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Addendum: look over the conversations on this website. There are several threads that serve as examples of friendly ball-busting.
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There are also threads that serve as examples of how not to respond to this:
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@Hamzter that reads more like friendly ball-busting than outright disrespect.
Have you read up on dealing with shit tests? A lot of those methods for dealing with women's shit tests also work within friendly ball-busting among guys.
My favorite go-to is Agree & Amplify.
Buddy: you look like Mr. Bean.
You: good! I hope to have his amount of money soon, too.
Not a great response, but better than silently seething. You get the idea.
Buddy: Stop eating so much you ain't gaining
You: damn, guess I'd better eat even more! Hey, are you going to finish your potatoes?
The key is to be playful. Show that you take neither yourself nor their bullshit seriously.
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Just what I was saying for at least a year.
Good strategy is to go 5x to one place and see who is coming min 4outof5 times. If they also dance well - avoid.
If they don't dance well have a go at it.
My recent ex GF was a Colombiana. I know, I know. But it started out great and the sex was… none of your business.
This video sums up the big deal breaker for me. Keep in mind she is 40 years old and was making noise about marriage and family with me.
If she cannot escape the streets at that age, she is NGMI.
Enjoy.
How to deal with disrespect ? I usually ignore the taunting comments sometimes made by my peers and brother: "You look like Mr bean" "Stop eating so much you ain't gaining" I have tried ignoring other times it's full physical but it doesn't work I got into lot of trouble for that. K
@Bozza she sounds like way more hassle than anyone's worth
@First-light I'm betting life experience. I've seen a number of men who didn't do well with women when younger who eventually rise to fairly prominent positions in their fields, and it isn't uncommon for them to be screwing around with secretaries or other lower level employees and thereby harm their careers. Hormones preumably aren't driving that behavior; rather, the lack of adequate sexual experiences when younger appears to be the culprit.
