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@deeplydisturbed Worthy mention. Gut and feelings are two different things. But if one cant differ between these two, he definitely should not act on his gut.
I believe my gut a lot.
This is where the manosphere veers into dangerous territory.
"Trust your gut" is no different than "trust your feelings"
I do know there is a difference, hence the word "veer".
Men: Be careful. Definitely trust your gut instincts, but do NOT follow your feelings.
THAT is the conversation to have with oneself.
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@Typo-MAGAshiv When it is about cheating, I am not sure if I need evidence. I believe my gut a lot. But it does not matter, I am 37 years old with lot of fights under my belt, and I learned not to trust women and not to take them seriously. Indifference is for me the only way. She dont cheat? I am fine. She cheats? I am fine again.
One of my ex girlfriends was brutally honest when she said "I am ALWAYS 100% honest. I always act true to how I feel. And that changes every minute with or without reason."
Before I tried a carrot cake I was sure it will suck big time.
Before I tried spinach cake I was sure it will suck. (below)
@Typo-MAGAshiv thats the single podcast I was listening to 2/3 times. But instead of not looking for problems I have (hopefully) found an equilibrium.
You don't know what will wipe you out in a psychological way. Knowledge or lack of. Many chumps are said to finish themselves off because of the persistent lies and a sudden dissonance clash between a lie and the reality.
I'd say the dose of the new medicine and the initial state will play a role.
@Vermillion-Rx experienced a dissonance. Its good to know how the women are and preemptively prepare yourself mentally and preemptively adjust the game, but not necessarily it would prepare you for the real thing.
Got to wait for the brain to actually rewire.
In the same way you cant redpill someone you cant be really prepared for a new better evidence.
IMO.
Read MoreI'm too kind to these women.
You cant be unkind to the point of this coming back onto you.
WaiT some time- it will settle. It 's caused by the same thing° that caused you to feel shit after breakup.
° not enough cheescake with a gooseberry jelly topping and soft base
not to go around and look for trouble...
Rian Stone says similar about when a husband suspects a wife is cheating
If he is convinced that she is, no amount of evidence will convince him that she really isn't
Conversely, if he wants to live in denial, no matter what of evidence he finds he'll keep moving the goalposts and making excuses for her
Better off just not worrying about it unless you stumble across something
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Fag why didn't you report that post with the report function
No report function in forums
Clean up your act, hoe
@Vermillion-Rx Unrelated, but related because it involves going through her stuff, I opened some drawer at my girlfriend home, and found there a dildo twice longer as my dick and about four times thicker.
Took some hit on self confidence, especially because I am on smaller side of average. I got out of that but it reminded me not to go around and look for trouble....simply assume the worst but dont look for evidence.
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