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As younger good men reach their late 20s, they will increasingly conclude that the supply of genuine good women is far too low, so they will do a ROI and choose to withdraw from the dating cesspool altogether and live the best life they can manage as either a passport bro or as a lifelong bachelor.
This critical shortage of good men who are still willing to be "settled" for continues, the demand for good men will only increase, but like trying to purchase a Rolex Daytona, these modern women will discover that desire will go on being unmet.
You're giving her subconscious too much credit - she's not choosing that guy because she's detecting high evolutionary fitness, she's choosing that guy because he's a puzzle she can't figure out - more like a video game with the right win/loss ratio.
She told you the story leaving out the times he was nice to her, charming, etc - because those are default and expected. There were definitely times he gave her a dose of sweetness, almost definitely he was giving her a sense of safety and making her feel sexy when she was there, late at night, getting prego.
You want to believe that there was a rational smart choice there, only the smart choice was pre-modern and tied to what wins on the Serengeti - it wasn't that. She's got trauma of various kinds, internal demons she struggles with - and he presented as a video-game that she could re-explore that trauma with, attempt to revisit the old wound, maybe do it differently this time...
And most of the time, that's trauma to do with her dad. So odds are, she picked him and put up with it, because it activated old wounds to do with her dad.
Read MoreShe says that she's celibate, a few years ago the only time the average modern women experienced involuntary celibacy was during the COVID lockdowns, but as many good men and a number of Chads have walked away in greater numbers in the last couple of years, she might be forced to suffer involuntary celibacy once again while trying to sell it like a virtue.
Celibate or not, it doesn't change the fact that she has likely already accumulated a body count higher than an 80s action film franchise.
What she mostly wanted was a Chad to help her. If I had volunteered, "May I help you with that?", she would have gladly accepted. Then after giving me a quick once-over, I would have immediately returned to being one of her "invisibles." You got this, sweaty.
Only a weekend in jail?
Pffsht. What a mushy, soft-headed lib. It's like she wants us to continue not lifting her bags.
@Saltycroc one of the big advantages of not being married or living together, is that ending things when she's no longer adding any value to your life is easy.
It's one thing if someone is tired or has a legit reason not to fuck as a one-off. Habitual denial just to watch you squirm, whatever her dumb mouth-noises are to the contrary? She's lost attraction and worse, respect for you.
Whatever effort it would take to get those things back from her, would be better expended on new women with whom you have a fresh start. Just don't repeat any mistakes.
