Good sex matters. I have only done it raw for the last 20 years, because I like having sex with women not rubber bags. This decision does limit the pool of women I want to have sex with or who would like to have sex with me. It has also led to my having plenty of children. For me it makes sense because it is more pleasurable, more real and because if you are not ready to do the real act, then why play act going through the motions? That just leads to stimulating feelings that are supposed to be reserved for women nature would normally make very important figures in your life when you are just wasting time and feelings on unimportant people in your life.

However, in your case, I am not sure if you need to take such drastic action as dumping her. Its not like there are not lots of other methods of contraception that do not involve the particular pill she reacted badly to (or may simply have been ill at the same time as taking). If she is someone worth having in your life and you are someone worth having in her life, then surely you can try the other options first?

Forget the jealousy. It worked out differently when it was his turn. Its not like its about you and him competing. He is off the scene now and its your turn. In real life the only competition between men is to impregnate women. You either impregnate her or you are another guy who wasted his time and resources and failed. That is all nature is interested in. Beyond that sex is just for pleasure, release and bonding. These are not things to get hung up on.

Do not over invest your emotions in any woman you do not intend to make the mother of your children. They are not worth it. If you do, you are being a pussy beggar overvaluing casual sex, overvaluing your relationship to a woman you are just passing time with. Its just another form of gynocentrism, pedestalling the relationship with the prize woman. She is not the prize unless you claim her reproductive system to make a child for you. Otherwise she is just a drain on your resources in return for sex.

Forget the past and sex the sex you want.

Original author: @JP_Whoregan

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JP_Whoregan:

tl/dr - read the damn post

The girls said they knew exactly what they were doing and were planning to “have their fun” (fun= partying, fun=sex, fun=going on spring break etc.) and would “settle down later”. I asked: when are you planning to settle down? They said: “It depends” and “probably around 27, 28” or “maybe sooner it depends”. I really put the girls on the spot. During our exchange they saw I was upset. They told me I should be happy because “nice guys finish first in the end”. I told them you cannot have your cake and eat it to. Then I was told by Kaylene (a young thin super sexy blonde with curves in all the right places (who BTW refused to date me even though we were friends and according to her roommate had sex with almost 30 guys in one semester ) she told me,

“Michael let me tell you something: not only am I going to have my cake eat it and eat it too. I’m going to have it with ice cream and sprinkles”. - Michael’s Story

Justice. Glorious retribution. Suffering the consequences of our wrongdoings, whilst basking in the glory of our righteous deeds and conquests. As men, these are all concepts and ideas that we find noble and right. We recognize and embrace that we cannot live lives completely free of all consequence. Those consequences may be physical; i.e., we don’t give liver transplants to chronic alcoholics. They may be financial; i.e., a bank robber isn’t getting a job in the financial industry anytime soon. Or, they may be social; i.e., if you have a history of behaving like an ass at parties, you may find yourself sitting home alone on Halloween or New Year’s Eve.

However, there seems to be a trend, a pattern in the comment sections of various different discussions here in the men’s locker room we call The Red Pill. It appears to stem from a sort of misunderstanding about “The Wall” from newcomers and assorted anger phasers, and that is this misappropriated idea that once our fluffy, little, acrobatic and beloved vagina operator, rider of the ever present and be-Chadded Cock Carousel hits the wall, that somehow her sexual and social lives are over, and come crashing down around her like a Syrian war zone leveled by ISIS artillery and grenades.

Well, Uncle JP is here to tell you in the best way TRP knows how, and that is with blunt force:

Newbies:

She IS going to get her way. She will ultimately suffer no meaningful retribution for her Ghosts of Sluttiness Past. Dismiss your justice porn revenge fantasies.

And they know it, too. They all know it. Gentlemen, the walking, talking episode of Sex and the City that Michael was talking to above is telling the truth, and here’s why: getting her Beta Bux is just as important to her as getting her Alpha Fux.

