The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
@derdeutscher For dating and casual sex, I agree it's silly to worry about her past (or even her present), but for something like marriage, anything less than a virgin is unacceptable IMO
@derdeutscher This is just my personal opinion, and I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but I would never consider a woman who is not a virgin for anything serious beyond maybe long term dating. I would never marry her. I wouldn't even marry most virgins today because of how mentally screwed up they are by social media and smartphones, but if I were to find a woman who wasn't like that, I'd only ever marry a virgin. A girl who already had a partner before is not going to be suitable for anything beyond dating for a few months/years, IMHO
This whole TRP obsession with past has its roots in one study which claims that women lose their ability to pair bond after certain number of sexual encounters. That is one study, and they pulled some claims based on how people (women for that matter) FEEL. I would not call that science by any means.
Second part of this root is that it is easier for guys to mask their insecurities with "science", then to admit that they just have fragile egos. Hence always reference to "inability to pair bond".
Am I claiming that this theory is completely useless? No, BUT its a very wide spectrum. Unless she slept with 150 guys I dont think its important, and I dont question too much. Besides, I myself lived through a lot of shit with clean past chick, and had wonderful time with girl who slept with 20-30 guys.
I care about what I see and hear NOW. But thats me.
Read More@woodsmoke There are two types of women out there: women who tell you about their dirty past, and women who lie about their dirty past.
Are you claiming a woman having a "clean past," as you put it, is not important?
If so, I have bad news for you.
@Mate1212 Seriously, what is the whole obsession with clean past?? Something is going wrong in TRP world.
Yes, its ok to have feelings for her. No, its not ok to love her because she has a clean past, whatever it is supossed to mean.
Dafuq..
@Mate1212 It's okay to have feelings for a woman you've been with for 2 years. Don't sperg out. Enjoy the ride.
Lmfao not even your video game interactions are safe from branch swinging
@redpillschool almost 2 years. She haven't kissed a guy before me and I felt that lol. This is also the reason why I fear onities. The thought that the chance of meeting another chick with same or better quality with such a clean past is getting smaller with every year is haunting me. And I know that nowadays it's unrealistic to stay in a relationship for a lifetime. I can't imagine myself dipping into a second hand girl right now. Might be a bit paranoid but it kinda feels like a ticking bomb, although the relationship is going good so far.
@Mate1212 How long have you been with this chick?