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@Saltycroc several reasons, mostly simple:
1) Briffault's Law always applies. If the woman decides she's no longer benefiting, the relationship ends.
2) women make decisions based off of instinct and emotion. Don't expect their decisions to make any logical sense to an outside observer who is missing information (such as where she is in her monthly cycle).
3) it's frequently not about which man is objectively best, but rather the one she perceives (read feeeeeels) is best. This is why women's parents picked their husbands for millennia across all cultures; young women are terrible pickers. A man you perceive as "alpha" might be a spineless wimp when dealing with his woman behind closed doors. Famous example: Will Smith with his wife.
4) there's no such thing as an "alpha male". Alpha and beta are better understood as traits and behaviors that all men possess and display to varying degrees, with "alpha" being arousal and "beta" being comfort. This ties back to Briffault's Law and what the woman wants in that moment.
5) women are almost always seeking upgrades, especially if not currently satisfied for whatever (usually frivolous) reason.
6) some (many) women are just sluts, plain and simple.
Read MoreSo theres no real way of guaranteeing they wont cheat?
Nothing in life is ever guaranteed.
The best you can do is make your odds as favorable as possible.
I guess ideally you would want to be both “alpha” and “beta” then.
Beta/comfort must be earned by the woman. If you give too much too soon, you'll put her off.
If you consistently withhold it over time, she'll leave.
How are you actually meant to form any kind of connection with someone if thats the case?
You can still form connections. Just be ready for connections to end.
Have you read the sidebar material at the Married Red Pill subreddit?
I mainly recommend Athol Kay's book for the stuff you're asking. It's foundational for MRP, and I recommend guys who never plan to get married read it as well.
I know we're all a bunch of hard-asses on here, but if this doesn't move you then you're a block of ice:
I alpha widowed my girlfriend by creating a daily vacuum where I check in only in the evening instead of actively text checking in with her throughout the day.
So theres no real way of guaranteeing they wont cheat?
My perception was that if you were “alpha” they wouldn't cheat.
I guess ideally you would want to be both “alpha” and “beta” then.
But then I'm guessing even then theres still a chance they will still cheat?
How are you actually meant to form any kind of connection with someone if thats the case?
Why do women cheat on alpha males?
If anyone could point me to an article or some kind of reading material on this topic that would be appreciated.
At 39, it is game over. What was she doing at 25 or 29? Was she chasing Chad or Bad Bois? FAFO.
Good to read you held on to your balls and didn't let het move in.
It seems you are learning, so your next relationship will be much better.
