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They often did the best they could for you with the knowledge they had for you at the time
Like Staind said:
I cannot blame this on my father
He did the best he could for me
My parents both had their faults, but at least they were loving and supportive. I've met so many people whose parents weren't, that I've learned to let any resentment go and just be grateful for how good they actually were.
Rest in peace, dad.
"Women are children" is an affront to children. Children have the capacity to evolve.
Women know how to act if they want to keep you around. They don't need boundaries spelled out. If they cross boundaries, it means they don't respect you or care about keeping you.
If only she tried to lock down a good man for marriage at least 9 years earlier before popping out any children, but instead she will have to convince a good man, who by her standards will be far less attractive than the good men she brushed off in favor of a Chad a decade ago.
Hook up apps are dying because more and more of the non-Chads are realising that they are wasting their time and money on those things, and as for Ms 29, once she turns 30, the matches will fall off a cliff.
And how is that long haul thing working out for you lady? 3 kids and counting. No husband.
"I am going sober this time". I bet you have said that before.
Just watched Citizen Vigilante. Uwe Boll is a shit director, no doubt - but at least he tackles the rape of Europe in this film.
Armie Hammer goes on a vigilante rampage against illegals who are raping and murdering the natives.
Banned in Germany, lol.
Poor acting and a mostly ludicrous script AND media like this is usually containment/outlet for actual rage and action, but it was fun to see nonetheless.
If the boundaries in question are the ones you are saying -where she puts stuff when tidying your house- then beware of micro management.
Who do you want to be -the guy who is nit picky and anal about stuff, who is never grateful for a clean and tidy house but critical?
Women always manage the domestic space. They like nesting. If you are difficult about this then you are at risk of being a difficult guy and that spoils her fun. If her fun is something useful to you, then its best not to spoil it.
I do appreciate that there have to be limits. They can't just re-paint rooms, throw out things they don't like or remove trophies and pictures you like and put them in a closet without your say so but it comes down to delegation versus micro management. If she has taken on the management of the domestic environment, I would let her do it her way, otherwise she does not have a stake in things. That makes her just an unpaid servant and that may make the role a lot less attractive. Its the difference between "I am making our space pretty" and "I am tidying the boss' house and he is never satisfied"
But you can take the creatine back out of the cupboard and say "Thanks for tidying it but actually I put it here because its part of my morning routine and I can just reach and grab a spoon in passing"
No of course, if you find you have a slightly OCD woman who really has a need to see everything put away to feel relaxed, she still may have a problem with things being "out" on surfaces. My lady is such. We have eventually settled on my having a pair of work boots and a pair of running shoes by the back door for convenience and putting all other footwear away. My creatine is out but its in the office, which is my space.
You have to try to talk this sort of thing through gently and be prepared to make some compromise because women tidy because they like it and it satisfies them not because its their duty (they really are not very good at duty or doing their bit as a concept in any area). In fact there is a parallel with sex here. If she likes it it happens a lot more often and a lot better than if its a duty.
Read More@Saltycroc welcome to post-Sexual Revolution soyciety.
I was saying the same thing in the late 90s and early 00s.
My advice is to do what I did: adjust your expectations to get them in line with reality, and go smash some poon.
