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I think a lot of us knew this about the mids, but to see it laid out like this is really valuable. I think it really explains why we have a much better time with the much more attractive or (really unattractive) women. AMS can happen theoretically at any level, right? But for it to happen, there needs to be a huge mass of them concentrated in one level, so men perceive them to be common fodder for approach.
Yup, a woman can easily avoid inflicting this upon herself (and let's be clear, participation in this cycle is entirely her choice - just because a drug exists does not obligate one to go to a dealer an buy it either) by having realistic expectations for romantic attainment to begin with and thusly avoiding the pump and dump cycle of men too far above her actual league to commit.
But that requires women to collectively admit that just because a man is willing to stick his dick in them does not mean they are able to attain him or his status. And they will never do that so long as society shields them from the consequences of that cycle or otherwise defers them until a later date.
Someone please post to the Reddit site since I cannot. Yes, it's old but I don't recall seeing it so why not repost?
1h ago WhereAllTheGoodMenAre Forum
The Unreasonable Question
Somebody asked the question: "Why does it have to be so unreasonable to want a relationship where the two halves are complementary, healthy for each other, inspire each other, help each other grow, and have real, unconditional love as the grounding point?"
Actually, it is not an unreasonable question. It is how relationships are supposed to be, or were back in the "Olden Days".
Society is different now. The times have changed. Society is now ruled by the ISMS, (feminism, socialism, communism, etc.), being ruled over by the minority of screeches of the perpetually oppressed, which changed the system from a hierarchy of achievement and success to a hierarchy of the number of ways that victimhood can be claimed.
Years and years and years and years later, this question is not only unreasonable, but it is very offensive. Men are not allowed to ask for reciprocity in relationships.
We got to this point because the power of the ISMS allowed women to break the social contract, yet still expect men to hold up their end of the bargain. Men are now the perpetual motion machines that are expected to continue to produce, without women having to contribute anything to keep them in motion.
Then enough was enough.
We gave them many chances. We warned them this was coming. We gave them time to correct their course. Instead of listening, they doubled down. They mocked us, berated us, looked down upon us, criminalized us, and called for our outright extinction.
In their own blind ignorance and hatred, they only hurt themselves. "I'm a strong and independent woman. I don't need no man!" They trashed us so hard that we just threw our hands up and decided to not give a fuck anymore. So we walked away. Now, they're crying for us to come back, but it's too late. "Where are all the good men?"
They threw it all away. They get no more time, no more energy, no more resources, no more protection. Now, they're on their own. So they can go curl up with one of their ISMS and cry into their pillows. We are not listening anymore, because we just don't care.
Read MoreI decided to move in with my girlfriend of 3 years based on a traditional framework i laid out beforehand. She was happily cooking every meal, doing chores etc. 2 months in and I felt she’s grown resentful and been acting out of obligations since I pay most of the rent/bills.
She didn’t say anything or complain but I could sense it. I told her to stop doing things if she isn’t genuinely doing it from a caring point. It’s been a few days now and oh boy my attraction to her is dropping significantly. Now i’m thinking what am i actually getting out of this relationship. Fair to say that I’ve been very busy with work lately and i’ve not been giving her much attention.
I’m interested to hear what you’d go about your girlfriend acting out of obligation.
Random Thought - Pre Winter Freeze Out Saturday Edition:
Here are the three red pilliest movies of all time. Not the ONLY ones, but my top three.
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The Matrix. for obvious reasons.
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Forest Gump. Good Lord in heaven. Where to begin. Jenny is the epitome of female trash CC riding whoredom, and dual mating strategy …ing. Sadly, the movie is fiction, and there are almost no actual Forest Gump people running around. But the world is FULL of actual Jenny’s.
- Titanic. We all know this one. It’s about a woman cheating on her rich fiancé with a hot poor guy, then letting the poor guy die so she can keep the rich life and the memories. (BTW, the movie never explains if she got pregnant from Jack) Rose threw away a $250 million necklace, did not leave one thing for her family, just because of one hot week with a literal homeless dude.
Enjoy your weekends men!
Read Moremen cannot help [being] bad
Congratulations! You have figured men out! You're absolutely correct, we are all "bad" and all mistreat women. Never were your choices in men ever questionable at all - it's just that they were all "bad". You had no hope of ever picking well. For 39 years you never met a good man, ever, because there simply aren't any to begin with.
I suggest staying away from these bad people for the rest of your life. We are all baby-killing sex fiends who just love "mistreating" women. Never let a man into your life, just stick to your female friends, who are pure and good and will never let you down.
I have no doubts I am a confident guy
I broke my Xbox controller pressing X to doubt.
You do not have the frame or optimism here reflective of just being rusty. That's normal for dudes but you need to be honest with yourself instead of coping. It's not just being rusty. You were never as confident as you think you were
"Gaming coworkers"
Not trying to smash just fun talks
They do things for me and invite me places
You notice how the women you're having fun with and not even trying to smash are investing in you?
There's a lesson in there and you're not making any use of it.


