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I hate hurting women and have a good heart
I've stayed in too many things too damn long because I have had too much empathy to walk away when they weren't making me happy
There is a way to leave compassionately if it's warranted.
You can't just sacrifice yourself on end because of fears and compassion
I played this song for a woman once and then told her we had to stop seeing eachother and that I already met someone else and slept with her too
That woman had already broken my trust and met up with an ex so I played this and left. She couldn't stop staring at me after that
youtu.be/8YRuI7taIRI?si=yThVAlgoQZGXIy8o
I've listened to this a number of times I knew I was in the wrong relationship
I don't really like the middle part of the song but there were times I looked in the mirror the morning after heavy drinking away relationship problems and I couldn't recognize the shell of myself
You don't always see the end coming but a lot of the times you see that it needs to end
Clarity hurts because clarity shows you what's ugly in spite of whatever gift someone gives you.
You have to find a way to love yourself – if not at least like yourself – so that you can make the right choices for yourself as a man
youtu.be/BY3izAZX9ZQ?si=N8IGSmScptqX7SV6
It's okay. Some times relationships don't work out
Some times you realize what you need and by the time you realize you were with someone who was not compatible with you and it's all falling apart all of a sudden you realize that you found some more of yourself
You have to be the captain of your own ship and prioritize yourself as a man
It's hard to realize and accept that you may have chosen someone out of your own shortcomings
Sometimes you just have to lose people on the way to finding yourself. Wish them well if they at least tried.
Women are happiest in a relationship when they try to get your approval and right when they get close to it, your improvement has out paced their approval and now they need more of your approval again
Leader/provider never actually means that. It means "Guide and carer" Its rather like getting an updated and more pleasing version of your dad -responsible for you and organising things for you but you have sex with him and he can't tell you what to do.
The leader's authority goes no further than leading her to do what she wanted to do anyway. He's really more of a butler.
What she needs to do it to consider is what she will in return help him to do that he wanted to do anyway in life.
1h ago Ask TRP Forum
Getting attached to fwb
Ive been seeing this girl for around 8 months. We get along pretty well but she is definitely a red flag and i know i shouldn't get emotionally invested with her. The problem is because I've been seeing her for so long i cant help but start to get attached. The main reason i attracted her in the first place was because i always acted redpilled and like this hot fun guy around her. She knows I've got other girls and our mutual friends always warn her about me telling her i’m an asshole and a slag etc.
Without a doubt this is why she is so into me. The problem is we have both started to feel attached to each-other (even though i know i shouldn't get too serious with her)
When i start feeling like this i start overthinking and just end up acting like a retard and saying/doing stupid shit which can kill attraction . How do i stop myself feeling this way? I have 2 other plates but i still feeling attached to this fwb
Read MoreGat dayum, that's one hell of a "I've been ran thru by these" confession list of "dealbreakers".
(Does not apply if you are a hawt Chad, and then the list increments later.)
Though even without this horrific list, there's one massive tell just from the pic alone - I have never seen a woman unironically wear cheetah/leopard/misc cat print anything in clothing that was not some form of raging dumpster-fire. Almost a big a tell as that nostril piercing.
Also from the lack of collarbone and cleavage, she's likely well on her way to fatting herself out of her preferred market and her resentment of that will be taken out on whatever poor schlep is foolish enough to try to do a Kessel Run thru her list of dealbreakers.
