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Wrong forum completely despite posting here 50x with zero success and knowing where the fuck "AskTRP" is yet you post in TheRedPill like lazy person

Plausibly never read the sidebar or looked at previous posts

Not using search bar for similar questions

Not taking endorsed/flaired advice

Some of you want to suffer. You're addicted to mediocrity. There's too much dopamine in not trying and being validated for not trying

You can't even use the basics of the site correctly and expect to succeed with women

Genuinely, to every lazy user on here, that's why you're failing. You don't even give a shit about the basics of posting on a forum with extremely experienced users and the people who invented the early stages of TRP

No one on here is even being charged for it. You're squandering FREE expert advice (assuming this applies to you not taking advice)

Seriously actually bother. Being spoonfed is not helping you

The problem is genuinely how lazy some of you guys are.

If you actually bothered to read up on everything you possibly could and critically think about common themes you wouldn't be posting 1-2 years straight without success

I think this is too early to worry. To be honest if after a couple of years, you are getting it 3 to 4 times a week, you are one of the fortunate ones. My present lady was always up for it (which is why I kept her), but now she has hit the wall and the frequency has fallen well below 3 to 4 times and I am left with a sour post waller. One way or another it always falls off in the end no matter what. That's relationships with women. You either spin plates or eventually end up getting less than you want.

I am not saying "Oh yeah all is well" but you will have to see how it pans out. Worries really are passion killers for women. If she has a worry, it will effect her sex drive for sure. Keeping them worry free is key to good sex but trying too hard to do that can turn men into worker drones dealing with all of a woman's problems, keeping her like a child, just so he can nut in her a few times a week. Whatever you do don't fix her financial problem just to keep her lubed. Many men would. Many men would end up enslaved that way. You can be understanding but in the end she will have to be able to cope with life well enough herself to keep a good sex drive (just as a woman would expect you to).

I think it would be worse the other way around if you had to keep her satisfied because with a 16 hour a day grind you would fail to. If it works out that it was a temporary hitch and you get good sex a few times a week, that is as good as it is likely to get. If it trails off then it may not be her fault -just poor desire maybe from stress but that doesn't fix it from your end and you will have to maybe drop her if you are not satisfied. Only time will tell.

Making it clear what your needs are is important but if you over do pointing our her falling short, it tends to add to her stress, reducing her sex drive. I wouldn't try to make it look like you were not seeing her as "punishment for not putting out". If you can't take the frustration then yes its definitely best to avoid her but if you make it into a thing she notices, it may get some results art first but in the end it may end up with her feeling more stress, less supported and less up for it. So I would try to keep it light when it comes to not seeing her. We know relationships are grounded firmly on sex but women like to feel they are grounded on love and if you are not loving her because she is not putting out, it tends to at first make her put out more in desperation and later dry up from feeling un loved and un supported. Inform her of things not being ideal but don't lay the weight of responsibility for you not seeing her ("not being there for her") on her. They don't take responsibility well. Its not fair but that's women. They are not fair. They do not carry their load of responsibility well.

In the end it comes down to your making a private decision of where you draw that line but give her time to prove herself. We can all hit bumps in life and be sub optimal.

Apparently if a mod locks a post because it sucks a mod can't comment after the fact

@redpillschool

That being said I unlocked it so I could comment before locking it again

If you can't bother to make your post fucking readable why should any of us or any women take you seriously

Fuck

That being said (I haven't read any of your post because it's formatted like absolute dog shit, so now I'm actually reading the post)

If this is your personal selfie go clean shave. No point I doing facial hair if It doesn't grow in enough

2 stop with the fucking porn

3 did I already tell your formatting of a block of text is already proof you don't give a shit???

4) my guy stop fucking watching porn

5) you can literally look up the best of the best writings on here. Why do you guys fail to look up anything worthwhile on this site

6) your question isn't unique, you're lazy and won't read the sidebar or any critical information available to you

7) use the search bar, we only have every article ever posted on here available via search

8) you guys get what you try to achieve

First of all, I got about three sentences into this and got angry because of the absolute nonsense and lack of grammar or punctuation. Please learn that.

All im hearing is excuses. Have you read the sidebar? Did skittlesman need any of those things?

That "baddie" you're beating yourself up about, would happily fuck skittles man for free. And if you're over 30, probably has his kids. (and complains about how much a deadbeat he is).

Blah, blah blah - excuses.

If I was with you in a bar and said go upto that baddie, you'd probably stall, try and come up with the perfect thing to say. Probably make excuses why you shouldn't talk to her.

Because you have scarcity mindset (READ THE SIDEBAR).

You need to pivot your entire mindset.

You can walk upto a girl and say the first thing that pops into your head "Hey I'm Hamzter, and my balls smell". If she likes you, she'll find it funny.

This is your mindset. You are the prize. You are filtering out women. She is not the judge of you, you are the judge of her. FFS man, you are a man, are you going to be intimated by a female half your size? Over what, her judgement?

Oh no, a female looked at me funny - or worse, laughed at me ( see: frame - for how to overcome this ) - I shall never recover from this. It's almost like having a fight with a male. It's nowhere even close.

My housemate is 130lbs soaking wet and he can pull 9's. If he can do it so can you.

Sure, getting jacked makes it easier but stop making excuses and just go out, do it and run the numbers.