I've been blocking chicks who friendzoned me since I've been learning game but I'm not sure if this is the right thing to do or not because some of them weren't bad. For example, 2 of them used to buy me dinner or gifts all the time. Just, no intimacy.

I've been blocking them because I fear that I might get jealous and simp at some point, and ridicule myself but idk if this is an ego thing because those chicks could still be useful as wingmen. Or they might not because they might gossip about how they friendzoned me to other chicks.

And I'm also not telling them anything when I block, so it might seem weird. I could be overthinking things as well. Any insights?

How long can you plate/FWB a girl?

2-3 years.

Ok, lemme read the wall of text.

I would say I'm 50/50 about LTR'ing her, as I'm basically exclusive to her right now

Ok, she's not a plate or an FWB if you are not actually fucking other women.

The trap is closing around you. You think you've communicated "I have other options" but she is communicating "We will be exclusive soon".

My main dilemma is - I can see myself building a life with her

You do not build a life with a woman.

Everything she makes she keeps. Everything you make she keeps. You lose all control.

Own your own shit. Do not expect relationships to last, they do not.

So I'm wondering, do you have any inputs? Is it tol long, do you think?

You can do it, but if she's pushing for exclusivity then sooner or later she's going to get it or leave.

I feel like I would be giving up a lot of time and experiences staying here the next few years solely because of my LTR. I wouldn't be losing much career-wise. Going forward with the move would mean cutting my current relationship off.

Ok, brutal truth time.

Your girlfriend / LTR is a transient thing. It's good while it's good, but it's not going to be good forever.

Most relationships end. People change. Women increase their demands as their sexual value goes down. Women cheat, and women end relationships with good men on a whim.

I'm weighing my options and it seems like I'm giving up a great option for LTR and kids/family.

If you stick with her, you're trying to live the 1950's life of monogamy, stability, 2 kids, faithful wife.

Sorry to tell you, but that ship sailed in the 1990's. Urbanisation and feminism destroyed it.

You can have kids and you can have relationships, but that "faithful happy wife and 2 kids and a house and a car and everyone loves each other" was formed around the old notion of marriage and respect for men.

The new regime is one where the woman has complete power and the man has no options, is financially destroyed, and forgets what sex even means.

I don't know what the best model is for you and your life, but I know that the old ways are gone. If you marry her, you'll get the same shit every other man gets. Not straight away. Not in the first 6 months. But gradually, creepingly, your live will morph into the same desperate sexless shit that every other man gets.

It's almost impossible for young men to understand that their innocent young bride can turn into the monsters their forefathers are stuck with, but if you can accept this into your core then you will have a much better life, especially in later years.

That is my ultimate goal, I know this is a long ways off but I don't see myself spinning plates at age 35 and above.

Yeah, I hear you. But marriage / monogamy and "sharing a house with non-wife and children" will see you in the same shitty position as all the rest of them.

The only solution to maintain respect and attraction is to maintain control. Control over yourself, your life, your finances, your sexuality and your options. Marriage / monogamy / kids and the state will all erose control over your life and your finances down to almost zero, and attraction and respect go with it.

I don't have complete solutions for you. Noone wants to walk away from their kids, and women will exploit anything and everything that they can.

No oneitis, I've been with a handful of other girls. It is rare to have a girl with a known history, comes from a good family, and isn't completely brainwashed by the current society.

yes

I'm against marriage for the most part

GOOD

and would only do so if I could protect my assets 100%, i.e. completely separate from the state in a state without common-law.

The only 100% guarantee is to not get married. Prenups get thrown out all the time.

I understand prenups do not work and all the issues surrounding marriage as well.

good, but do be wary of all the other traps too.

I could certainly find another LTR like this later on and vet her properly,

Yes and no. Another LTR sure....... but if she's 22, she's had what..... maybe 5-10 guys that you know about. When you're 30 and your next girl is 30, it's not going to be the same story.

That being said...... at 28 you can easily date 22 again.

there would be more unknowns though. Looking for some honest input from older members that have seen similar situations play out.

You've got all the right thinking, except you're trying to make monogamy work. I think monogamy itself is fatally flawed: women just are not emotionally capable of it. Monogamy leads to exploitation of the man, and I just can't see any way round it or any exceptions.

(LOOOOSERRRR)

proof that I'm not an ugly piece of shit

Knock that shit off.

This girl might have worked great for me as an LTR

This line, and reading between the lines in the rest of this, leads me to believe you still have an LTR as your goal. I've said this to you and others before, but I'll reiterate:

Why the fuck is an LTR your goal? Your goal as a man is to get laid. You can be open to the possibility of an LTR, but if it's your goal, you'll be A) giving commitment too quickly and to the wrong women, and B) very off-putting to most women.

Don't even let the word "relationship" or any of its variants like "LTR" enter your brain until you've been fucking a chick for several months and she has earned more than just dick.

this is basic sidebar material.

Be easy and willing to let go with an easy going attitude, that's how it's easy to win them. I was willing to walk because I had no horse in this race, I just wanted to help and have some playful interaction...

Either way, I won.

Outcome independence. Good.

Replicate that as much as you can.

I understand prenups do not work

I used to repeat that mantra a lot, but I've since been exposed to new information.

Attorney James Sexton has stated many times that in his well over 20 years of practicing divorce law in the state of NY, he has never seen a judge throw out a prenup. This is true whether it's one he (Sexton) drafted for his client years earlier, or one that he (Sexton) had tried to get thrown out on behalf of a client.

The downside being: this is NY state, and I doubt you'd want to live under their otherwise terrible local governments.

and all the issues surrounding marriage as well.

Good. It's pretty much all responsibility with no upside for men.

As far as should you stay or go, only you can answer that. I'll tell you this, though: If you change your plans and give up your dreams/goals for a woman, in a cruel twist of women's nature she will lose attraction to you.