far from the norm of serving the needs of average citizens, to serving the Crony class exclusively in Zero Sum with the needs of average citizens. The American Right, has gotten conditioned to not just welcome this destructive trend, but actively treat government services as all bathwater and no baby.
it's real sassy out here
We learned it from women like you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. We're in our cupcake era! You pay for drinks, strong and independent women!
Chances are you make more than all of us anyway.
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Cope. You wish you had kids and you didn't. You are a useless woman* No worries, there are millions of others like you. Go marry one of them and die alone. Maybe your girlfriends will care. I won't.
* I would of course make an exception for a woman who was physically unable to have children, but wanted to, and remained loyal to one husband for life, making his life easier in every respect. But we both know you aren't this kind of woman.
deserve a weekend in jail
Ok, but only if we pass/enforce fornication/adultery laws (many of which are still on the books in various states). Also, you have to act like a lady, respect all men simply for being men, and wear a head covering in public, as most of your foremothers did.
If you expect this kind of special treatment, it merely proves you are the kind of woman who doesn't deserve it.
The mid girls are what I called "coyotes". They usually have a symbiotic relationship with the 8-10s. They know they can't compete, so they hang with the 8-10s. The 8-10s get to look hot next to their coyote friend, and the coyote friend gets to hang in the back a little to devour any carcasses the 8-10s leave behind. Also, like @TJMS mentioned, they are the bitchiest of bitches. They will be quick to shout down any mid-guys trying to go after their hot friend. They want the hot scraps.
OP, haven’t you posted on here about your own cheating ruining your relationship before?
My dude, the real answer to your dilemma(s) would have been to just not cheat in the first place. If you really can’t control yourself or don’t want to be exclusive, just don’t agree to an exclusive commitment.
All these other gymnastics in your head are damage control. Figure out your own behavior first. What makes you do what you do and why.