Some of us seem to forget that AF/BB isn’t just a catch slogan, it’s an expression of the dualistic nature of the Female Sexual Strategy. AF/BB is a “yin and the yang”. Before modern feminism destroyed the concepts of manhood, it wasn’t uncommon for a woman to successfully consolidated her AF/BB needs in one, singular man. The strong, stoic type of man who tingled her vagina, whom she respected, and whom she gladly devoted herself to in exchange for his caring providership of her and their children.

But alas, 50 years of slow feminist creep, single motherhood, the destruction of the nuclear family, and an overwhelming number of gynocentric social programs and safety nets has all but destroyed this type of man. Women know this. They pushed all of these movements just so they could be strong independent women who go to offices every day and push meaningless paper around in cubicles to make their male bosses wealthy.

So now they have created two different types of men, which we of course now classify as “AF” and “BB”. And when the time comes, she will get her Beta Bux. This is for a myriad of reasons, not the least of which is sexual thirst among the latter category. They know they will be able to starfish for thirsty men, who don’t know how good steak tastes when they’re being fed a bowl of dog food a couple of times a month.

I know it sounds logical, because leave it to a man to find the most logical conclusion to a dilemma or conundrum.

”That filthy whore sucked off the lacrosse team and gang banged the basketball team, she doesn’t deserve a good husband!”

your mind tells you.

Well, she’s gonna get one, unless her SMV literally drops to zero by way of getting morbidly obese, becoming a burn victim, or running her face through a cheese grater. Allow me to refer you to a part of /u/Rollo-Tomassi’s SMV Chart that many of us glance over:

https://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/smv_curve1.jpg

Notice that, for as fast as her SMV starts declining after 23, her SMV is still above a “2” as late as age 38.

And gentlemen, if you don’t think there are men out there who are thirsty, desperate, and willing to bang out a 38 year old 2 or 3, then I’ve got some land in the Florida Everglades I’d like to sell you.

So no, they will not suffer consequences or retribution. Get it out of your head sooner rather than later. No, the Widows of the Alpha Kind will not enjoy fucking their BBs, but that’s not the point. Once she has the ring on her finger, she now holds all the marbles, even if she wants to, and successfully scores, some AF on the side. Conversely, even if she becomes a fat slob who struts around in Victoria Secret sweatpants with the deliciously ironic “SEXY” written on the ass, and drives her husband to find a vagina not surrounded by a gravitational pull, she still holds all the marbles.

And quite honestly, is it any real surprise that women don’t suffer consequences for their slutty actions? Why should they? They are, after all, the Most Responsible Teenager in the House. She’s been living a consequence-free life from the time she was 5 years old and playing with toy princesses to the time she is 25 and insisting she be treated like one. And society will see to it that she isn't about to start suffering them now.

So the lesson to be learned here, gentlemen, is to ditch your revenge porn fantasies. They are no good for your psyche, and they are no good for the process of unplugging. Here at TRP, we prefer to deal in truths and realities, not delusions and fantasies.

She’s gonna get her Beta. Just be glad that now it won’t be you.

Been with a girl exclusively for 6 months. Low n-count (1 boyfriend, 1 hookup), genuinely good girl, non-manipulative, chose me over a bunch of orbiters, im her first orgasm, regular sex, doesnt make my life difficult,greate dynamic.

The issue: her ex rawdogged her and she took the pill and puked and had to deal with that shit alone. With me she won't do it raw because the pill affected her body badly last time and she doesn't want to take it again. Medically completely valid and I understand that fully and I dont want her to go through pain duh.

But I can't get past the fact that she's been more physically intimate with her ex than with me despite me being objectively higher value in every way. Classic retroactive jealousy I know.

I've decided to end it cleanly and honestly.

Question is that is this the right call or am I letting my retroactive jealousy make a decision for me that I'll regret? And for guys who've dealt with this , does it actually get better or does it follow you into every relationship regardless? I have never given a fuck when it comes to a plate but an LTR is where I start getting such feelings triggered

Also side question , is this a form of oneitis? or is getting affected by a girls past esp one that you like a completely normal thing?