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Hello,
I have met this chick 2 months ago on her trip in my city. We had a great time until we separated. We ambiguously discussed meeting in NYE which later turned serious with me giving her a direct invite.
She later mentioned that price tickets are high, she can't afford coming during NYE, and would be coming a week later. When she was mentioning her plans she didn't mention anything about us meeting but framed it a way that she'd be visiting her grandmother. I didn't react to that, but I did mention I'd like to see her but after NYE would be difficult due to my work condition. She said that she'd also like to meet but lets not make it mandatory, if we will want to meet we will meet. I just moved on, until she asked as to why I'd be busy and I left the conversation at that.
I am seeing other women currently every weekend, but I do recognize I like this girl much more than anyone I am currently dating.
I was turned off by the 'lets not make it mandatory' comment, therefore I went radio silence.
Now I understand that the medium is the message, and there are no mixed signals.
What do you think about the ambiguity?
Read More@OPStolen I mean she telegraphed this from a mile away. Don't fuck it up
@redpillschool ok nevermind. She asked me to Apple Pay her and get a hotel room for a hookup. Absolutely wild.
@redpillschool I replied “someone can’t keep me blocked, wyd”
An ex just sent me pics of us together after not talking for a year, is there a way to try to hookup?
How do you ask your girlfriend for nudes?
I really don’t want to have an awkward conversation: “Hey, it’s been a while since we’ve seen each other, I’m pretty horny, can I jerk off to you?”
But, I want some pics and I used to pay for porn. So I’ve never been in a relationship and asked for nudes. Usually it’s “hey, what’s the price for some (ex) armpit pics? $10? Ok great”.
So how do I ask without looking like a loser for asking? I don’t want to “give her the ick” but I do want some pics before I go to work.
Well I largely abandoned any concern with “game” about a year ago after I was having success with women who liked me rather than worrying about saying the right stuff. I am naturally funny so I don’t need a smooth line, and if they don’t give me any opportunity to show how funny I am then they must not be attracted enough right off the bat for me to want them around anyway.
Reads like you're describing pick-up, more-so than game, but it's good you're observant that females may see you as easy on the eyes. However, guys who depend on humor alone tend to be wimps. The problem with being a wimp is that most females barely know what to do with the pu$$y they were born with and aren't particularly interested in having a second one in their life.
@Typo-MAGAshiv This is interesting because it shows that you and I have different definitions of what game is. I don't have a problem with your definition but I now know that we may be talking about slightly different things. I wonder if there is an agreed standard definition out there?
The best way I can explain it is that I like to separate the player's skills and abilities from the game he plays. So being funny is not having game its having a talent. When you are making people laugh in general you are not using game. When you use humour to get a girl relaxed and giggling submissively because you want to seduce her, or getting a room to laugh because you want a girl to notice you, then you are a player using your game.
I think you are not separating the player from his game. That's OK and its more wholisitic but the way I do it, I like to encourage men to become more talented players rather than to practise game.
Another way to look at it is imagine two guys. One weighs 8 stone and has been practising a combat sport for a decade and is a weight champion. The other is 16 stone, low body fat, strong, powerful, has played several sports well but has only spent a year learning this combat sport. Who has the better game -the 8 stone weight champion. Who is going to win a fight to knock out or submission -the 16 stone athlete unless he really screws up. This is because he simply is the more talented player.
I like to discourage the young men who come here wanting to get a first girl from looking too hard at what I call game and looking instead at becoming a talented player. Just as if a man is heavy, strong, powerful and athletic, he will beat almost any man. Likewise if a man is successful, good with people, healthy and well presented, he will do better than men who have less of these characteristic but really practise PUA game, especially if he is not trawling the haunts of casual sluts. Girls will come to him.
I think you tend to say much the same thing but you call it game, while I call it ability.
Its just interesting to see the different definitions.
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