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Sounds kinda weak on your part. Like, you want to simultaneously be incapable (for whatever reason) and command respect/submission. Can't have one without the other. Don't know what the nature of your medical condition is. But if you're going to be out of commission, then maybe let your wife decide for herself what she needs. If you just acknowledged that in the first place, then you wouldn't have to lose face by first resisting, and then not getting your way anyways.
That whole "not coming around for Easter holidays" ordeal seems kinda pointy and childish too. If your frame is really so weak that you can't stomach an Easter holiday around your nagging (but helpful) mother-in-law, then maybe you should take it as an opportunity to practice a bit of game.
As for the first 2-3 years of a kid's life; Sure, you could say a lot of the practical, baseline nurturing stuff is more mother's domain. But you still form a strong bond with them (one that subconsciously impacts them for the rest of their lives). And that takes time spent with them.
Read More@derdeutscher I’ll be straight with you. I’m sick to the back teeth of dealing with people with petty and self made problems that make them miserable and loathsome creatures on a day to day basis that take it out on everyone else. This story right here? Checks all the boxes. Get a fucking grip. People put on underwear every single day, and then there’s you angling to make your hang up about it hers. I can just tell misery likes company here.
@derdeutscher Methinks you're HUNTING for something to get pissed off at her about! She was eager to fuck, and eager to discard the panties to facilitate this, right? If yes and yes, then why obsess over them?
Highest number of VCards i've ever given someone, spelling out "PANTIES" the best I can without hexadecimal.
This is why I love this site
www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/323963/some_low_hanging_fruit_for_my_return
admitting we are powerless.
There are States where we're barely conscious and we can't even say are we powerless or else. Need some grounding.
I barely drink and I was considering (still do) going to AA for grounding.
Just because I don't know, not because I need it or even think it'll help me.
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I can't speak for him but my disdain for NA/AA comes from the first step, admitting we are powerless.
Perhaps it is my ego that gets in the way but why the fuck did i choose to show up here if I'm powerless?
It's never sat right with me and my experience has been most people there, are court ordered. The vast majority of those will be back on their bull shit the moment they're off paper.
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