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3h ago 2026-10-16 09:39:14 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
Yes, this is my second post in one day. Yes, we usually want 1 post max per poster, per day.
Mod privilege, bitchachos!
You will never find peace with this woman. Her insecurities and jealousy will turn into an attempt to control you.
Every single day, you will be constantly having to defend yourself, constantly having to keep your mouth shut, constantly having to fight off false allegations, and constantly have to be walking on eggs shells.
Is this the relationship you're willing to maintain for the next 10 years? 20 years? 50 years?
There's also the double standard of the same women who are mad at Shane Gillis literally just got finished bitching about Sidney Sweeney not wearing clothes in that sports ad.
It's wild to me that they would walk face first into that contradiction so soon.
The only reason the Manosphere exists is because of the Sisterhood.
The Sisterhood shit on men, abused men, put innocent men in prison, oppressed men, and called for the outright killing of all men.
The Manosphere exists to protect MEN and keep THEM safe from the Toxic Feminism of the Sisterhood.
1.5 months and you're fighting weekly?
She already broke up with you?
What are you thinking?
I still want to flirt, talk to bitches on Insta, cold approach, and so on and thats a fun lifestyle not gonna lie.
So do you want to fight with this girl constantly or do you want to enjoy the abundance of what's out there?
About 1.5 months ago I got into an LTR
No, you got into a relationship. It's not long term yet. A Long Term Relationship is measured in years, not months. It might become an LTR later, but it isn't one yet.
Since making it official, we've been fighting weekly over small things
Next!
1)She broke up with me for a few hours
Next!
she's a genuinely great partner
A) does not compute with what you've already said.
B) lol "partner".
she's peaceful
What?! Peaceful, but starts fights all the time?!
I want to actually give a monogamous LTR a real shot
Did you ever read the sidebar?
From probably the most important post on it, HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches:
2) A long-term relationship CANNOT be your end goal. You can only be OPEN to the possibility of having one.
Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Since a relationship is what you have to offer, you mustn’t just give it away. It must be a reward she earns in small doses for inspiring your trust and devotion.
I understand that many of you want a LTR with a good girl – sometimes a series of flings isn’t enough to fulfill you. Believe me, I sympathize.
But winning a LTR is HER problem, not yours. Handing a girl your devotion won’t magically make her worthy of it. When you WANT a LTR too badly, you place your focus on the idea of having a relationship instead of evaluating the girl. You become fixated on your fantasy relationship and selectively ignore the things happening right in front of you: her deep character flaws, her indiscretions, and the red flags.
You must regard women as candidates applying for the job of being your girlfriend – a supporter, a lover, a comfort away from the everyday battles. Don't just hire a bitch because you want the position filled. Make sure you vet your candidates fiercely and hire the right girl for the job.
Can I realistically keep flirting and approaching while in an LTR, or do I need to pick a lane?
Again, you aren't in an LTR yet, but speaking as a dude who's been married 21 years: it greatly benefits you to keep your skills sharp with other women. The preselection helps keep your woman attracted to you. You don't lose your edge. It keeps your confidence up when you know you have other options.
You can handle it better. If she gives you grief, just say something like "I can't help it if I'm charming!"
But this woman sounds like someone not to keep around.
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LTR = long term relationship. 2+ years
You guys need to stop calling new relationships LTRs.
