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Think I mentioned this earlier re "plates bouncing back".
Recently, been dealing with the most random behaviour from ex-plates. Bouncing back and then bouncing off, and I can't really wrap my head around it.
Plate 1:
After months of no contact, she messages me out of the blue and invites me to her apartment. I come around, we have a few drinks. She gets out the lingerie and all the stops like she's trying to impress me. We fuck. Next morning she begs me to stay (which I did). We go out for some wholesome day. We fuck some more. She cooks me dinner etc. She gives me loads of food as I leave. Messaging me all the way home. Next morning, one word replies, doesn't want to know me, haven't spoken since.
Plate 2:
Seeing each other for a while. We have an argument and she storms out of my apartment. Months later she turns up at my door unannounced. She then start messaging me and seeing me regularly again. Starts inviting me to events with her friends etc. Then out of nowhere, disappears again. No love lost on that one but yeah.
Plate 3:
Saw eachother for a while and then after a disagreement (probably my fuck up) she leaves. 6 months later she drunkly texts me, there’s some flirting and she invites herself back. That week, she's asking to come over every other day. Next week, I get a random text from her asking if I think shes rude. Bit confused, she eventually clarifies she's been on a date with a guy who was really rude to her, her self confidence is bad - "No you're alright, come over if you want". Maybe slightly BP but idgaf. No reply until 4 days later - "Eventually".
That won't even get a response.
But yeah. I get the concept of girls coming back for easy dick which is probably the case, but just really bizarre that all of these have happened at once.
Read MoreI'm convinced that X has just become extremely broken since Musk took over.
I made an account again way back in Dec 2024. After about a month, it got randomly banned without any explanation. Which is odd given that I never even made a single post, just a few retweets. I appealed multiple times but never got a response.
Few weeks ago I found the login details for one of my old twitter accounts which I've been using.
I checked my profile on another browser (not logged in) and it just shows "this user has no posts" - huh? Thinking I might be shadow banned or some shit again.
So I go and check @Vermillion-Rx profile. And all of his "recent" posts are 2 years old.
Maybe it's not just my accounts then.
Second, and my specific point, is that what the female attraction circuits perceive as "good" might have nothing to do with adaptive quality
I've been saying similar for years.
Did a quick Google search on “saree”. Indian clothes, they are.
So a 28 year old Indian woman who has lived in “different cities” is trying to find marriage and can’t find a suitor, due to her past.
If this chick is living in India right now, what the fuck did she expect? 28F is old in India, of course she wouldn’t be popular for marriage. Men would think she is either a slut or there is something fucking wrong with her.
And if she’s an Indian girl living in the West, nobody is ever going to think she is a virgin and never did casual.
No actual critical thinking between the ears. From a university and career woman. What a retard. Lol
I am kinda average looking , slim And of avg height (178 cm). I tried bulking up but I got injury which put me out for a solid 3 years.
As others have said, focus on getting in shape. It makes a dramatic difference. The more in shape that you are (mosre muscle, lower bodyfat) the more leeway you get in terms of game.
Since I wasn't getting dates irl so, got good photos and downloaded hinge. Got 80 matches of which Managed to score 3 dates. All 3 unmatched after first date and didn't pursue for a 2nd one.
Dating apps are a whole thing in and of themselves, and there's a science to them. Some of the other guys on here aren't the biggest of fans, but I get most of my dates/lays from them and I've spent an awful lot of time into figuring them out.
You have to think of dating apps as a marketing funnel.
You have multiple steps - Match -> Open -> Message -> Arrange -> Date -> Lay
At each stage of the "funnel" women are going to drop off for a multitude of reasons. But, you need to look at each stage of the funnel objectively and ask yourself where are women falling off, and where can I improve?
If most don't respond to your opener, improve the opener. If they drop off during conversation, make it more engaging. You get the idea.
tried doing "game", maintained a playful smile with intense eye contact, flirting constantly. I asked them about themselves, made sure to keep the conversation to themselves.
I'm getting sperg vibes. What I think is happening here is that there is an inconsistency between the persona you are trying to convey and your actions. Women pick up on that shit instantly.
It's not all about hardcore game, A&A etc. That can sometimes be too robotic and inauthentic.
It's a hard balance to maintain, but with practice it gets easier. I'd suggest posting some Field Reports so we can really dive into what went wrong and why.
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