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Long-term relationship?
More like late-term preggo-ship, amirite?
@TwoInchesOfShaft Depends on the career trajectory. Doing that when young so you can obtain substantial pay and responsibilities later on is a reasonable choice. Beating your head against the wall in your 50s for 60 hrs/week year round doesn't sound appealing.
Anyone else here thinking no matter how good you are at your job and how far you could go, it’s not worth it to work 60 hours per week year in year out? I’ve come to the realization that a “career” is not worth anything to me if all other aspects of my life get neglected. I don’t care if my career would go amazing if I don’t have the energy anymore to pick up my guitar or to bang my wife. I’ll probably never take it easy, that’s not my personality, but grinding all the time is not appealing to me.
Everyone has given the right advice. Happy fun men are attractive. The best players love playing whether they win or lose, Playing and winning is best but playing and losing is still the next best thing for them. Women find men who enjoy being around women and making women feel good genuinely attractive.
So mingle and strike up conversations, enjoy women and let them see you enjoy them -at first with no agenda but if they warm to you and you warm to them, then escalate as fast as she likes.
Great sportsmen never really have one make or break game. That is the fallacy of the fan. The truth is great players are made by years of matches and hundreds of practises. Occasionally when they step out on a field and the stars align they get a break through that they and the fans never forget but that breakthrough stands on the shoulders of ten thousand very ordinary rehearsals, without which it would have been impossible.
Literature provides coaching suggestions but no coaching can ever make up for turning up to a practise 2 or 3 times a week and doing your strength and conditioning. Coaching makes training and practise more effective. Practise and training make players. This party is a great chance for some practise and who knows you might score. If you see it as make or break, score or fail, its adding pressure and too much pressure kills performance.
In the movies the coach whispers some magic into the ear of the athlete stepping out onto the field for the big match where the national team selector is watching. In reality its too late for magic by then. The hay is already in the barn by then. "Don't forget the wind is sharp tonight" is about as complex as its going to be. Usually its just "Go get them" or if the guy is nervous "Just play". Just play.
Read MoreI listened to this while commuting yesterday. I don't recall ever laughing so hard at a Rollo video. That Jasmine Jafar woman is an ignorant idiot.
(Rollo did fuck up by saying Elon would run for President; he wasn't born in the US and so can't. )
Nothing in Red Pill is ever about one particular woman or one particular event. It's about increasing your odds at optimal outcomes.
Relax, have fun, follow the advice matty gave.
Remember outcome independence. Even if you don't get laid that night, as long as you had fun and got some practice in, it's a win and a step in the right direction.
First of all, don't worry about minimising mistakes.
Concentrate on having fun, being social, and making other people around you have a lot of fun.
Start with people you know, but rapidly branch out and chat to everyone. At the very least, introduce yourself and smile at them. You want to "pre-warm" all potential contacts (male and female alike).
If you're having fun and talking to everyone, women will notice.
7h ago Ask TRP Forum
Advice for a big party
Hey,
I am going to a party on New Year’s Eve. I will be there with 8 boys and around 20 girls will come.
I’ve gone through a lot of material but I was wondering what you guys think I REALLY should review properly, or should do to maximize my chances to get laid not just once but multiple times with different women.
Only beautiful women are allowed, so not even ugly friends.
Like… things like you can’t speak about your sexual experiences with girls… but what if a girl I would like to hit on later on notices me doing sexual things with another girl.
I would really appreciate it if you could share your thoughts and eventually some things I should really read to minimize making mistakes that day.
Read More14h ago 2025-12-18 05:05:12 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
this person meets all your preferences
Apparently this app doesn't allow men to select "not pregnant with some other dude's kid" as a preference.
Brings needs and bills. You might get sex a few months down the line. Wearing nail varnish while pregnant suggests she is number one priority even over her child.


