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@Victor I would like to taste beaver, elk, whale, moose, elephant steak, lion, gazelle, antilope, dog (yes, even dog), horse and reindeer. If they can FOMO market those then I am eager to buy (no artifical chemicals and atrazine though).
@Baron i see where your coming from, but i disagree.
I think the only thing that makes your frame congruent here is confidence.
Polarity has always done wonders. Polarity in itself can be peacocking as long as you have the confidence to match it. It doesn't sound like your example would work, but thats because you haven't seen it.
I know a guy who is absolutely jacked, he's huge, does steroids of course. But he drives a pink golf.
He gets a lot of girls and their attention whereever he goes.
It's not as fun as it seems
There is a novelty when the first woman or two are pushy on you and won't take no for an answer and then it just gets annoying and messes up your dynamic with other women you already have
It's not that great
I'm going to chime in here because I see a problem that I've run into. Women sometimes have ideas that they love. The idea that she's going to find her Prince charming that's going to come sweep her off her feet and give her a lease on life.
You come along and notice that she's attractive. This is the initial attraction to her. You guys get shot going and then you realize that she's invested. Too much. There's no challenge only a hardcore cling on her end.
There's a difference between being needed and desired you body will know that before you mind does.
This is when the more invested she is, the more turned off you are. Because it's not you she's investing in, it's the idea of you.
I mistook that for genuine desire for years. Now looking back I can see the patter and what caused it.
Bro, if she's not doing it for you, do the kind thing for both of you and sever the connection.
Read MoreYou are attracted to her physically but are you attracted to her in other ways? In my experience when its is "right" it always comes easily.
You really don't want to go further than you are comfortable with a nice girl who is serious. It will hurt you inside when you hurt her.
........found a girl on instagram.......texting.......talking to her...........
sounds like you have just fallen into this sort of quite female coded 'dating' thing.
this is a girl you have not even banged? it sounds like you are far too invested and over thinking.
