I used to over-analyze a lot when I was newer to this and treat it like a war. That might be necessary for a while to force a real shift in our psyche but its not accurate.

This cannot be stated enough: while there are traits that all women share that we cannot talk about, there are just as wide a variety of women as there are men. We tend to focus on the hot whores because we originally pedestalized them and now we wanna conquer them. But the reality is most women are not in that category, don't operate that way, and aren't motivated or even aroused by the same things. Most women respond to measured comfort game with a confident edge. This comes from a dozen examples of not terribly attractive desperation lays to my ultra hot current GF AND fairly hot but very rich crazy side chick: the average woman tends to develop attraction in the following sequence.

You get her attention by some combination of proximity, status, some intangible thing she finds attractive, and your own interest (Sidebar: you generally have to signal some interest for the average woman to elevate you to potential partner/lay. The girl next door sees it as a massive confidence boost, the hot, rich model finds it to be a call to challenge you, but either way, you usually can't just "exist")

She determines you aren't a needy creep (abundance, lack of desperation)

You're "safe" (This has been repeated by most partners including HB9 GF and Rich Pretty Plate) Its NOT the feminist definition of "safe" even though they think it is, but in the contexts its been told to me, it usually means I've made them feel at ease. The Hot Rich Plate said I was smooth with how I handled coming over to fuck and didn't make her feel like a whore. She asked me to use her like a whore just last night but not at first. This is comfort game. The tingles have to flow in a state of ease, just like the orgasms. I'm also not directly talking about LMR, this is a persistent state of making a woman feel at ease with talking to you, being around you, and picturing being in bed with you. EVERY woman I have interacted with in person who had some romantic or sexual involvement with me has said the same thing: you make me feel so safe being around you.

Finally, you make her tingle within the above contexts with more of what TRP traditionally associates with flirting and building of sexual tension. But you can't overdo it, I've lost a lot of potential fucks by going too far with that. This is a fine tuned art, you have to be able to read her at all times. Even within a longer term very sexual relationship you can fumble it by being too focused on sex and tingles. You don't want to fuck all the time, you said so in your post, and neither do they. They have an ebb and flow to their cycle (get to know it) and sometimes washing the dishes does make her pant (HB7 nurse brought it up a few times).

I need to write out a whole post of my story and lessons learned.

But anyways, call off the airstrikes and psych warfare, give her some comfort game. While women do text men for attention, when its just for attention they are fastidious at keeping sex off the table. You're beyond that with her, she knows her interest is telling you sex is on the table even if she's not in the mood. She might be getting fatigued with the warfare, we are not as subtle as we think we are. She could be over there annoyed that she's clearly communicating that she wants to fuck you and you're treating it like you're still fighting for it. Women's attraction is not an endless well, and I've found there is always a clock ticking. They are a fickle species and they will only put up with stuff for so long before they're over it. And that is more or less permanent.

So don't squander it.

Finally: the surefire way to kill a relationship with a woman is salt. Being salty is utterly feminine and it will kill all feelings in minutes. I've taken absolutely in the pocket interactions and gotten myself blocked for expressing salt. Be angry at things that are worth being angry about, but those are very few and far between. Absorb everything else like a big boy. Disregard it unless it crosses a line. Salt is extreme neediness.

If you're one of those listless guys in your career, get a job in construction. Yes, you in the office. Just a few years.

First of all, you don't need to be superman, half the guys on the job are hungover and the other half are old, its not seal training. The gen alpha guys are incomprehensibly out of shape and out of touch. You will be fine. Just show up and try.

Second of all, you'll get well rounded general strength and cardio with SUN. I can't emphasize this enough. The way you'll feel and look by May is amazing.

Finally, you can always go back to the office and if you apply any professional skillset remotely related to the industry, you're not going to have a choice. I enjoyed it coming off several years of consulting but guess whose back at a computer running work? I still get out plenty though.