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Refreshing to read an article where the female complainant is not blaming her exes for wasting her time or men she dated for not being adequate.
The agony aunt actually gives semi useful advice in saying "stop spinning your hamster wheel when what you are trying to rationalise upsets you"
It is, however, a pity she that she didn't simply advise her to consider how much she really wants what she thinks she wants. Does she want it enough to become the kind of woman a man would marry? does she want it enough to seek out the kind of man who would marry her, does she want it enough to be a good wife. If so go and get it.
This is a bit like a boy writing in to say how can he stop feeling upset that he never gets picked to play for the school team in his chosen sport. "Well son take a good look at yourself. Are you cut out to play this game or would another game be better? Are you actually a nerd who should stay in the library, a geek who should be playing war games or should you be training harder and training specifically? If you really want this you are going to need to up your game. That is the only way to get picked. Otherwise do something else and get over it. Chad will always be cooler and you will always have to applaud him. Its life"
Read MoreIt's practically impossible today to find a woman worthy of becoming a wife and mother of your children.
Even a unicorn usually can't weather the 20-30 years needed to raise a family, and is eventually exposed to be a mashed up mule.
The problem is that men are deprived of the authority needed to enforce the constant readjustments that a woman requires. Women are alien to civilization, any kind of it. And not only marriage, but family itself is a product of civilization.
Dr Helen Fisher, a fientist ("feminist scientist") who is incredulously consider a "world expert" on love, in her book Anatomy of Love concludes that the solution, from her female standpoint, is "forward to the past", a past where women would fuck freely whomever they wanted in the bushes. That is the pinnacle of female existence, whatever we men might say or think.
Read MoreImportant announcement that affects all users:
YOU DON'T GO WELL.
That is all.
This reads like a bullshit story. The other option is that you probably are retarded.
Anyways, she has the tingles for him and you are the clueless cuck in this situation. If this is real, wake up and leave this toxic shit.
My thought is that: first off you're settling for mid tier chicks. They are usually the most entitled and jaded versions of themselves after 25. They have been ridden hard and put away wet. Guys see super hot women as unobtainable so they don't fucking try. Go after the hottest women on the planet. Don't settle until you're in your 80's and nobody has good options at that point.
Second is that you're simply focusing too much on results with women. Successful men focus on personal results and having an enjoyable life.
OLD has become a shit show. Almost everyone gets a 97% flake out rate unless your some sort of famous. You have to learn that women don't want commitment anymore. They want to drain beta bank accounts, get railed by alpha dudes and continue to operate that way until they are completely ran through.
Enjoy your life and be the dude that gives them dick instead of money.
Online dating is a fools game anymore.
Read MoreBridesmaid: "I've dedicated my entire life to walking in a man's shoes. Why don't men want to marry me?"
Therapist: "Just make up some excuses to make yourself feel better. It worked for me. I believe in you!"


