The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
The problem with you guys is you don't have social skill, because you don't really have friends (at least friends who aren't loners or struggling with the same problem).
Do you know who doesn't have problems talking to chicks? Guys who can hold basic conversations with men and women.
Guys in your boat think there's some magic pussy password script when talking to women. There isn't. Most of getting a woman interested in 80% normal ass conversation with some personality and other elements sprinkled in. It's not 100% "talking to women" speak. It's mostly basic conversation but more directed
You have the same issue as a million other guys who spent all their time on the internet reading shit instead of doing things
You come here posting about pussy when you have no friends. Girls will not fix this. There is a much deeper social deficiency here
@newUser12301 well, I'm responding because you responded in good faith. good for you.
Your issue seems to run much deeper that picking up chicks.
You point to your issue here:
"like i dont want to be seen as a clown, or seducer, try hard, or inexperienced. "
you care too much what others think about you.
Sorry, i stated that wrong:
You care too much about what you think others think about you
Shall i tell you the truth? Others don't think about you at all. men that are not famous, celebrities or sports stars are invisible. Nobody thinks about you, except maybe your family, and very occasionally, one or two of your close friends.
You have to realise that you are suffering from main character syndrome. Also, most young men have actually become like women - thinking in MCS terms is a very feminine behaviour.
you need to reprogram yourself. there is great freedom in realising that you are nobody. you are not 'seen as a clown' because you are not seen at all. You are invisible. get used to it. grow to love it. realise that it brings freedom.
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@newUser12301 unless you do something that really stands out such as launching into my 100% surefire method, most people won't even notice or pay any attention.
Besides, why would you care what they think? Their opinion doesn't affect you one bit.
@redpillschool I know, right?!
That sneaky fucker was hiding in plain sight!
@redpillschool I'm not so sure about that.
Rollo isn't half the writer that Roissy or Dalrock were. Hell, we have better writers here on this very website.
His ideas and theories were great, but he is far more engaging as a speaker than he ever was as a writer.
At least, when he stops rambling and stays on topic lol
@Lone_Ranger Thanks for answering. While I understand these are question to be asked to myself, and I got the answers to them, there's one which seems to be the most important. "What do you think is holding you back from talking to chicks?" I think it's not so much about the girls reaction or answer, but how the people around would perceive and think of me. "What if my opener is dumb", "what if I run out of things to talk and the conversation follows that awkward silence, and in front of people!". like i dont want to be seen as a clown, or seducer, try hard, or inexperienced. I think that may be it. Have you ever experienced something akin to this? Thanks for your time.
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@Typo-MAGAshiv The famously Jewish podcaster who wears a yamika on his shows to remind everybody that the guy with big bushy eyebrows that talks about Israel all the time is Jewish? THAT GUY?
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