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You have missed probably one of the biggest boats of your lifetime. If you'd recently invest in stock, even a starter 1k could set you for a liftime.. all it was required it was sitting with your finger on a trigger.
If you want her to wear something sexy next time, tell her.
One of my best "pick up lines" is be ready by 6pm and wear something cute.
You're the man, if you want to see certain habits, behavior out of the woman you need to lead her into them.
Buy her some sexy underwear or go out of your way to compliment her in her sexy underwear.
hey guys, maybe I can get a more grounded view on a family situation I'm facing.
I have a daughter (1y and 3 months), and since birth my wife moved out from my apartment to hers (in the same city). I have some medical issues which needs me to be rested well so this separation was kind of needed and agreed upon in advance - we didn't fight or anything like this. her mother-in-law came to her place in order to help her out after childbirth, help which is otherwise welcomed, but that woman is driving me insane with her defeatist attitude and negative outlook on life, not to mention the constant nitpicking and criticizing. She is driving my wife nuts as well, but she accepts that because hey, it's momma.
my wife, my daughter and mother in law moved after a couple of months to the mother in laws hometown 300kms away, so that she can continue helping. After a while I left and I rarely visit there because it's just a matter of time until tensions escalate, and I've decided to skip going this Easter there because I don't like this arrangement. Our agreement was that we live separately in the same city, not at this distance. My wife claims that her mother helps her out a lot (which she indeed does and probably more than I would) but I don't think it's good for me and my daughter to be at this distance.
In all fairness I don't mind the fact that I still have all this time for myself. I also don't think it's bad that I am not seeing my wife on a daily basis, and I can still do whatever I want and I don't have to concern myself with changing diapers or feeding my daughter or just keeping an eye on her. Don't get me wrong, I love her with all my heart, I just don't see a fathers utility that much in the first two or three years of a newborn's life. Would you recommend me to suck it up and go for Easter there and try to tolerate my mother-in-law, which I can do for a few days, or will I lose frame if I concede and go visit? My wife did knew about my condition and our initial arrangement, but anyway she went for the easier way for her afterwards, me and my relationship with my daughter be damned.
Read Morethe right to be pissed of
Yes. More so, you should be.
More so, you shouldn't show. More so, she might want to test something.
More so my recurring opinion is 'everything is a test, every single thing' because whenever you show lack of frame it will be noticed, even if no test intended.
Accept, like no biggie.
Tease mercilessly. Go back to teasing on it 1week, 1month, 1 year, 10 years later. Jjust make it fun, casual, fairly non repetetive (1y later; ÷hey look at these shoes you'd look good in them, ÷ yeah if Im 80, ÷true, unless you still have these famous gradma panties, they would make an excellent roleplay set for grumpy sex
Had you expressed any desire to see her in something sexy prior to meeting up? Or are you doing the bitch thing of getting angry because she didn't read your mind?
I obviously don't know your situation but I think you're focusing on the wrong thing here. To wit:
She was very eager to fuck
Presentation ain't nothin', to be sure, but behavior is what truly matters.
If you want her to wear something sexy next time, tell her. Preferably in a way that makes it fun for both of you - I'd suggest a little lighthearted^1 teasing about the "granny panties" followed by some positive reinforcement when she's wearing something lacy or revealing or whatever you like.
^1 Lighthearted being the key word there. It has to be genuine. If you're still butthurt about her not reading your mind, if there's any trace of resentment in said "teasing," there's a good chance she'll pick up on it and you'll have a whole new problem to deal with.
Read MoreOpinion needed: am I in the right to be pissed of on my girlfriend because after two weeks of not seeing each other, the first night we met she didnt wear sexy underwear, just plain ones? She was very eager to fuck, but when I pulled her pants off I was kind of turned off with granny panties (thats how they look to me).
Good on you man. Keep going. We're with you.
Thank you I had a lot of good help from all the guys on here.
One more week till 2 weeks, on the anniversary of my first manic episode, which is great because my bipolar disorder is largely why i drink.
Going to go 2 months at least though before keeping it to celebrations, dates, and birthdays.
Just trying to learn how to get through all of the pain and stress I'm carrying without alcohol. I don't want to self medicate with it again
