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no abortions. I wouldn't date a girl who ever had an abortion.
As I said, "the sad truth is your girlfriend likely had an abortion before you knocked her up, that's why she had the miscarriage." It's not a topic any female would have ever gotten into with you especially when they're of the equestrian class.
@Dark108 so forget her and get with a woman who actually wants you
@MentORPHEUS cos she up her ass, thinks guys should pay for everything. Drop her and do so sorts of crap, for what a kiss? I do believe she’s a virgin too which would make the whole thing exhausting right?!
@Dark108 I see plenty of RMV red flags in this woman. That said,
When I suggested meeting halfway, she refused and insisted I either pick her up or pay for her taxi. I stood my ground and said I’d only meet halfway.
If your aim is to get into her pants, why make this the hill the opportunity dies on? Why not drive the fuck out to her to run game on and feel her out in person? If it's a litmus test of her investment into you, you're testing her before she's been offered a reason TO get invested in you. In fact, there would probably be something wrong with a woman who WOULD travel past plentiful candidates near her to take a chance on more distant you.
Don't get so caught up in "not appearing to simp and supplicate to her" that you completely turn over the table of how men and women naturally meet up and get into relationships with each other based on thousands of years worth of built up imperatives.
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In seventh grade (both of us being 13 yo) there was a RAW gypsy girl who found me attractive, always tried to be in the vicinity of me, asking how was my day, what is my favourite food (!) and if I like her... I told her that she is not my type (a blatant lie, i was just trying to avoid headache), I basically friendzoned her (she said: OK let's just be friends then). What you must know before me opening up the main point of this post: Gypsies are known for their extremely outgoing, and extroverted style, I am not exactly gypsy, but they always liked me due to being normal, ie. not an autist and having similar style to them. Why did I wrote RAW - well, she was kicking boys in the face(!), and having an aggressive style. Around me she was literally submissive, but studying filled my thoughts, as I was preparing for one of the best high schools in my country, this gypsy girl was least of my concerns.
A day before me friendzoning her, she literally asked me this question:
"Do you want a blowjob?"
I did completely ignore her, because I thought she was up to no good, but a few weeks later my realizations came as to what did I miss out on. She actually did have sex with an other gypsy boy, and they ended up as a couple. As far as I am concerned, I think this can make a TRP post in itself, but would like to hear some input from you RP masters as to what are your thoughts about this.
Reads like she was apart of a human trafficking ring. You had good instincts for a 13 year old in dodging that bullet.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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