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2h ago Ask TRP Forum
On/off relationship. She says "something is missing" but won't fully walk away. What do I do
I need some outside perspective on whether I should walk away from a girl I deeply care about, or if this is fixable.
TL;DR: Broke up with a girl I was dating as she moved out the country and didn't want to do long distance. Got back together 2 years later when we lived in the same country. It was never the same. I tried to run dread game; pissed her off. She breaks up with me saying something is missing (after a heated argument). I initially brushed this break up as a temporary blip as it was after a heated argument. She came back after 10 weeks no contact wanting a fresh start, but after a few good dates, she immediately said "something is missing" again. What do I do.
The History: We dated for 5 months. She was incredibly invested, she moved to a different country. I ended it because I didn't want to do long-distance. She was heartbroken over it
We reconnected when she moved back. However, she was never the same to how she was before. She was a lot colder and noticeably less invested then me. Which was surprising as before the energy was probably 80% her 20% me. Now it was more like 30% her 70% me.
Because of this, I started inviting females to hang out with. (tried to run dread game as I knew she was not as invested as me. this didn't benefit our relationship). After a heated argument, she said "something was missing" and we broke up. I initially brushed this break up as a temporary blip as it was after a heated argument. She then went abroad for 10 weeks.
I went no contact. She reached out twice saying she misses me and she wants to chat when she was back. I reached out when she landed and ended up meeting for a chat.
We met up, agreed to try again, she said she cleared all her grudges and was ready to start fresh after her trip away. She felt she was never able to do that before and hated me after I ended things in long distance. I took her out on an amazing date, bought flowers and some gifts. The date went great, but the next morning she hit me with the same line: "Something is missing." Her mind changes with the wind. Last week she says she wants to try again, now she says something is missing. She has a lot of friends which give their 2 cents to her; and she lets her friends sway her saying to not go back there with me.
I told her not to make a rushed decision and to think about it. Without speaking with her friends. I love her, but I feel like I'm stuck waiting around for her to decide. I know the advice will be to walk away. But I do love this girl so it's hard. Do I send a text saying its over or go cold? Or try message her and make things work? I know TRP and would never behave like this normally; situation has me cooked
Read More@Lone_Ranger Feminists all hate men who go with whores. But they like whores. Yet without thirsty men there are no whores.
Its the same as liking supermarkets and hating shoppers.
In fact thinking about it, the don't do well with the symbiotic relationship of customer and business. They like flying abroad. They like heating their home. They hate fossil fuel pollution.
Usually its the producer of things they like that they hate. But since whores have vaginas, its the customer they hate. In Sweden he is actually a criminal while a whore is a legitimate business. How is that even possible? How did we ever get so cucked?
I practice semen retention. It's the most difficult thing I've ever attempted. The returns are beyond words, so is the torture. Maybe we're different, but what's worked for me is this game I've been playing that is nothing like the fruitfly training reels you kids play. You haul heavy loads with trucks through mud. Takes a lot of patience. Zero instant, hollow gratification. I've cut out every bad habit, and can confirm that not all gaming is evil. The slow and steady are actually great and take your mind off things when you've exercised and you're done working for the day.
@Hamzter Great.
It would be awesome if punctuation and paragraphs were also part of your recovery.
@Lone_Ranger what if the dude can't get hard unless she put the the Mask on her, she wants to feed her coz he is into her puking some colourful stuff, while throat_dong hard play...
The Film is only an excuse to footinadoorit, all chicks got Netflix.
@Lone_Ranger Surely she see sees it for what it is? But she can't risk spoiling the privilege.
My daughters know their orbiting simps. I am please to say that the more honourable ones do not encourage them, aim to avoid the discomfort of accepting things in such situations and take steps to reduce the risk of future developments.
Seen from a female point of view this is a great opportunity to extract but it is also a difficult situation. Men do need to be aware of this. Unless you are a stone cold bitch (Like 50+% of females) you are going to find yourself getting into increasingly uncomfortable situations as the simp tries to edge closer. Sure you can always assert your boundary at any point but this guy is being kind and may well be saying he only wants to be friends. Its harsh to push him away. He will probably slag you off when he realises you mean it. But its worse to keep having him try to orbit closer. Its the same invidious choice day after day. Go nuclear and tell him to back off or hope he gets the message this time.
If you raise women to be traditionally kind women, then this sort of simping thing is actually a problem for them. Its worth remembering that.
I have a daughter who has recently had a ton of Pandora jewellery dumped on her by an orbiting simp she can't seem to lose. (long story for how he managed to pretend this was only a friendly gift) She is trying to sell it all on ebay to return him the money as he won't take the silver back. He has give her work and discomfort by not seeing what should have been obvious if he was only better calibrated.
Guys who try to court by this method should be aware that 2 outcomes represent 99% of all probabilities. (90% you get butt hurt thinking you had the start of something and you may even feel led on. 9% she gives in and resents it (and therefore you) she never wanted something icky inside her. She is disgusted at herself and what does that leave her feeling about you?
Read More7h ago 2026-06-04 08:12:14 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
It sounds to me like he smashed and dashed. He got what he came for, and left.
What's the issue? She put out, then he got out. Job done.
All this bs about looking at the moon on the beach, ain't no bro got time for that. He's already balls deep in the next slut!
7h ago 2026-06-04 08:08:08 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
The 'dating' scene car crash has really evolved. We now have crash outs from plain janes as a form of content. Women watch these kinds of clips as a form of entertainment.
7h ago 2026-06-04 08:07:16 WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Forum
what is this spicy pill that she is talking about?
