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5h ago The Hub
@Stigma For the mortal sin of Making Trump look bad. His approval rating is through the floor, and his DOGE team of fellow autists firing Federal workers and shutting down government departments was hitting very bad outside the MAGA bubble. Tesla sales are way way down worldwide also; maybe Trump got disgusted at the presence of a loser.
Eh. I can see why you think it's anger phase but it pulls down the standards of behavior for every other woman downstream of it
11h ago The Hub
@polishknight I agree to what you said.
Its not that I have zero empathy. I have lot of it. However it does not mean I have to tie my wellbeing to anyones feelings. Gray rock does not mean having zero empathy.
Women living alone have often terrible apartments. But dont insult bachelors cribs.
I still live in my bachelor crib, its a mixture of a gym, music studio, and sleeping room. I love it and feel happy there, even tho I have access to big family home and other two classy apartments, my crib is my favourite.
I am also 37, should I be proud or ashamed?
12h ago The Hub
@derdeutscher I took the Clifton asssessment and scored bottom on the "empathy", I suppose, because I kept putting 0 score on whether I worried what other people thought of me and their "happiness". I'm not one of the autistic types who utterly ignore peoples concerns and feelings (just the opposite) but I don't take responsibility for how they feel. In business, I have learned the importance of "making" people happy and monitoring their reactions (it's perhaps more important than my actual "job").
In my marriage I'm the "leader". I find it amusing how women say they want men to "lead" even as they want to tell the "leader" where she wants to go. This basically means, in modern womanspeak, they want to do as they please and the "leader" deals with all of the consequences. If not for me, my wife would be on a continual roller coaster.
Perhaps when women are by themselves, they are "happier" sometimes in a sense they don't engage in the "I give him sex and he runs my life for me" so they wind up in perpetual complaint mode with men versus when they're single, they do have to accept some adult responsibility to avoid starving to death. That's philosophical though because I told my wife she has a CHOICE whether to fret endlessly about house chores and such.
That being said, on average about 1/2 of the women I dated before I got married lived like utter slobs. WORSE than the bachelors. One defining characteristic was that the slob women seemed to have a phobia about dishes. They HATED filling and emptying the dishwasher, one of the most easy chores imaginable, because they either hated doing dishes AT ALL or were perfectionists and wanted to "prewash" them but got busy and the dishes piled up.
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