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@derdeutscher mainly that you've talked about where you're from a time or two, and there are occasional tells in your writing that you're not a native speaker.
Bad grammar, wording, or both?
I wouldn't go so far as "bad". Just sometimes off, or strange.
@Typo-MAGAshiv How did you knew, if I may know? What gives me away?
Bad grammar, wording, or both?
@Typo-MAGAshiv Well, in defense, english is my third language, and I write without any kind of spell checker or auto correct.
But I agree, it was retarted!! Retarded. Retarded. D.
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I think I’m done and wanna go live like a monk or some shit.
You don't have to write off all women forever, to enter a period of Monk Mode.
Once you've spent some single time focusing on yourself and your needs and pleasures and goals, you'll probably find your head is much better screwed on when it comes to women. Especially true for those whose life history has been going from relationship to relationship without much "me time" between. Blue Pill time spent longing to a hurtful level for a relationship while single doesn't really count as "me time" in this manner.
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But winning a LTR is HER problem, not yours. Handing a girl your devotion won’t magically make her worthy of it. When you WANT a LTR too badly, you place your focus on the idea of having a relationship instead of evaluating the girl.
One of the major flaws in my "Nice Guy" love life going back to the mid 80s. My well meaning Mom raised me quite well top operate in a world that was already gone before I was born.
I got bored of the superficialness of it, so I went into a LTR. Worst decision ever.
From HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches (which is on the sidebar):
A long-term relationship CANNOT be your end goal. You can only be OPEN to the possibility of having one.
Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Since a relationship is what you have to offer, you mustn’t just give it away. It must be a reward she earns in small doses for inspiring your trust and devotion.
I understand that many of you want a LTR with a good girl – sometimes a series of flings isn’t enough to fulfill you. Believe me, I sympathize.
But winning a LTR is HER problem, not yours. Handing a girl your devotion won’t magically make her worthy of it. When you WANT a LTR too badly, you place your focus on the idea of having a relationship instead of evaluating the girl. You become fixated on your fantasy relationship and selectively ignore the things happening right in front of you: her deep character flaws, her indiscretions, and the red flags.
You must regard women as candidates applying for the job of being your girlfriend – a supporter, a lover, a comfort away from the everyday battles. Don't just hire a bitch because you want the position filled. Make sure you vet your candidates fiercely and hire the right girl for the job.
It seems you wanted the relationship badly enough to put an unworthy woman in the spot.
On a different note, how long have you been with this woman?
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Star for this portion:
You are not responsible for her emotions. You are not responsible for how she feels.
And most important of it all, you dont need to save her.
However, for the crime of misspelling the word "retarded" in a very retarded way,
have some vcards!
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