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if you really "love" her that much you can try keeping her around as a plate but I concur with everyone else telling you to stop simping and move on. and especially dont be buying flowers and gifts for a chick who acts like this. I generally dont buy them anything but if you were gonna do that it should be as a reward for good behavior, not some attempt to buy her re-investment in you. that's capital S simping my brother.
she's not special and there's millions more just like her. keep it moving
You're simping bro. She's controlling the frame and you're bending over backwards for this woman. Get the fuck out, date other women and knock of this oneitis bullshit.
This level of drama is unnecessary and you can do better and deserve better.
Why have you assumed that it is your job to fix whether or not she is fully invested in you? That assumption is what you need to fix.
On-and-Off relationships happen because the two people are only half compatible.
That's why she says, "Something is missing." Which happens to be other 'compatible half' she's looking for that you don't have.
It's the same on your side as well. There's something there, and it's really good, but there's something that's just 'off'.
I know you're all in on this when you're together, but you have to accept that you're just not going to make this work.
What isn't there is going to make you crazy, and what is there is only going to keep you from finding that whole compatibility.
The best thing for both of you is to just amicably go your separate ways.
If she's not 100% good for you, then she's 0% good for you.
I was this fool, 40 years ago.
There's NO pathway to salvaging this into a functional and beneficial relationship.
Cut all ties with her. All the thought and energy you're expending on her, are better invested into yourself and other opportunities.
Reading assignment: The Sunk Cost Fallacy.
I think the other guys answered pretty well here but ill just toss in my 2 cents.
Being good looking helps tremendously for getting your foot in the door, but if you're awkward it kills their attraction quickly. some girls might tolerate it more than others and generally speaking the better you look the more you can get away with it, but she can totally find you physically attractive and then get the "ick" because your confidence wasn't congruent with your looks.
if a chick rejects you just next her and forget about it. you can't negotiate attraction. she might decide she wants you later but that's her prerogative at that point. dont waste your time waiting around or trying to ask her out again.
a girl smiling at you could be an IOI or she could be smiling because she thinks you're a dork and finds it amusing. IOIs can be tricky to decipher. it's likely her initial expression was an IOI but later changed to one of amusement rather than attraction after she rejected you.
I'm more or less re iterating what other guys said here but dont be an orbiter, dont catch oneitis and work on your game. looking good is great but having game is also important. girls are sensitive to discrepancies in your behavior and if you look like a Chad but dont act like one that incongruence is going to turn them off.
once you've turned a girl off and she has categorized you in her mind as not good mating material it is much more difficult to get a second shot with the same girl than it is to simply learn from your mistakes and do better with another one starting from a blank slate.
use this as a learning experience and GFTOW
Read More@Lone_Ranger Feminists all hate men who go with whores. But they like whores. Yet without thirsty men there are no whores.
Its the same as liking supermarkets and hating shoppers.
In fact thinking about it, the don't do well with the symbiotic relationship of customer and business. They like flying abroad. They like heating their home. They hate fossil fuel pollution.
Usually its the producer of things they like that they hate. But since whores have vaginas, its the customer they hate. In Sweden he is actually a criminal while a whore is a legitimate business. How is that even possible? How did we ever get so cucked?
