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Or you download it via apk and call it a day. Warped people's reality tonight by getting tiktok on my phone tonight.
Buttt it's not in the app store?!?
This appears way too thought out. And are you kissing them somewhere where you cannot escalate further or when there is no vibe?
The only reason a woman would not see you again after a kiss is because you have no where to pull them, your next plwns with them suck, bad kisser, or there was no real vibe and so the kiss to them was the final apex of what they could possibly want from you
Or they had another option. It's rare for kisses to not go further unless you are not confident or over invested or your plans are bad and you have no actionable next steps, not pulling them at all
Dole. To hand out. You are giving these sluts unlimited attention and engagement in exchange for zero sex
@Goingthedistance you've privately shared them with me and you're not understanding my post
@SwarmShawarma I'm not a total dick yet, but I have been working on it. Mostly my biggest progress is saying "No" to people when they ask or demand stuff that is not okay for me (if not in my best interest).
@Typo-MAGAshiv I've been working on my frame and social skills. It works better than I expected but my lack of success past kissing these girls is what keeps me from evolving. It goes well from texting, then meeting, then kino until kissing, and then it's like a break in the narrative and nothing happens. Either I escalate too slow and little and she loses interest or I go to fast and too much and she rejects me.
shit ton of reasons a woman might sleep with a guy
How she feels at that right moment. Hence the right guy at right time with her right feelings.
In the case of the guy who offers nothing but money,
I want money for myself, to earn my freedom and get a better life, I'll in no way lead with my wallet, or have flashy things to showcase my wealth.
I got the fuckboy accusation basically like "Stop pretending you're not a fuckboy, you know too well what to say to not be one". My reply to such things is always something outrageous and hopefully funny. Like "me? A fuckboy? I go to church until they threw me out the gate!"
@Vermillion-Rx I'm not sure what you're talking about, I rarely if ever posted my texts here for you to say that it's only validation.
"excuse me madam"
No, I never did that not even in my BP days. I try to escalate from the first text, by being funny and teasing them.
I do have to admit that sometimes I did make the mistake of going too fast (like escalating), not sure if that is what blew it up in that case, but it was too much looking back at it.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I am doing that, and have been doing that. I just fuck it up somewhere after the kiss.
@Vermillion-Rx Believe me I am, I mean the goal is to meet ASAP, and that's what I've done in the past with all the chicks that I've had (unfortunately just kissed so far). Text first, then text back and forth for 1-2 days max, meet, kiss, somehow fuck it up.
My default is basically: text for 1 days or a while, but usually it's one to two days (which builds me some comfort with them), then go for the "date" meetup whatever, if she's down then we meet, if she's postponing then we meet later (but usually if she's postponing I don't really invite a second time unless she's offering an alternative date for our meet).
I make my goal to not go over 2-3 days of texting before I meet with her.
