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1h ago 2026-04-14 17:34:21 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
I'm not interested in hookups
...anymore.
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@Typo-MAGAshiv (barely) qualifies for Rule 5 (seeking commitment) since she wants a "relationship".
From this comment thread:
It might even be better that you enrich her life with a good dose of KINO and then refuse to sleep with her on tbe first date.
and then refuse to sleep with her on tbe first date
Holy fuck.
@Vermillion-Rx How hard to be is a really tough one. Its great to see you publicly wrestling with the question because I think its one we all have to wrestle with privately and I think getting it right is very important both for the future of these fora and for the men we would like to help.
We all need good advice, We all mess up, we all benefit from encouragement.
We have to tell them where we think they are going wrong but we have to keep them engaged. I tend to think friendly is the way to go but some guys really come over badly in their posts and then you I sometimes feel "This guy could do with a shake up, he is blindly going the wrong way pissing men and women off and not helping himself"
I think so much depends on if the OP is doing a "humble brag post of great stupidity" or if he is just a guy who is not very good with people and communication who is genuinely looking for help. When it comes to the first case, we still don't want to actually drive most of these guys away, just straighten them out to keep traffic up.
Overall, I would say that not piling in too hard on some guys too soon would be a good plan. If we all go in hard on a guy who is acting very dumbly, it will probably just drive him away. I appreciate every case is unique though, we actually want some guys to leave but they are a very small minority.
Hitting the right tone in written speech is tricky. I can think of some times, I wish I had not been quite so clever in my reply and thought more about the reader.
Read MoreBy 32, she really should be making rice crispy cakes with her own daughter.
Its one of the first things to "cook" with kids as they love eating it and its very simple to make. My mother was making those things with me well before I started school. At Easter one usually makes them a bit bigger and puts a couple of chocolate mini eggs on top to make a "nest" Small kids love it but she has missed all that and it makes me feel strangely sorry for her, even though it is likely her own choices that have taken her there. Anyone can mess up and society is urging women to do a lot of things badly.
Instead her own mother is still making her the cakes. You can imagine the mother's pain and frustration at the lack of grandchildren to bake with.
Womanhood does not stand still. From the beginning of our people in the west, we have celebrated the 3 forms -girl, mother and grandmother. They all can be great but they all require that the woman does not stand still. A lazy woman is a ruined woman. Women can have it really good if they embrace their opportunities and act kindly. That is about all it requires really to succeed as a woman but if you don't its a very lonely place to be post wall, faced with all the weakness and anxiety of your sex, being a burden on society and with no one to have your back.
The problem that our youth as a whole has, is failure to launch. Women are the ones hardest hit by it as they have an earlier biological use by date than men and they find it much harder to get into anything lasting the older they get.
Read MoreGuess she should have made different choices at around 22 if she didn't want this outcome at 32.
Any woman that isn't infertile or clearly afflicted with congenital/inheritable disfigurements/impairments has no one to blame but herself if she makes it to 30+ and is still single if she wanted otherwise.
It's funny how women will lampoon men for being horndogs but they never seem to extrapolate out the full implications of what that means for women that are having issues finding a man to commit. It's like being born holding a royal flush and still managing to lose.
