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They often did the best they could for you with the knowledge they had for you at the time
Like Staind said:
I cannot blame this on my father
He did the best he could for me
My parents both had their faults, but at least they were loving and supportive. I've met so many people whose parents weren't, that I've learned to let any resentment go and just be grateful for how good they actually were.
Rest in peace, dad.
@Saltycroc welcome to post-Sexual Revolution soyciety.
I was saying the same thing in the late 90s and early 00s.
My advice is to do what I did: adjust your expectations to get them in line with reality, and go smash some poon.
I've nothing to forgive. Plenty I could criticize were I so inclined,a few I'd change if I could. But it ain't the Old Man's fault the world has passed him by and invalidated a lot of the wisdom he was taught as a kid.
If she's not respecting simple and reasonable instruction and acting like a free woman despite being in a relationship then you already know why she's doing it
She doesn't need to be reminded of your boundaries she just doesn't care about them
If she seriously cared about making you happy she would be bending over backwards to honor your boundaries and wouldn't think of they are much of a sacrifice to have and keep you
@Mattyanon is more than likely correct
29, single mom, nOt hErE tO hOokUp, on a hookup app = she's had those lips on more wieners than a hot dog eating contest champion.
You're dating a whore.
Just admit it.
@adam-l Good point about it being a short term strategy, one consistently employed in other areas. Look at the national debt in the U.S. and UK. These people are enriching themselves now while saying to hell with future generations. If some calamity strikes in 25 years, countries won't have the flexibility to deal with it via issuance of debt. Leaders used to care about such things.
I think you let your dislikes clear. If she do again, you say overtly, and watch for her reaction, so you'll know if it'll stop or if she don't care. Then you make your decision (stay or leave).
I don't think you should try to convince/guide. Mostly she'll end up pissed and pointing fingers.
Also, once i heard, "let her be as free and loose as she want, so you'll see who she is"
