What a find! So many goodies to unpack! Great fodder for WATGMA

A woman dragging other women back down into the crab bucket:

”But there’s no formula to getting (a good man).”

As Peggy Hill would put it: “If there’s one thing I learned in swim school is you cannot save a drowning man!” She was lazy and assumes therefore there’s nothing one can do to find a good man because she never bothered trying or thought it was something she wasn’t “supposed” to do (because she didn’t like doing it.)

Women a century ago understood the importance of making an effort, dating with urgent intent for marriage, not sleeping around for free meals, and so on. She doesn’t LIKE those things hence they don’t exist for her!

“There’s no surefire way to know you’re getting a good man. You’re playing with fire every single time.”

As Frank Sinatra put it: “That's life (that's life) That's what all the people say You're riding high in April, shot down in May.” Yes, there’s no surefire way for pretty much anything. Adults understand this and take calculated risks. They don’t use uncertainty as an excuse to wait for someone else to do ALL the work. THAT leads to…

“There aren’t enough men willing to treat women as equals”.

Yeah, waiting around for someone hot/successful to ask you out and clown entertain you white treating you as an equal is tough. There are so few men like that! THAT leads to…

“I got lucky. There aren’t enough men. I’m the exception to the rule (finding a good man)”

So you kiss your husband’s feet and state how wonderful he is to everyone yes? Oh, wait, he doesn’t get credit for being exceptional. In this video she doesn’t praise him whatsoever. She uses him as an excuse to shame other men, nothing more.

Hmm, speaking of “formulas” (formulae?):

“I met my husband at 22. I shouldn’t have gotten married at 24”

Hmmm, finding someone when you’re at peak SMV/RMV value and locking him in is the single most valuable way a woman can lock a HVM. It’s like selling all your homes in 2006 at the top of the market.

Jill Zarin in Real Housewives commented she sold her house in the Hamptons at the peak value and got a provision she could visit during the peak season. She not only made money from the venture, but she had a permanent vacation home which was the purpose of it anyway.

Instead of giving women actual, useful, advice about the REAL reason for her success, she’s shooing them off because she doesn’t want to show her husband any gratitude.

“Motherhood doesn’t benefit women”

By definition, she, as a woman, wouldn’t exist if her mother had become a feminist and never had her.