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@derdeutscher People tend to romanticise the past - partly because we ourselves grow older (and youth is good), but also partly because we don't know what it was really like.
We don't get to hear about all the nagging, the dead bedrooms, and the sexual frustrations brought on by beta buxxery. We don't get to hear about the pressure to get married, and stay married, or the social shame of being a "bachelor".
Yeah, people could buy a house for way cheaper, but the interests on the loan were insanely high (at least where I'm from).
The internet gives us access to all sorts of information. Sure, you have to dig through a lot of shit to find gold, but at least you don't have to go to the library, and then wait two months, to get your hands on anything outside the mainstream narrative.
Truth is, you've never been more free to pick your path as a man than in today's society. And I'd much rather live in a world were true female nature isn't hidden behind a veil of social norms, and games of pretend.
Romanticising the past is a symptom of not making a good time of the present - it doesn't mean the past was good.
Read More@derdeutscher only solution really is to just be happy on your own terms and clean up where the other 90% of men don't even stand a chance
@Vermillion-Rx If you had a job and if you were not alcoholic or junkie, you were a catch.
Old world is gone and new I dont like. I keep ruminating about good old times, because everything sucks now.
I want to go back to a world without smartphones, any job could afford you a house, and marlboro and beer in front or you was enough to get laid.
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or an ex GF - no contact is a thing for a reason.
I didn't read that part. But yes I read the rest. I'm not swayed by social drinking. Maybe it's autism spectrum but I'm not motivated by it. I'm there to do my hobby and fuck
Drinking is an impediment to both and I'm sick of meeting narcs when I drink. I somehow was not meeting them when I wasn't drinking so much. I pulled like 15 or so women to my house 2 years ago and then started abusing alcohol after a bad experience and I kept meeting BPDs and narcs after that
I couldn't care less about the bar drinking. I was abusing alcohol everywhere
Good self-awareness and good realization.
And, please tell me you read and understand what I wrote.
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Thank you for the support it means a lot!
I'll DM you. I'm not interested in AA but i have a referral to in network addiction services, I'd rather do that
