As the saga continues:

My LTR and I have been chatting with this hot southern girl. It's very obvious that sex is on the table. She was sending us porn of things she wants to try.

Later that night my girl was in her office Tutoring a highschool kid online.

Now, as an autopilot kicks in I realize that I need to give this new girl some solo time to chat with me.

I start off with a direct message.

"I just wanted to say that I haven't seen my girl this excited about someone in a very long time. That awesome and no small feat on your part! I'm impressed!"

I issued a compliment and approval.

She responded that she hasn't ever been this excited about a woman and I was pretty cool too.

And we're off! The interest is there because she lumped me in without prompting.

We talked about women and how two women struggle to who's going to pursue the other or escalate.

She stated that a couple was a completely different dynamic for her. This, gentlemen is an opening: when a woman doesn't have experience with something, you get an opportunity to mold that experience for her and take a leadership role.

So I planted a seed of thought in her head. "It sounds like this is a good time in your life to experience this sort of dynamic". This gives tingles and excitement. She's going to have a new adventure. Of course, she agreed.

I learned that she got ghosted by a guy she liked, so I took the chance to talk her up a bit. Women like to feel wanted. And having a couple both want her is good for her ego.

I warned her that I'm outgoing and go after what I want. I'm a bit handsy. This goes over well.

I created a bit of a bond by giving her a benign secret to keep.

"Between you and I, my girls exes weren't handsome or charming right to deserve such a gift".

This little exclusive and stupid tidbit creates a sense that I'm trusting her with something.

I ended off that I find her attractive from the pics I've seen and her personality so far.

I told her that I look forward to seeing those pretty blue eyes in person. And to be prepared to get a lot of attention from two sexy people. Once again planting a seed.

These are all small things that get a woman hooked and looking forward to spending time with you.

This was all autopilot for me but can be broken down into small steps that can be utilized for building a connection.