The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
Damn. Yeah I was unaware of how psychotic this woman was as well till I told someone my first few stories about shit she did and they were like "wtf i can't believe that's a real story". One guy put it pretty succinctly "oh fuck that I'm exhausted just hearing that little of what you've said, that would be a fuck no for me you dodged a massive bullet"
Somehow I did not realize the toll it was taking on me. Another reason I had to quit drinking, i think i was just drinking through every stressor from it
@Vermillion-Rx Hehe, throwback to me telling my ex she needs to take responsibility and apologise if she has a mood swing and storms off for no apparent reason... Her response, to tell me everything would be fixed if I said things like this during the mood swing and then banshee scream at me "WHY".
Myself, I burst out laughing in response to that, surreal moment. The look on my friends faces when I told them about that was one of the main factors which started me realising her behaviour was not normal lol.
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I'm skipping duplicate videos where the topics are identical to previous ones. Learning something mostly new each time by doing that
@Vermillion-Rx delving a lot in learning about it will become ruminating soon enough, and will keep you hooked, you will be reliving the stressors over and over again, exact opposite of a meditation.
Saying that learn how do you enable it, make notes useful to you [against your enabling behaviours] and forget about it.
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This channel hits hard. I thought these cognitive problems were my own fault or because of drinking (it may in part have been). I didn't realize this was all a genuine problem happening to me through a narc through. I thought I was imagining these symptoms or that they were my fault
1: Memory Problems
2: Memory Fragmentation
3: Rumination and Overthinking
4: Inattention
5: Judgment and Decision Making
6: Cognitive Dissonance
7: Cognitive Fatigue
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Narcissist anger video.
There isn't enough frame in the world boys. Just throw in the towel and leave if you encounter this
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@Vermillion-Rx Congrats @Typo-MAGAshiv ! Long overdue.
but there are other women's YouTube channels with decent information.
I have no doubt about this. I have no doubt as some men say they came across a talented woman in lets say an engineering, where you can't be approximately right. But...
newly unplugging men to stop listening to the harmful ones
if you are going into an uncharted territory you won't know what can be harmful and at what dose you get something harmful [this is how it all started - step by step],
If to consider only social science [let's say TRP is in it] that has no real boundaries on the opinions and a research -- a woman will not be able to control their programming and you wont be able to say what is good or bad for a man, before.... you actually know way more so you can check the message. But if you already know that much then why to listen to it.
Then lets say your info source has your trust, now the source starts to manipulate you to get more gains, that'd be an average person's modus operandi, even more so a woman's one.
This is my analysis of the threats and the opportunities.
SO while I'm not saying your ADHD person is bad, I would probably come to a conclusion to be careful with a new content.
Read MoreBTW, I have seen few videos of DR Ramani, she looks well informed, but at the same time I have this lack of trust to a woman's psyche to handle the information and take it all mentally. I tend to filter a woman's processed info very much these days or at least put on it huge pinch of salt.
While women's advice is usually terrible, some of them can give good info (just not about how to be attractive to men).
I'm not familiar with the particular woman you two are discussing, but there are other women's YouTube channels with decent information. One I subscribe to is about dealing with ADHD. I don't watch every video of hers, mainly because at 45 years old I've had a decent handle on it for several years already, but occasionally her content will give me some new tips or remind me of a decent strategy I stopped doing for whatever reason.
There are others.
I think the "never listen to women about anything" line is mostly useful to get newly unplugging men to stop listening to the harmful ones, which unfortunately is most of them. Once they've been unplugged a while, they can spot the women who offer helpful advice and separate what's helpful from what only serves Team Wahmyns or what's just useless jabber. And of course, the helpful ones usually aren't talking about dating or relationships or sex. I can't think of the last time I saw a woman who was more helpful than harmful to men on that topic.
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