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I have not read the entire sidebar. Even as a mod on Reddit for the few subs I was involved I didn’t read the whole thing.
It was less about laziness and more about common sense. Read any of the early stuff from roissy or roosh and it doesn’t take too long to “get it”.
I get the impression that some men read the sidebar but reject all or parts of it in their minds. That resistance is what we see all the time here.
If one opens one’s mind and lurks about for a while it all makes Sense.
You cannot out exercise a bad diet.
3h ago The Hub
How/should I get my girl in shape?
Been with this girl a while. Main reason is she’s 0 drama and super supportive while I’ve been building my business.
Like a propeller.
However, I’ve been seeing a few other girls here and other, one of them a Polish IG model and another equally hot girl.
It’s making me angry with my current girl because I feel like a loser for being involved with a fat girl, giving her my attention. Especially, when I actively cut off my time with the other “hotter” girls to spend time with her.
Despite quite a few attempts, she’s not really getting in shape. She plays lacrosse or some dumb shit, but it’s not helping, and I don’t know if I should continue trying to “fix” her.
The only reason walking away feels so difficult is because she’s been more supportive than any other girl I’ve been with.
Appreciate any thoughts, gents.
Read MoreMost men struggling here that claim to have read the sidebar clearly don't espouse the philosophy stated in the sidebar.
It's the most common theme I see here. I think a lot of men treat TheRedPill like a dating advice sub rather than a place to unplug.
7h ago The Hub
@SkeletonAdvice Catch -22. either his conversations are truly demented or lol he came here to lie. @adam-l
8h ago The Hub
@slavastipol I can't imagine what kind of mental gymnastics this user would have to employ to get the results like that
8h ago The Hub
@SkeletonAdvice Its more about the memories ChatGPT holds about you. The more you chat with it the more it builds a profile of what kind of answers you want. You can find it in the settings. GPT has gathered I like dark, serious, blunt conversations so the new chat recommendation automatically picks this.
I have no idea what this user talks to GPT about that it would give him women authors when he asked for male. Hence my assumption lol bitter.
9h ago The Hub
is there any PERMA guide on the website, I know you have posted it, but then I don't know how to use the search, to find it, actual FAQ preferable I do not save the Bookamrks it would require another search feature