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@Typo-MAGAshiv I'm not sure how many refugees ended on your soil since Trump spoke to the South African president. If you observe the numbers from the time the media was covering this heavily you'd realize the number of refugees has dropped significantly. Plus America is the one putting some South African farmers out of work by providing food aid that messing with the country's supply and demand.
@Typo-MAGAshiv the song emerged during the anti-apartheid resistance in South Africa's townships in the late 1980s. It was widely sung and popularized at a mass rally following the murder of South African Communist Party leader Chris Hani. The videos you saw was probably Julius Malema and his political party of the Economic Freedom Fighters, they sang the song during legal battles over whether it constitutes hate speech or protected free political expression. The song became popular because white farmer were abusing and killing their black workers during apartheid. Subsequent the murder of Chris Hani made it even more popular.
@Typo-MAGAshiv mainstream media is not even that much interested to reveal fraud and other criminal activities and stats of invaders in so called 'white countries'. What happens in Africa is a media-mirage.
@Kloi Same experience with me, it's why I never to LTR and haven't for 15 years.
The issue is options, control and power. It's only crazy if you have blue pill expectations of women to feel gratitude and appreciation of who you are. The reality is that it's all in the context of the relationship, it all comes down to relationship dynamics: power, control, options, expectations.
You LTR knows you can't realistically get sex elsewhere. She low-key hopes you won't snap and cheat or dump her. She's insecure, so you probably reassure her. So she's insecure in herself but somewhat secure in the relationship. That's not a formula for passion, attraction or respect.
Comfort and security kill attraction and ultimately respect. Your attractiveness to a woman is proportional to your perceived other options. In a LTR you have no other options.
Your hos and FWBs know you have options and maybe even other women. She knows she has to treat you better, and that you can soft next her in a heartbeat and you'll still be fine, getting it elsewhere.
You're also leading with hot sex, not security.
The crazy thing to my mind is that women complain that men are not committing, while also making commitment a shit deal. So either they are lying and don't want commitment, or they behave like this and it usually works, or the gender with "deep communication skills and interpersonal awareness dynamics expertise" are actually fundamentally retarded.
Read MoreMost women only have sex with men they'd want to be in a relationship with (at least most of the time from what I've personally gathered) unless he's a placeholder bf after a particularly rough pump and dump
Sometimes it's "just sex" but they hamster why they want a relationship
Anyway, it's just sad but true, women view sex as a transaction much of the time. World's oldest profession for a reason
Damn.
I sometimes feel like my autism stopped me from a blue pill path
Some of us just got lucky I guess
@Vermillion-Rx heh...early 90s, my actual brother married his longtime GF. My Dad once gushed what a perfect DIL she was, and in retrospect she took the compliment with slight hesitation. Long story short, when their 2 kids were still in high school, she left to move in with some dude. I had a much harder time with the ladies, so I managed to run out the clock on the idealistic Marry the GF you're fucking age, to the palpable disappointment of my Boomer parents. Looking back on my love life, I dodged a number of Scud Missiles over the decades!
On the longer side for an essay but this needs to be said about the men who get stuck in their red pill anger phase:
