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even if you’re a bit hapless you can use the bar girls as training wheels
Idk if this qualifies as "good " advice for guys who hold a poor success rate with the ladies of their own home country. The annals of divorce and other complex break up horror stories have entire branches on Filipina, Thai, and others, that make an entire cottage industry of fishing for a foreign chump to clamp their talons on, and superficially USE as a ticket out of their low opportunity trap of a country.
I can't tell you how many such guys I've met well along this dire pathway, with a palpable cloud of defeat and resignation over their entire personhood, trapped with an aggressive and domineering diminutive tiger wife turned tiger Mom, who even after a quarter century of immersion among English speakers, still speaks with a brash accent that sounds like a gaylord of truck coil springs tipped down a multi story concrete stairwell.
It's not even a beta exclusive risk factor, ex military dudes make a huge portion of the guys so entrapped. Only Unicorn quantity exceptions I've seen, where i don't overwhelmingly think, that's no kind of life i would want.
I mean sure, have some short term vacation fun if you can wing it. Just don't let the Little Head do all the thinking on taking it to LTR level and beyond, FFS.
Read MoreMe: Wanna hang out tonight?
Girl: I don’t think so
Me: No sweat
Also the girl:
1000%
That poor Russian bloke I mentioned is one such example and there’s many more roaming the island.
Good lord don’t think I meant that you should pick one of them up for anything LT - I should have been clearer haha
Ok. We need to talk about this @Typo-MAGAshiv.
@Stigma intersting
I did super autistic equation to choose destination for next holidays to meet my goals and over there its the top 2 destinations.
When you go back maybe you could share location, message, so it cant be scanned into AI.
I did not expect holidaymakers go away now in big numbers? Is that off season over there?
4h ago Ask TRP Forum
Updates after my last post - Plate dynamics got me questioning my own behaviour
Hello all,
Previously, I created a post here (link below) about some plate dynamics.
Since then, there has been some updates which I wanted to share with everyone.
Thanks to the advice from folks here, I stopped further contact with this plate. No word from her until today after a month. Received some text messages from her going like -
Her: Hello BFF Her: Your gift is still here (with an image)
That gift is something she bought for me sometime back before I went silent on her without getting it from her.
Left the messages on read and after 8 hours, she fired another message again
Her: Where is my only friend ?
Not sure if she’s hamstering after realizing now she has been used as a sex toy by the other guy with no real chance of him wanting a serious relationship.
It should be a no brainer that I ought to hard next her and let this plate break for good. Just wanted to find out if any of you guys would do something different to re-plate her again and what would be a good response to her messages above then?
Appreciate any advice. Thanks
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/325703/plate_dynamics_got_me_questioning_my_own_behaviour
Read MoreBros! I’m on an island in the gulf of Thailand. If you’re a single man, fuck it, even if you’re with women, I cannot recommend it enough. Russians, Germans, Cambodians, Thais, Koreans, Chinese, English. Beautiful women on every inch of the beaches.
Yesterday I told a Thai girl to come and learn how to swim, which ended up going out with her and her Auntie (who turned out to be hilarious and a proper wing-woman).
And listen, even if you’re a bit hapless you can use the bar girls as training wheels!
One poor Russian guy literally brought his problems with him. Some 50~ish Viet roastie shouting at him at the bar, making a scene, bringing the mood down demanding he take her back. We ended up toasting after each outburst lol
This is nothing short of paradise, gentlemen.
I assume you'll win in a physical fight with her. So set up a camera, either a hidden one on your person, or set one up in the room. Then sit her down, and bluntly brake up with her. If she gets physical, you have what you need for a restraining order, which gets her out of your home. Restrain her, call the police, and show them the footage. If she threatens suicide, you can probably use that as well.
Obviously research whether you're in a two-party or one-party consent state/country. Even if it's a two-party consent state/country, check with a lawyer or the police if you can utilise a camera for self defence reasons.
The second best option is sound recording. Laws are usually a bit more lax on that. Bottom line is, it's false accusations you should worry about the most. So document everything.
Also, depending on where you live, it may be beneficial for you to call the police non-emergency line beforehand, and explain the situation, that you're about to break up with your girlfriend, that she has a habit of being violent with you, and that you may need assistance. Although it's true that the police tends to side with women, part of that is because women usually contact the police first. At least where I live, whoever calls the police first matters a great deal for how they initially deal with it. If you can initially get her out of your home, that should offer you some breathing space for what comes after.
Her safety should be way down on your priority list. It's you you need to worry about first and foremost. It's not your job to protect your abuser from herself. Let professionals, or her family deal with that sort of thing. You let them know, and that's the extent of your responsibility, if you have any responsibility at all.
Also, realize that people with personality disorders (like BPD) are fully aware of what they're doing, and 100% responsible for their own actions. They are not insane, like for instance someone with schizophrenia. So do not excuse her behaviour, or feel guilty for whatever outcome of her actions. Whatever empathy you have for her is greatly misplaced.
Good luck.
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