She is asking for this at 35. Not only is she in the wrong period of time to be asking for this, but she is also the wrong age to be able to expect this. What you want and what you expect are often different, and it is best to operate based on what you expect than what you want, since wants are basically just wishes, only there is no magic genie to grant them. And as for expectations, they also must be realistic for this to work.

Another thing, she better have her homemaking skills on point if she wants "someone to take care of her." Because marriage is already a distasteful prospect for many men in ideal circumstances. With a 35 year old woman, you will be lucky if you can have 1 or 2 naturally born children without IVF. So at bare minimum she better be able to offer a man the ability to make a home cooked meal and keep the place tidy. And by "home-cooked", I don't mean something you take directly from the freezer section of the grocery store and pop in the oven. I mean meals from scratch with ingredients that need some peeling, cutting, and cooking. She would not need to be a master chef, but things like soups, roasted meat with various vegetables, pasta, or any other equivalent effort meal should be done.

But based on the "take care of me" mindset, I don't think she is thinking about that side of the equation. And I doubt a lifetime of being a "boss-bitch" has properly prepared her for what she would need to do to get a man she is thinking of. And such a man who would provide that is most likely going to look elsewhere than a 35 year old. Or perhaps she better be fine with older men, who might accept a relatively younger woman.

Yes, living on your own is hard. Humans are not designed to be high-agency individuals all the time. We need a group and people to belong to. The strong, independent girlboss lifestyle will never make you happy.

So as a woman who has now seen the light, what are you going to do about it? Will you tell the youngsters to not waste time partying? To not fuck guys they barely know while also going on traditional dates with the romantics? To prioritize building a good relationship early on so they don't end up in your shoes, desperate and alone?

Of course not. Let's just keep encouraging girls to act like fucktoys until no man with an ounce of self-worth would ever want them in a serious relationship. Then when they get older, they can complain about how shallow men are, and eventually die confused and alone, never knowing where they went wrong.