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I mean look, if we want to sit down and dissect, nitpick and rip apart a product, sure, there will be a lot of faults, this applies to this shitty UI on the website and my app, so for the sake of being productive, let's not do that, but if you REALLY want to get into the details, here's just a sample of what I dislike about this website and why only boomers and people who are +40 years old will find it "good" (lol):
- How do I quote a part of your comment? Where's the UI element from that?
- Why are photos cropped, and why are replies to posts and comments are just thrown in the home page parentless? I need to click on a comment to pull up the whole thread? Why not posts and then tap the post to find the discussion?
- How do I distinguish a comment from a post being replied to in the home page?
- Where's the upvote button? Why is there a star? Is that a "favorite" or "saved" feature? Do you favorite your own comment (I noticed you did this previously)?
I could go on and on. To correct you there too, basic to me means lazy, I do not want to offend or disrespect @redpillschool (you keep tagging him, are you like hoping he hops on the conversation and backs you here or what's the point?) but basic means ugly, lazy, and unappealing, at least for me. I came here, I tried to find discussions/start a conversation and I'm just met with a barrage of comments and posts that have nothing to do with what I want.
I just can't believe how you'd see the app, you look at the website and go, "Yup, I prefer this +20 years old design". It does blow my mind, but I'm assuming it's an age gap.
Regarding the ephemeral nature of the app, valid feedback, and let me elaborate a bit more: posts and comments disappear from the PUBLIC domain, i.e no one will be able to access the comments on posts and the posts themselves except the OP, BUT they stay on your personal profile, accessible only by you, like you said, to be able to review later.
And for the love of everything that is holy: not everyone on the app will be TRP, the screenshot attached is just an example, this applies to the screenshot attached to this comment too, the advice will never 100% be TRP, so riddle me this: everyone and everything that was in the r/asktrp sub was TRP? I hope you catch this and move on already from "wHy tHe sHiTtY pOsT iN tHe sCrEeNsHoT nOt TrP, gAwRbAgE apppp!!"
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You can, at your own risk of actually losing her.
Because women don't actually appreciate deep conversations such as philosophical and if you essentially reveal your pussy/valnurable feelings to her like a hand of poker cards you'll literally lose the game.
The best way to prevent modern women feeling guilty for divorcing a good man for some dumb reason is to not marry these women in the first place, mainly because the odds are, they have already done things that would have those potential husbands disqualify them from marriage if only those men knew about it beforehand.
"Because these ‘good men’ are the very men who actually split the assets fairly, pay their child support, co-parent well, and still show up as dads."
It took her 1,000 paragraphs of mindless psychobabble, but she finally revealed the strategy she favors. She thinks the "good guy" will give skanks the softest landing when they need to go "find herself."
Hey, the "good guy" might even happily take her back after she's banged randoms for six months and decides she wants to "come home to reunite the family."
First, I want you to notice that in each of these examples, what these women are struggling with are FEELINGS – feelings of guilt, shame, and fear.
Yes, not material deprivation. Not physical harm. Not financial hardship. Not threat of ostracism or banishment or imprisonment. FEELINGS. Oh no. How do these poor creatures manage to survive? What with all the FEEEELINGS that they experience?
But the worst feeling of all-- which totally justifies blowing-up an otherwise working marriage-- is BOREDOM, apparently. And beyond that, ENNUI. Those two are just the worst, I guess.
Conveniently, with the right lawyer, the house and kids could be hers. Aheeheehee.
Random Thought - Saturday Evening Edition:
At this point in time, why the fuck would any decent man want his wife to be a SAHM?
Having been a single father for the past 10+ years, I can say with supreme confidence that it has been BY FAR the easiest aspect of my life. So easy in fact, that I worked full time and it was STILL less than a half-time job.
Once the kids are in school (5 years old or so) they are busy from 8:30-3:30 every day. So I just needed to work around them getting home - which I did very easily with work schedule adjustments and a few babysitters.
I still enjoy my role as a father, although it is more of a mentor role to my adult children at this point. But I’m still Dad no matter what, and it is a leisure time activity. It always has been.
So a woman staying at home to “take care of the house” and “raise the babies” is a fake gay narrative. I got ALL the work in the house done in less than an hour a day.
Read that again - the entire job takes about an hour a day.
I don’t take the laundry down to the river to beat them on the rocks, I don’t have to tend to goats and chickens, or milk cows with kids underfoot. Neither do modern women. FFS, Microwave ovens and dishwashers have taken away the last mundane tasks they used to do.
Raising children is a J O Y not a J O B (I want credit for that one).
So when women say that their place is NOT in the kitchen, I agree. Get your fat lazy ass out there and make some money bitch. The bills aint gonna pay themselves.
Miss me with all that bullshit.
“Tradwife” my ass. More like “fat whiny asshole parasite” (AKA FWAT - quote me on that one too.)
Have a good weekend boys!
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I somehow feel entitled as if all the progress I made was not for me.
good that you recognise this is wrong.
it is NOT... "build muscles and each oz of muscle gets you 2.5 girls".
being physically hot is great, but it's not everything
I resent it when they ghost me (irl and online) and go for someone else. After every cold approach I felt good and bad. My social circle is filled with guys who are worse than me.
don't think of guys as worse than you. it's fucking you up. especially when they get girls. they're just different. better at some things, worse at others. stop seeing it as a hierarchy.
I keep on expanding to different social circles but maybe because of the conservativeness (I'm not from the west) I haven't found a decent one with women maybe I should really go to a cooking or yoga class ( is it desperate?).
try it
I know it feel kn my heart If I remain on social media trying to land women from there it'll wreck my mental peace. I just feel tired at this point. Sometimes I look at a woman and I wonder all the cute act the silly act she puts on up. Uglier people,Fatter people,Broke people have it better than me while I have lost the grit to do cold approaches and social circles are deadwater.
Ok, so you need to:
- Be attractive
- Have a social life
- Find some sort of peace within yourself.
Because you sound immature, resentful and you think guys who are less successful than you are ... are more successful... and it's all fucking with your head.
Grow up a bit my dude... grow up. We're all on a journey. That small shitty guy? Turns out he's worth millions. That dumb looking dopey guy? Twelve inch dick. You just don't know, so stop thinking like that.
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Women usually aren't deep. But if you can have a deep convo, then sure, do it.
Ultimately do what works FOR YOU
Oh god, so much wrong here.
You tried way too hard. You invite, and if she doesn't jump at it, you back off.... maybe try once more...... after that.... NOPE. You come across as way too persistent.
You made it clear you were paying somehow. That's always a bad plan. Providership triggers LMR.
She's a fucking COLLEAGUE.
Were her earlier behaviors genuine signs of attraction or just friendliness?
Not relevant.
Why do you think she agreed to the outing discussions if she already had a boyfriend?
Several factors. I'm not sure she agreed to the discussions.... girls are in a tricky position here, because they aren't sure if you're being "just sociable" or asking them out on a date.
Does her "I'm conflicted" message suggest attraction plus guilt, or was she simply trying to let me down gently?
Hard to know.
What you hope: she's attracted and considering cheating. Maybe.
What it might be: Conflicted because she's thinking about using you for money and attention and ego. Maybe/
You don't know, and you're chasing the wrong thing here. You are chasing ego defence and clarity. Sorry but the world doesn't work that way. Not for men.
Almost certainly she's somewhat interested/attracted, but she's a colleague with a boyfriend, so IT DOESNT MATTER.
What would you do going forward, considering we still see each other at work/school?
Be friendly. It's fine. Other than that - totally give up and walk away from this one.
Fundamental problem: lack of better options. Fix that.
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