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I read this and feel like you came absolutely unglued for some stupid shit. This was very insecure and weak.
When you look weak, women leave. Women want a guy they can have banter with. It doesn't sound like she was trying to rub something in your face, but you spun it that way.
Girls are going to have exes. You're going to have to get over it or simply live single. You've definitely overreacted.
Don't bring it up with her again.
look over some other stuff
Too tired. Fuck it.
@Vermillion-Rx I'm about to go to sleep, so I'll try to keep this short so I can look over some other stuff
He's partly right, concerning forgiveness.
Here's where he's wrong:
1) if someone hasn't wronged you, there's nothing for you to forgive. A known thief who has stolen from multiple people but not from you isn't really eligible for your forgiveness.
2) you can choose to overlook someone's promiscuous past, but it certainly isn't a moral obligation to do so. In fact, it's quite foolish to do so. It would be like trusting that thief from my example in #1 with a hefty sum of your money.
I predict he's going to learn the hard way in a few years, if this isn't just rage bait, engagement bait, whatever.
Tag @lurkerhasarisen @houseoftolstoy this thread gives me deja-vu; didn't I engage one or both of you in something similar a few years ago at the WAATGM subreddit?
Read More@deeplydisturbed I gotta disagree
Not that I think he's 100% right 100% of the time or anything, because he's not. No one is (not even me!).
But I don't get what you could think is "off" about him. His "Sidebar Series" playlist is the best Red Pill content on YouTube, and much of his other content is good too. I've listened to the first four of his "Praxeology" books on Audible (twice each for the first two), and they're excellent.
What exactly do you find "off" about him?
I do not trust Rian Stone. Something is off about him. Sort of like Sam Harris. You could smell it from a mile away.
You have been warned.
Like First-light said, this kind of behavior comes across as very weak to a woman. I think you are overly sensitive and overreacted. Further, spelling out boundaries like that doesn't exactly spur attraction. Women know how to act if they want to keep a man.
It does look weak. It looks like you are easily triggered. Was she even having a shot at triggering you?
If its worth it to you to end it with her over this then carry on as you are.
If not, its important not to have nukes as you next escalation. "I will leave you if..." is the "I will fire nukes if..." option. You can take it no further. She is now having to walk on eggshells and you will look weak if she makes a simple error, lets something slip and you don't follow through. Another time say "Is this an ex again?" give her room to respond and back down. Of course they don't always back down but she might have and then there would be no need for the threat of the nuclear option, which you then even had to double down on. Even if she does not back down probe gently to get the back down. Unless she is trying to piss you off, she will not want to upset you. If you let her back down with face saved, it will be OK. If you make it an accusation, not an observation, it will require a defence to save face.
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