this was my first experience with a girl that was exactly my type,

She ticks lots of idealized boxes you have inside your mind.

But... BUT... she's proven herself as NOT your type, by one of the most important measures of all: the level of attraction and commitment she feels for YOU!

Long and hard experience, and copious sharing of notes, shows that virtually nothing you do will turn this situation around to what you hope for. Further, that TRYING anyway, ends up working against you by many measures, from opportunity cost, to pride and self esteem, to the woman sometimes willfully exploiting your attraction with zero intention of delivering anything you actually want, aside from minimum scraps of attention to keep you on the hook.

Accept that you shot your shot, it didn't develop how you hoped and never will, and relegate this woman to the scrap heap of your attraction/dating history.

This makes you fully mentally and physically available to pursue other prospects, and land a woman who DOES act the part of holding mutual attraction with you.

Update post. So this girl that was excited about me apparently lost interest last weekend, her energy completely shifted from excited to talk to me, initiating conversations, etc to suddenly being dry. I tried to only text for logistics for the most part, i asked her out again which she wasn't available for.

Then she ghosted me the entire weekend, so i double texted (ik it's a mistake but I thought her interest in me was high enough). Then I think i fucked up further by acting a bit needy and telling her "i really want to see her again i felt a lot of chemsitry and ik you do things spontaneously so let me know whatever" to leave the ball in her court, to which she replied with some emotional bullshit "ohh i was just thinking about you too because im at X spot picking up food for my little brother" (the spot we went to that night). I know the answer is go fuck other women but wtf, this was my first experience with a girl that was exactly my type, super hot and amazing personality. I can't believe I lost her that easily. Do women really move on this easily? I mean yeah she's probably fucking with some other guys now and I'm not her top option anymore but wtf. I can't believe i'm that replaceable. We had a great night, she went from begging me to text her back and calling me daddy to being left on delivered for days now. WTF.

I know Im supposed to have abundance mindset too but i don't want to give up on this girl that easily. I'm talking to other girls on the apps but i'm gonna keep pinging her every couple of weeks cause i want her. I don't think she's gonna come back around if I leave it alone so that's my strat going forward.

You do know women have near unlimited options on Tinder and apps, right?

You pretty much have to strike while the iron is hot on app girls, especially Tinder.

Even when you smash, app girls are notorious for fucking multiple men or moving onto their other options. Even if they have a great time during sex or you make them cum a dozen times they are notorious for their shiny-object chasing whoredom and short attention spans

That being said women only truly invest in you if you've had sex or she is trying to have sex with you. The trying part is the only important part if you haven't had sex yet. If she is really invested in fucking you she'll still drop almost everything in hopes to fuck you.

Otherwise women will not invest. Again, app girls are notorious for this shor-term mating strategies and talking to 50 guys, you should have never sent a frame loss text like that to an app girl. They are the town bikes of the internet

Next time don't miss high notes to kiss and don't escalate in public. You really should rent a room in a house of guys or something so you have a reliable place to smash..not having a place to smash is going to wreck your pull rate