Nothing redpills women harder than working as a professional matchmaker trying to help women find men.

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@Typo-MAGAshiv Perhaps this would qualify for weekday content since the woman is looking to get wifed up but her story is told by a matchmaker so posting Friday to be safe.

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if you really "love" her that much you can try keeping her around as a plate but I concur with everyone else telling you to stop simping and move on. and especially dont be buying flowers and gifts for a chick who acts like this. I generally dont buy them anything but if you were gonna do that it should be as a reward for good behavior, not some attempt to buy her re-investment in you. that's capital S simping my brother.

she's not special and there's millions more just like her. keep it moving

You're simping bro. She's controlling the frame and you're bending over backwards for this woman. Get the fuck out, date other women and knock of this oneitis bullshit.

This level of drama is unnecessary and you can do better and deserve better.

Why have you assumed that it is your job to fix whether or not she is fully invested in you? That assumption is what you need to fix.

On-and-Off relationships happen because the two people are only half compatible.
That's why she says, "Something is missing." Which happens to be other 'compatible half' she's looking for that you don't have.
It's the same on your side as well. There's something there, and it's really good, but there's something that's just 'off'.
I know you're all in on this when you're together, but you have to accept that you're just not going to make this work.
What isn't there is going to make you crazy, and what is there is only going to keep you from finding that whole compatibility.

The best thing for both of you is to just amicably go your separate ways.
If she's not 100% good for you, then she's 0% good for you.

I was this fool, 40 years ago.

There's NO pathway to salvaging this into a functional and beneficial relationship.

Cut all ties with her. All the thought and energy you're expending on her, are better invested into yourself and other opportunities.

Reading assignment: The Sunk Cost Fallacy.