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@Lone_Ranger Feminists all hate men who go with whores. But they like whores. Yet without thirsty men there are no whores.
Its the same as liking supermarkets and hating shoppers.
In fact thinking about it, the don't do well with the symbiotic relationship of customer and business. They like flying abroad. They like heating their home. They hate fossil fuel pollution.
Usually its the producer of things they like that they hate. But since whores have vaginas, its the customer they hate. In Sweden he is actually a criminal while a whore is a legitimate business. How is that even possible? How did we ever get so cucked?
I was this fool, 40 years ago.
There's NO pathway to salvaging this into a functional and beneficial relationship.
Cut all ties with her. All the thought and energy you're expending on her, are better invested into yourself and other opportunities.
Reading assignment: The Sunk Cost Fallacy.
You're simping bro. She's controlling the frame and you're bending over backwards for this woman. Get the fuck out, date other women and knock of this oneitis bullshit.
This level of drama is unnecessary and you can do better and deserve better.
This is so damn clear it even hurts...The whole affair is done for. You "love her" far more than she "loves you". Not even "dread game" could save you.
There's no way around it, really.
Quit now. Move on with your life and move fast.
@Hamzter Great.
It would be awesome if punctuation and paragraphs were also part of your recovery.
The classic answer here is that when a girl says that and doesn't quit then and there, she is just waiting for something better to turn up and doesn't want to quit the security till she feels ready, usually when a better alternative is secured.
A small possibility exists that contrary to the classic situation, she feels you are not invested enough, was hurt by being dropped from something she felt solid in and won't fully invest on the re-run. You pulling away and trying to run dread would be the worst thing in this situation. If you run this from the other way round even as a man and not being as nervous and needy as a woman, you too might feel less inclined to commit another time and would react badly to pulling away and dread.
If you care deeply about her, cover both bases. Be prepared for the likely failure but then why not try the road untaken too? Try to be visibly fully invested. Ask her to try to explain what the missing thing is. Talk around it as well as the direct approach. Show her it matters without simping, no mind games, straight up investment. Worst that can happen is what you already prepared yourself for -gradual quiet quitting or the monkey branch when something better arrives.
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