@Typo-MAGAshiv Virginity is an ideal wish that is hard to impose on today's world.

In the end if she is normal and healthy, why would she not start having sex early in this world unless she is a bit autistic about her body or about her religion.

Sex has virtually zero negative consequences for a girl in today's world. It is fun, it makes you all "grown up" to the rest of the hive and it gets you courted, and treated and given stuff. What is not to like for a young woman? The whole education system has told her "you go for it gurl, its your right"

That is the world we are dealing with today. The virgins that are left are the mentally odd, the ones with a physical problem, the very ugly and the liars.

One day the world may get better again but that is where we are at. so if you want a normal healthy woman who likes sex and likes men, you are highly unlikely to find a virgin worth considering as mate material n the west older than about 19.

This comes from a man who married as a virgin to an 18 year old who claimed to be a virgin but who almost certainly was lying. Playing the blue pill fantasy is likely to cause more trouble than it will fix. You don't want someone with mental issues, physical issues, ugliness or truth problems.

@Mate1212

How far is having feelings for your girlfriend considered normal / ok? Is this a complete black or white thing? Either you love woman or you understand them? Is the "butterfly feelings" emotional dependency?* How do I know wether I'm in a healthy mental condition in the relationship or tend to have onities? And how could I fix this?

In my case this feeling only comes after spending a weekend with here. I just Ignore it.

If you and your girlfriend treat each other in ways that you're both mutually comfortable with, then I can only pray you both work to build something strong and lasting. There's nothing wrong with growing a strong, emotionally fulfilling connection with another human being. You don't need anyone's permission to continue with your girlfriend, let alone to justify or validate the relationships you keep to anonymous nobodies like us.

To help you, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@throwaway415 some food for thought:

• a woman being a virgin isn't a magic bullet that guarantees anything at all

• even the biggest sluts were virgins at some point

• many virgins are just sluts who haven't started yet

• Stephen Crowder married a virgin. She divorced him.

• MRP has had many men who married virgins but ended up cheated on

A woman's character and how she treats you are far more important than her past. I mean, I wouldn't try to turn some OnlyFans camwhore into a decent woman, but my wife was previously divorced and we'll be celebrating 20 years later this summer.

And for what it's worth, back when I was a virgin, I earnestly sought a fellow virgin for marriage before giving up and just fucking around. I never could find a single one. Women start fucking as soon as they hit puberty, it seems. And that was in the late 1990s and early 00s. I doubt it's gotten any better.