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I had the thought that sometimes girls will entertain being flirted with for the ego boost despite being with someone.
Yes.
Also, if you're in a marriage or closed relationship, it's something you can do too in order to maintain an abundance mentality without cheating. The MRP community calls it "catch and release". Take it as far as you're comfortable but also know you can score, and then end the interaction.
I did love helping her shop, it felt fun and playful.
Just look at it as practice.
So where did I go wrong?
I wouldn't necessarily say you "went wrong" anywhere. Some guys might have tried to get past the "I have a boyfriend" thing, but I always had a similar approach to Rollo's for that: even if it's a lie to be a gentle rejection, I don't want to waste any more time on someone who isn't in to me. And if it's the truth, I don't want to knowingly mess with a cheater. As far as making your intentions known sooner, that can help, but I think you had finesse. You just picked a target who was taken.
The only thing I might have done differently back when I was single and picking up chicks was look for signs of interest, especially clusters. For example, did she make eye contact, smile, and best yet preen in some way? Then go for it. However, if she didn't show interest, I wouldn't bother.
Read More@Kloi when I did that because of lower back pain I was thinking it takes pretty good balance to lift up a foot apply some force to laces, and not to fall.
@Typo-MAGAshiv Of course I do care some sort. You can't tell me you don't be sad if you have get rid of a good plate.
But I'm ready to walk away if I have to. Deal with the pain a few days and go back to spin the plates.
My question is just about interpreting the situation correctly.
Thanks for the video I will view it when I have some spare time.
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Field Report: The Salmon Shopper
I had just gotten off pretty late, I needed a few things for dinner the next night. My plan was to make my grandparents dinner and dessert the next night. Walk in to Aldi and I see a short, petite, brunette looking at fish. She looked like a young Claire Forlani with mild acne, incredible ass. Initially, she seems like she's grazing aimlessly, though she sticks around for a while at the salmon. What a coincidence; I'd like to see her fish. I walk up to her "trouble with the salmon?" is my opener. She laughs, and I help her pick out her dinner. We talk about past and future travels, about future dreams and goals, about best and worst jobs, I flirt and tease throughout. We pick up the salmon, along with potatoes. She helps me pick out my couple items. A solid ten minute interaction. Finally, as we have checked out, I go for the close: "Hey, we should grab coffee or a drink soon". I would have gone for the instant date but we both had refrigerated items, I live an hour from the town I was in. She says "I should have probably told you a while ago, I have a boyfriend"...
So where did I go wrong? Well first, I didn't establish intent with my opener or strong enough throughout, though I didn't because it's a smaller town and I don't want to become "that guy" in a town I work in. To me, although I was not explicit, it would seem obvious based on my flirting my intent. Though I'm starting to think I should have established intent anyways a la "Hey, I only help out cute girls with their shopping". Thoughts? Would establishing intent have been worth the risk? I did love helping her shop, it felt fun and playful. That felt like good game, I just don't love that I helped her shop for her date night with Chad lmao. I had the thought that sometimes girls will entertain being flirted with for the ego boost despite being with someone.
Read MoreThe fact the courts just automatically split any more than a woman needs to survive is fucking insane
@Typo-MAGAshiv Elton is embracing fagottry since the '70
“Babe, you are my boyfriend but my idol hero and warrior demigod is him.”
Translation: "You're my boyfriend and I let you fuck me and pretend to like it because you cater to me, but my mind, heart, mouth, pussy, and asshole belong to HIM."
I agree with you the question is, "What the fuck" but I would add in "are you letting her gaslight you with that bullshit for?"


