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Agreed, this issue is more complex.
Yes, but there is a difference between overthinking and effortful thinking. There is benefit in integrating and arranging information already learned in a way that allows for improved informational processing later
Overthinkers on the other hand do not integrate existing information. They masturbate new information into existence even when the old information should be sufficient. They aren't making any new or meaningful associations. They are thought-jizzing all over basic information and then thinking they are some frustrated Socrates.
Secondly yes, trying to use red pill tools to achieve blue pill goals is another newbie mistake.
Overthinking is part of the process when the paradigm shifts, but it's just a phase. Many get stuck in analysis-paralysis and that's the problem.
Another problem is the cognitive dissonance, like in this case. He still believes in bluepill fairy tales even tho he knows whats up on the logical level. I've seen many of these fence sitters in the old asktrp, chasing their own tail. In this case, you need to autistaically apply the tenets until you get success, then repeat the process.
The worse thing is to consume even more RP material. You and me telling him to just talk to hoes is the same as asking a whale how to get fish, just open your mouth bro.
If you fence sit, the only thing you'll get is fence picket up in your ass.
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"I don't want to be a nice guy anymore"
See, you keep putting a lot of emphasis on your own traits and identity instead of just doing what would get you laid.
Meet girl > make her feel some emotions > make plans /trade digits to fulfill said plans > meet up for plans escalate/pull > fuck
You guys who can't get laid on here completely defile that simple process with unwarranted mental masturbation. Nothing else matters. Not your philosophy, self evaluations etc. only the above sequence will get you laid. She'll skip some steps if she wants to fuck badly enough
Thanks man. I'll make it more of a post later
It doesn't help you get laid as I mentioned. I was just saying the only relevance money has is providing you the freedom to do more tingles activities. Which i also pointed out she will probably like more than you
It's not reliable. It gives otherwise unfuckable men more access to pussy than if they were unfuckable and broke
@Goingthedistance she thinks you[re a fuckboy? Great. Do not disabuse her of this notion
Tell her you're quite busy - that you donj't really love texts. tell her that you prefer when you are together - tell her that you're tired from the grind - and that she can come over, make dinner and you can watch a movie. that you enjoy quality time with her. that's the move my boy.
ask any guy that has had money.... money does not get you laid. It really really really does not.
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"I don't want to be a nice guy anymore"
Well then don't. Don't ever be the nice guy and then expect that to get pussy. Doesn't work like that. You should know this by now?
You can be nice to your dog. to your family, to your close friends.
Being nice is the hands down worse way to get or keep pussy. It just doesn't work. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
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Money helps you get laid IF money gives you access and freedom to do things with her that give her tingles.
You got a yatch? Invite her on it with wine = tingles.
Got a swanky penthouse overlooking a major landmark? = Invite her over and she'll probably put out more easily than some other location with the same man.
Own a ski condo with your own gear? = Tingles trip without spending any money on her specifically
Money doesn't make you better at seduction, but if you have assets and ability to use them, it can help you, even if you don't personally spend a scent on her because you own it already and doing the activity already. The drawback is she might like that shit more than she feels about you
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