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Switching between “alpha” and “beta” behaviours creates inconsistency because it reveals emotional reactivity. When things feel good, a man is calm and decisive. When uncertainty hits, he starts over-explaining, over-giving, or seeking reassurance. That’s not strategy; that’s fear leaking through behaviour.
Women don’t analyse this logically; they feel the instability. They don’t know which version of you they’ll get, and that kills polarity over time.
As we already know alpha isn’t being cold or dominant 24/7. It’s emotional self-control. Warm when you choose, silent when you choose, decisive regardless of outcome. No mood swings based on her responses.
If your behaviour changes based on validation or fear of loss, it’s not character, it’s performance. Masculinity is consistency under pressure, not switching masks.
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Larrythelobster - Charles Bukowski - "Go all the Way"
*** “If you’re going to try, go all the way.
Otherwise, don’t even start.
This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind.
It could mean not eating for three...... [more]
Bukowski was a bit of a mess. A drunk who had a poor work history and toxic, sometimes violent relationships with women who we would suggest any man vetted out. Its very much the life that we would suggest a man who got in control of himself and his destiny, should aim to avoid.
Bukowski saw flickers of great beauty. He was an outsider (as many men are today) yet he never gave up on his genius. In spite of all his personal shortcomings which held him back, he showed us some of the beauty he saw and with some feeling that rings true.
Like all of us he was a mix of greatness and failure, perhaps a more polarised mix than most of us. But for men today, marginalised and often lacking fulfilment, who feel they still have something more to give, deserve to find something more from life and from love, he still has a relevancy and meaning as the lines you quote above show.
I had better check out the movie you suggest.
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...and I just had to manually add the word "sexism" to my phone's dictionary.
It had the word "misogyny" by default, but not "sexism". How odd.
@Stigma crap. It'll probably be tomorrow or the next day before I get a chance to actually watch it the whole way through
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Typo-MAGAshiv - Witness the spinning hamster wheel in which this Carol justifies divorcing "the nice guy"
Holy victim mentality porn
I started tuning out 10 seconds in
Honestly if your woman posts a video like this about your relationship dump her stupid ass
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Seagram7 - The product of too many romance novels...That assumes reading…I’d say Fast and Furious super fan or she's watched too much Son's of Anarchy or too many 1980's action movies
Fatherless behavior indeed. The great part about this profile is when you know how to parse the bullshit, she just volunteered that she is a worthless fuckpuppet that will never amount to anything worth investing effort or resources in. And the same for any woman that does not exert any sort of control over her hybristophilia.
Use this information as you see fit. Just be aware that she has the moral fiber of a cat in heat.
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