The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
My gf and I are in a group of people. One guy is super jealous of me beeing here boyfriend. My gf told me that he talks shit about me behind my back. He doesn't has the balls to say it into my face. How do I deal with it?
He probably does this because he hopes we split so he can slip.
When asking here to don't talk with him, she will think there's a reason and it will probably backfire. What should I do?
My gf isn't attracted to him at all he's probably just a beta orbiter.
I liked him and helped him out on some stuff and he does such things. Man I could beat him up.
The next time he fails to succeed with your girl, consider turning him onto a reliable ready reference he can pick up and study to better prepare himself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you point him to Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. Tell this guy to review his advice column to decide if the views on dating and relationships are aligned with what he aspires for himself. To save him a search, give them this scribed link to gander at to find out if the book is something they'd like to add to their library. It should also be available on libgen.
Then let him know that while you appreciate his confirmation of your good taste in women, encourage him to go out there and get his own.
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I quite literally replied with the link, but i will reply with the link again in full link form:
@Adventurequest just hit his link in his reply to you and post away
@Vermillion-Rx is there a guide of some sort to post? I don’t see how to post on asktrp I’m willing to answer my question too
@Mate1212 what would you do if some dude taks shit about your mother /father /best mate.
Genrally you should have the same expectations unless you only fuck casually. If not you can tease HER about it.
My gf and I are in a group of people. One guy is super jealous of me beeing here boyfriend. My gf told me that he talks shit about me behind my back. He doesn't has the balls to say it into my face. How do I deal with it?
He probably does this because he hopes we split so he can slip.
When asking here to don't talk with him, she will think there's a reason and it will probably backfire. What should I do?
My gf isn't attracted to him at all he's probably just a beta orbiter.
I liked him and helped him out on some stuff and he does such things. Man I could beat him up.
I went to a music festival this weekend and had a few situations where I could tell girls were interested one even told me to “come here” while watching me dance. But she and a few others were in mixed groups with guys, and that’s where I freeze up.
Even if I feel the signal is clear, I start overthinking like, “What if one of the guys is her boyfriend?” or “Am I about to cause drama?” I don’t think it’s a looks or confidence issue in general. I’ve had girls approach me, dance with me, and compliment me. But the moment there’s a guy or two in their group, I get stuck and usually end up walking away.
How can I overcome this? What are some ways to approach confidently in these situations without overstepping or making it awkward?
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Hypergamy is based on what women think are above them, not what men think of other men