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@Lone_Ranger I disagree. I respect you as a contributor and as a man. I think in this case you straddling the line of moralizing. These people are just people. Just like regular vanilla dating some will be quality and some will suck. It's a mixed bag. I find fun and enjoyment in this shit.
Don't Yuck someone's Yum. Yumyuckers are patronizing and usually take the route of moral superiority. If the man wants to experiment, let him experiment. It's his life and his decision on wether it's for him or not.
Don't get it twisted. Monogamous dating or non monogamous activities both can go well or go to shit.
No one lives forever, so try things. Make mistakes. Experience joy and create stories.
I see too many guys afraid to live. That's not me.
@Ill_Will7 Mt approach to meeting women has always been the same. Sexualize the conversation early. You let these women know you're comfortable with sexuality and you can non judgementally talk about it.
I throw in compliance tests to show hints of dominance.
Your comfort makes them comfortable. The will start to confide in you because they feel the tingles and feel safe.
Your job is to listen: Her: I've always wanted to play with a woman. I'm curious about being tied up. I wonder what a sex party is like?
You: Sounds hot. Let's set something up and ease you into this.
I meet women everywhere. I just talk.
@Ill_Will7 look bro, this is some divisive shit. You're going to get a lot of people moralizing and saying it's bad four your me tal health and soul etc...
That's all social conditioning and in some ways wrapped up in guilt and shame.
You have to shed that to spin plates at least for a while.
I tried the family thing. Now I'm divorced and barely get to see my daughter. It leaves a scar in your soul. A real scar. Not like going to a sex party and feeling guilty for doing something that everyone does.
Every major city has its own scene. Nashville and Seattle have sex clubs that you can look up. FetLife is creepy, but there are groups that get together for Munches. These are opportunities to network with other kinky people or swingers.
Not all parties are at some rich guys house. Don't get fantasy and reality mixed. It might be a large duplex in the suburbs. Or a warehouse dungeon.
Read MoreI see this behavior as a type of addiction. Women become addicted to overt and excitement. And if they do not address that underlying addiction, they will hop and hop and seek and seek until the bitter end.
So you agree with me.
Thanks for clearing that up!
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@Lone_Ranger you're on the cusp of agreeing with me (and so is @deeplydisturbed in his reply); you just don't know it yet.
This is my lived experience
Have none of your exes come crawling back? Or at least reached out to test the waters?
Mine have, and this was back before Keoni Galt even made the seminal post "game is Red Pill" that launched TRP.
They had me, then didn't want me anymore.
Then within a year or two, realized they fucked up and wanted me back.
I see it with many other women, including that Latina in search of her "forever cock" and "a connection stronger than just fucking".
They want conflicting things, simultaneously, ie fried ice. They want the thrill of new dick on the CC, but they also want the commitment (preferably from Chad). Whenever they inevitably fuck up that commitment, they end up wanting it again and frequently from the same guy they threw away.
Shit, look at your own example of J-Lo and Ben Affleck! She had him once already years ago, ruined it, got him back again recently and then ruined her commitment from him again because she's a Chaddict!
Look at her string of ex-husbands.
You're right that their commitment turned her off, long-term. But she didn't stop wanting commitment deep-down.
Just like most women, she wants fried ice.
Your ex-wives want fried ice. You'll see, once you're past the pain of divorce.
Read Moreit's the same thing.
Vermy modified it so it's eating bundles of sticks instead of babies
You need glasses!
baby eating santa
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der Kindlifresserbrunnen in Bern, Switzerland
Modified slightly
