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It is important to realise that at present the fear of losing the small joy you get form your unsatisfactory LDR her is stopping you from taking the moderately painful step of ridding yourself. You are like a man who will not inject himself with a medicine because he fears the needle.
This oneitis will pass. When it does you will be disgusted with yourself for all the resources your poured into simping for an unworthy object.
If you do not want to be lost like an addict in fulfilling your craving -just to be free from the pain of craving- you will have to take the wider view and accept that there will be pain. If you keep her you are really keeping nothing -just the possibility of sex if you close the distance and if she is then still available and if you can not quarrel constantly with er over the things you have endured in her absence.
There is nothing to gain form keeping her while looking elsewhere. If you keep things in perspective, you could do this but you are love sick. You can't control a sickness, you need to remove it from your body. It is self destructive to let a woman you do not actually like mess your head up. She has not earned this headspace, you have not given it to her, she has just got in there like a shitty squatter and is now shitting on your property. You have to evict her.
I don't quite understand how sex is good if you are in a LDR? Are you seeing her at weekends?
Read MoreIt appears that Neocons expected Iran to collapse within 3 days, America would swoop in and take control of their oil production handing its profit stream to insiders, and we'd declare victory and forget the whole thing within a few news cycles.
Yeah they got a bit cocky after the Venezuelan presidential heist and the precision strike on the original Khamenei. Blindingly obvious Trump didn’t have a long term plan, and in Biden-esque fashion is about to flood the market with oil reserves so his sycophants don’t feel the price shock of his blunder (yet).
smashing the face of a Jesus statue at a Christian church that has existed for over 1000 years.
Wait til you hear what the jews did to the real Jesus!
Following up on my own post from a month ago. It appears that Neocons expected Iran to collapse within 3 days, America would swoop in and take control of their oil production handing its profit stream to insiders, and we'd declare victory and forget the whole thing within a few news cycles.
What actually happened: Iran proved capable of hitting back HARD, exhausting the American MIC's business model of extremely expensive crony-built weapons systems using cheap but extremely effective mass produced weapons systems, drove Americans out of dozens of our regional military bases probably forever, and has kept the mighty US Navy hundreds of miles back despite us "Wiping out their entire air force and navy in the first few hours of the conflict."
Trump actually asked for, and got wisely denied, the nuclear launch codes.
US Oil companies and their cronies and investors profit as countries around the world have tankers en route thousands of miles toward our terminals. Countries like Canada and Australia are in extreme panic as their reserves are so low as to result in massive cutbacks on a time scale of weeks from now.
Israel is using America's attack on Iran as cover to annex Southern Lebanon. Picture is an IDF soldier, paid for right down to the civilian home door breaching tool by US Taxpayers, smashing the face of a Jesus statue at a Christian church that has existed for over 1000 years.
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You have no frame. Dump her and just work through the shit feelings. Breaking up hurts, this is life
Ffs dump her man
Anything short of that is wasting our time
Dump her (again) and then make a new post to work through the emotions
I remember your post from before.
IIRC someone replied to you that if you make nuclear option threats and boundaries (ending the relationship), you need to follow through with them, otherwise your threats will never be taken seriously. You are going through that now, with the explicit disrespect. Disrespect, which YOU communicated is acceptable through your own actions.
I can’t function properly, I can’t train right, I can’t sleep, I feel like a zombie. It’s like I’m on self-destruction mode.
If you truly can’t function, there’s nothing you can do. And if there’s nothing you can do, there’s certainly nothing we here at forums.red can do.
I would advise you to rethink the “I can’t” statement you made. If you truly believe “I can’t”, then don’t post here, give up, and resign yourself to your fate. Don’t make it our problem if it can’t be fixed.
If you do decide that you CAN do something, I’d start with learning some self control and discipline. Self control and discipline are a requirement if you want to have any real agency over your life.
Backtracking after 1 day is truly pathetic. It’s like committing to going to the gym 3 times a week, and skipping your first workout. Or saying you’ll quit smoking, and having a cigarette literally the next morning.
I want you to re-think your conviction, and the level of effort you put in to improve your situation. Is that a sufficient or respectable level of effort?
If you aren’t willing to do anything on your own, then why the hell should anyone care?
Read MoreI talked to his Step-Daughter today, Hospice Doctors are saying a few weeks is a reasonable timeline.
Time to look at flights.
