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Sitting in a queue next to the women in them 60\70s like.
They have their Titanic moment going back to cute guys 50y back and to pubs and discos at the time.
If these wrinkles just could say the whole truth...
After my recent breakup and dealing with severe anxiety and heartbreak, somehow I managed to act.
Will not get into the breakup of my relationship, it just happen recently. I am lost, feeling lonely and heartbroken, jumping from severe anxiety to just anxiety on a daily basis.
As I was trying to keep busy from thinking about my pain, i spotted a chick on social media, I had her as a friend for a while but never spoken with her, i did see her around the city a while so I decided to message her.
I texted her some compliments about the way she rides her motorcycle, I thought nothing of this and moved on with my day. Later she replied that she's surprised that I noticed that and that she's happy for the compliments.
We started chatting about motorcycles and school and life, nothing too deep, just lightweight stuff.
Morning comes and her messages are just the same but she quickly turns into a sad message as she had her Long distance "relationship" end. In my heartbroken pain i decided to just voice message her with simply "You are sad, let me take you out of the house and you will feel better". She rejected my proposal at first but I insisted one more time with "how about I convince you to go out and fell better about today?".
I get the simple text back 5 minutes later "alright, i think i'm going out, where are we meeting?".
We ended up meeting in a good place in the city and what was supposed to be a "1 hour walk and we talk" thing, ended up being 3 hours of walking and talking, then driving her car, then staying in the car for more than an hour.
After much talking and personal insights into ourselves, we ended up french kissing in front of everyone, as the car was parked front first next to a nice place full of people.
We have plans to go out again "As friends" because we are both heartbroken and we need to take it easy. I don't care either way, even if she ends up being just a friend, she's a good addition to my life.
What i've learned here?
- I'm strong yet I don't know it yet.
- Just because some bad thing happened to you, it does not stop you to act on your logic and do something, even if it means risking feeling worse.
- I got game, both in text and face to face. When i was with this chick, i turned her around from "not wanting to kiss" to having a full blown making session.
- Heartbeak hurts a lot, my mind is filled with bad thoughts, but when I was with this chick, my brain was quiet, the pain was less present.
Good on you for making moves on other girls after breaking up with the ex. Study the book, get rid of anything short of the bike that reminds you of the ex and continue to move on with your life.
Read MoreI've always hated the YouTube format, needing to spend half an hour to get a point that could be read in a minute.
Now I can get AI abstacts of YT videos. Sweet.
@Vermillion-Rx bloated from all the alcohol from vacation but yes do plan to lose 10-15 lbs over next couple months. Not religiously bodybuilding like I did for many years, taking HGH to recover joints.
Can not and will not ever shave facial hair lol
Sitting in a queue next to the women in them 60\70s like.
They have their Titanic moment going back to cute guys 50y back and to pubs and discos at the time.
If these wrinkles just could say the whole truth...
Let's dismantle this bullshit.
- the woman has more risk
No she actually doesn't. Women live longer, therefore their lifetime risk is lower than men.
The risk on the date is only lower if the man is planning to rape or murder her. You can't charge nice guys for her inability to spot decent men.
The financial risk is much much higher on men: marriage, accidental pregnancy, false rape accusations.
This comment only makes sense if you believe that nice guys should financially compensate women for their terrible dating decisions and SHE IS MEETING AT YOUR HOUSE.
If she's meeting you in public then you're not going to be murdering her, so not sure why we are paying her insurance premium.
expense higher - hair, makeup, upkeep
Let's add in here the opportunity cost of being at the gym, 50 hours per month at $40 per hour. That's $2000 per month of my time at the gym. Compare this to her fucking makeup.
men have more to gain
Men have vastly less to gain from dating than women do. The financial burden only goes one way. The protection burden goes one way. Sex goes both ways. It's all costs for men and all gains for women.
Women should be paying us just for the chance to date us.
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Goingthedistance - First kiss close a few days after my breakup/hearbreak (A lesson in resilience maybe)
After my recent breakup and dealing with severe anxiety and heartbreak, somehow I managed to act.
Will not get into the breakup of my relationship, it just happen recently. I...... [more]
as friends
Urgh, don't volunteer for the friend zone unless you genuinely plan to be friends.
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