Had a situation where an ex told me about a guy she used to talk to (she still talked to him at the time) and said that he was cute, out of nowhere, when everything was going well so. Wasn't sure if it was the fact that she was autistic, her subconsciously or consciously trying to push my buttons or just mental retardation. I remember being so tilted by it that I went non verbal and she eventually felt awkward and hung up.

Texted her later telling her I'm not a fan of her doing that and she tried rationalizing it saying that she's not a jealous person and that her ''parents do that kind of stuff all the time'' (talking about how they will see random people in the streets and tell each other oh yeah that one's beautiful), she kept maintaining her stance and I kind of broke frame and told her ''What if I told you my ex had a bigger ass and was taller ? How would that make you feel?'' and she kind of got triggered and broke up with me. In hindsight I'm disgusted by my reaction but it clearly shows that I broke frame.

I always found it weird when women did it, it never fails to make me feel like shit or to assume they're doing it to shit test. I personally never bring up exes or past conquests unless they're genuinely curious. Even when we're just watching a movie if they comment about a man's appearance that shit triggers me, I feel psycho for feeling that way and usually tell them (calmly) I'd like it if they could refrain from doing it. Sometimes they oblige, sometimes they don't.

How should you react to that shit test ?