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@Kloi my post had more to do with compromise on values and making peace
Often times one party wants to meet in the middle and that middle is beneath you
Avoid people who lack humility/victim complex
Meeting people in the middle is oftentimes meeting someone halfway beneath you.
When you find that to be the case don't bother.
Can you link them to me? I don't know what you are talking about
I've tried opening a couple archive.is links on the forums across multiple devices but they don't seem to be working. The site's not down but not loading properly. Anyone else having that issue?
I don't expect there's anything we can do about it if the service is down but figure everyone should be aware.
@Typo-MAGAshiv @Land_of_the_losers @ Vermilion-Rx @redpillschool
I realized years ago, more often then not, if I'm inviting someone to partake in one of my passions, I'm usually sacrificing my enjoyment for company because most people don't want to go at it, with the same level of intensity I possess.
Girls like attention. Actually guys do too to a lesser extent.
Provided you did not creep her out, get butt hurt or look pained and needy when she rejected you, she has no problem having you as an orbiter. Not an inner orbiter who might get to bang in the absence of Chad or a high value beta but you are welcome to an introductory level membership of her outer orbit where you can bask in her glory and add to it with your devotion.
Spin it round the other way. A nice girl that you don't want to get involved with just made advances to you but you said no -maybe because she is ugly, maybe autistic, Maybe too needy. maybe she is dating your friend. Anyway provided it didn't go badly, you will feel a bit sorry for her, you will want her to know you didn't dislike her personally and you won't actually mind the idea that she wants your dick, so long as she isn't getting stalkery why would you not acknowledge her? Why would you not be friendly? If you were a bit selfish you might even just give her the odd breadcrumb of interest, just to keep seeing that look in her eye. Even though you don't want her, it still turns you on to feel wanted right? Now multiply that pleasure in being desired by 10 and you have a woman.
Read MoreBoy howdy. Man alive. No, sir.
but just a few weeks later when I saw her again and she was giving me IOIs again, smiling at me.
She's playing with you. She's giggling with her friends and saying, "Watch this." then winks and smiles at you just to make a fool out of you.
I’m talking about girls I would see on a regular basis
Don't be an orbiter, my dude. If it's not a yes immediately, then it's a no automatically.
Why does this happen? What should I do about it?
You lack confidence and are putting pussy on a pedestal.
Women can smell a Beta from a mile away.
Remember this phrase whenever a woman opens her mouth: What's in it for me?
Is it fair to treat this as an invitation to talk to her again?
No. If she's interested, she will approach you.
I would try to have a low stakes conversation first, then gauge interest based on that.
Absolutely not. Playing it "safe" is the fastest way to rejection.
There's nothing more attractive to a girl than a man who knows what he wants, and does what it takes to get it.
Figure out what you want from a girl. Then go get it.
Remember, there are thousands of girls around you this very moment who are ready to step up to take her place.
Potty mouth and bird hands, no wonder he ditched her. He knew she wasn't putting out.
