India is fucked too

Fuck here we go again. Little background about me. I am an Indian dude who grew up in the most urban and upper middle class neighbourhood in the capital city of India- New Delhi. This is critical for what is to come. Bear with me.

I grew in a time prior to dating apps. Prior to Instagram. It was a wonderful time to be alive. My elementary dating life started with quite some success. Same with high school and college. I was dating cuties all the time and had no trouble pulling chicks in "India". But since 2015 I have observed a drastic change. All the cuties and hotties are only seen with chads nowadays. I got on apps two years ago. Never had any success. I am hearing stories from younger dudes how everyone is cheating nowadays even in marriages. I have several stories to back this up. Recently me and a buddy I met in a hostel I was staying at in a beach town decided to hit up a bar. He started talking to this girl who was like a 3/10 and anyway he wanted to bang so I played wingman. She tells us how she is happily married but being red pilled, I laughed internally becuase she literally knew every dude in the bar by name. Atleast 5 dudes said hi to her at the bar. She said she knew the owner too. And lo-and-behold I saw a bumble notification pop up on her phone. My buddy thinking she was happily married naively caved in and went into nice guy mode. She lost interest and moved onto something else that tingled her that night.

Long story short- India is fucked if you are an average Indian male. What we are left with is arranged marrianges but even there I have heard of horror stories where woman keep going back to the chads from their past and milking their husbands dry in courts. Earlier before all this online bs, if you really remember and think, a woman in a neighbourhood had limited options but it worked out for everyone involved. She could meet a guy at work, neighbourhood get-togethers or whatever, mutual friends, school etc and you could game her even if you were not a literal greek god. Why? Because she didnt have a whole city of millions of options to choose from. I have given up and started to look at SEA for better and more authentic dating life. I have lived in the US and Canada. I wont even get started with the dating situation there but it was important to give a ground report to guys (especially Indian guys raised in the west) about the plague that has reached India too. Gone are the days where you could come home to snap up a good wife. Now she has taken more dicks in her mouth than the number of times you have even talked to a woman IRL. If you think I joke, I challenge you to visit Bangalore, Mumbai, New Delhi and see for yourself.

This reads as a rather grim summary of a situation, almost bleak. So, what's your plan going forward given the goals you have in mind for yourself?