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@polishknight I agree to what you said.
Its not that I have zero empathy. I have lot of it. However it does not mean I have to tie my wellbeing to anyones feelings. Gray rock does not mean having zero empathy.
Women living alone have often terrible apartments. But dont insult bachelors cribs.
I still live in my bachelor crib, its a mixture of a gym, music studio, and sleeping room. I love it and feel happy there, even tho I have access to big family home and other two classy apartments, my crib is my favourite.
I am also 37, should I be proud or ashamed?
2h ago The Hub
@derdeutscher I took the Clifton asssessment and scored bottom on the "empathy", I suppose, because I kept putting 0 score on whether I worried what other people thought of me and their "happiness". I'm not one of the autistic types who utterly ignore peoples concerns and feelings (just the opposite) but I don't take responsibility for how they feel. In business, I have learned the importance of "making" people happy and monitoring their reactions (it's perhaps more important than my actual "job").
In my marriage I'm the "leader". I find it amusing how women say they want men to "lead" even as they want to tell the "leader" where she wants to go. This basically means, in modern womanspeak, they want to do as they please and the "leader" deals with all of the consequences. If not for me, my wife would be on a continual roller coaster.
Perhaps when women are by themselves, they are "happier" sometimes in a sense they don't engage in the "I give him sex and he runs my life for me" so they wind up in perpetual complaint mode with men versus when they're single, they do have to accept some adult responsibility to avoid starving to death. That's philosophical though because I told my wife she has a CHOICE whether to fret endlessly about house chores and such.
That being said, on average about 1/2 of the women I dated before I got married lived like utter slobs. WORSE than the bachelors. One defining characteristic was that the slob women seemed to have a phobia about dishes. They HATED filling and emptying the dishwasher, one of the most easy chores imaginable, because they either hated doing dishes AT ALL or were perfectionists and wanted to "prewash" them but got busy and the dishes piled up.
Read MoreDon't get me wrong, it's clever, i never personally would have thot of it.
That being said, the rot goes so deep that I can't respect it. She could have used any other object and been just as creative. She could have given her dog pajamas or something to cast screen on.
The element of whoredom that needed to be added to creative ingenuity is just a societal decline I can't comnend. And there are countless men who would rather watch that all day than approach a woman who might actually fuck them.
@Vermillion-Rx HAHA, I've got to give credit for actually coming up with such a ludicrous idea that I know will draw a crowd.
I thought I couldn't despise e-thots any more than I already did, but alas it is bottoms of the barrels all the way down™
4h ago The Hub
@redpillschool For some of us we are force fed the red pill to start but all those who accept it have o2 things in common
- They are prepared to say they got it wrong.
- They are prepared to be called wrong and ridiculed rather than give up the truth. Sound like the kind of thinkers we need.