The Sexual Market Place is a parable. It is meant to represent a model and a model only. A predictive and useful model that nails the task of implanting the basics of Red Pill into the student. Its usefulness ends there. Because the SMP is not a tool for self-actualization. Excelling at the “market” is not your purpose in life. Cascades from this idea lead to all sorts of perversions and discussions on Game and Value that ultimately miss the point.

What is your purpose in life and Game

Are you in Game to bang girls? Are you in Game for the hedonistic purpose of sticking your dick into women?

Have you ever had pointless sex to understand the emptiness of sex just for sex? Using the girl as a masturbation machine to be forgotten the next day? It is not worth it like that; this is alleviating the symptom, not the cause. At the end of the day, paying a whore will always be effort positive towards you. Even at advanced stages of Game, if Game were to be just a “job” to “buy” sex, then I guarantee you, working overtime on your normal job and hiring an escort instead is the play.

So, the point is not about the sex. Well, let me tell you it is not about women either. Have you seen animals in the zoo, bears do this and monkeys do this: they make bored, silly faces, all life sucked out of them... and they masturbate. Masturbation symbolizing the emptiness of their existence. They never do this in nature... maybe, have they been hyper-sexualized?

Do you see my point now? When you think of women and think of adventure, companionship, and connection - depending on which angle you observe the thought - you are missing the point. You find this adventure, companionship, and connection in them only because you have no other way to find those.

Do you have any friends? True male friends to bond over the hunt and campfire like your ancestors did? Can you roam into the forest and be truly free, do whatever you like, explore however you like, let your curiosity run wild? Of course you can’t; that’s why you are regressing to seeking that in women.

Don’t get me wrong, in the modern world, you don’t have any alternatives. All space is owned by some state or another, and they will force you to submit to their petty and arbitrary rules. The times when you could enforce your own justice based on the strength of your ability and might are long gone now. Same is true of your connections. Respect is a concept long gone. Because respect for another man comes from a shared understanding of good and beauty. But no such thing is possible in the cult of identity. Uniqueness for the sake of uniqueness. Brokenness and incoherence everywhere that makes the man weak. Even if you could find your so-called “true friends”, you would be too weak to achieve much of anything.

The hunting part of courtship is the only space that is relatively unmoderated. This with an asterisk. On one hand, courtship that is primarily regulated by hormones has to be free. Because the hormones themselves bow to no rules. The wildness of the female spirit and sexuality, is still that, unregulated wildness. On the other hand, the social programming of the last 60 years has invaded exactly that free and wild space. It invokes petty rules and boundaries even in the realm of courtship. That is the one true reason many of us find satisfaction in more feminine cultures, with so-called traditional gender roles. These are just cultures where the female spirit hasn’t been constrained.

But understand this: satisfaction in Game comes from the adventure. It doesn’t come from the fucking. It is you, your skills, and the wildness of the social battlefield. You are on a raid to conquer. The loot is just that... the cherry on top. The adventure itself is your true purpose.

I strongly disagree that replication is our purpose in life, taking precedence over many other functions. I believe copulation and the generation of new life in humans is an instinct that only kicks in after a sufficient level of self-actualization. At the basic level, think the fate of the mantis, where he is being beheaded from the female while he is sticking his dick into her. Do you not feel the aversion to this fate? Do you not feel the aversion of your life purpose being reduced to a shoot of sperm, carrying half of your genetic composition? On the non-basic level, think of the fate of the depressed millionaire. Spending his days on his dark head, with life having no meaning - that is success with no meaning. Is popping a kid into a woman the thing that will give him purpose in life? Are you mad?

There is a higher force and a higher satisfaction that comes from a successful seduction. It is not mechanics, and it is not gene propagation only. It is the act of achievement, the use of skillset, the creation of something out of nothing. There is a bottom version of seduction - the fucking. There is a higher and noble version of it - the art. That is why picking up a slut from the dance floor at 4am feels empty, that is why fucking a whore feels empty.

The Sexual Market Place

Sufficient iterations of Game and intersexual theory have gone to incredible depths. Knowledge of male and female psychology has never been understood better than to this day. The SMP, however, with all its genius, is just a perversion of the concepts. Because the SMP is meant to signify a signpost, a scientific and predictive tool, not a thing in itself. It doesn’t exist as a fixed structure; it only exists on the first level of abstraction - not a true representation, instead, a low-resolution image.

So what is the issue with the SMP? By acknowledging its existence, you have given yourself a new set of rules and boundaries to trap you. The point of Game is the conquering. You have your skillset, and you need to apply it to make something out of nothing. You are not a point in the SMP graph; you are a range of points, all conditional on how you use your social skills in the short to medium term. There is no fair exchange, there is only “risk assessment” to where your skills can take you. The SMP is guidelines, what is good and what is bad, but under no circumstances should it be viewed as an absolutist list of prices, what X in male value can buy Y in female value. Because your X doesn’t exist, as a man, you make that X. Static value is only for women, that is the curse of looks. And you should be thankful for it, because static value implies no agency.

All this leads to my next point. The issues that spring from taking the SMP too literally. That is the Online Game type of guy: Looksmaxx, get your finances in order and get your value sky-high. Then girls will pick you, bro! Putting effort is for Betas! Does that sound fun to you? Did you already forget the purpose of Game we discussed above? By acknowledging that mindframe, you already forfeited the challenge of the adventure for the perversion that is lack of agency. You do X and optimize Y, then you expect the teacher to come to you, say “Good boy”, and give you a girl to pork. It is fundamentally a weak and reactive position. And it will stay like this, regardless of you tapping a girl here or a girl there. You are the depressed millionaire in search for meaning.

That exactly is the difference that gives meaning or not. Expecting to chart your own path vs waiting someone to praise you for excelling at something. From the former, SMP is a navigating tool; from the latter, SMP is a prison no different than the one you had before. The SMP doesn’t have a predetermined slot with your name on it. You force yourself into the SMP, and you make that slot for you. And you only occupy that slot in the moment and in context, not universally. That is only the correct way of understanding it, and by extension, understanding Red Pill in general.

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