@Johan

Been lying about my age to my LTR for 6 months, should i reveal it?

I'm 32

I'm rarely attracted to girls of my age, and even then, most of them don't take me seriously and believe i'm a student

I basically look like i'm in my early 20's, so i started telling girls i meet at the club/bar that i'm 24, because they got the ick half of the time when i would tell my real age, depsite being attracted to me

i met current gf at a bar 6 months ago, told her i'm 24 the night i met her, she is 20YO, everything is goine fine, she is super attracted, she isn't suspisious about anything

I even met her parents/sister/friends, they like me a lot

Not sure what to do at this point, just reveal my age and see how it goes? I can't get prosecuted because the majority is 18 in my country

You didn't care enough about this to tell her six month ago, and if she doesn't know by now, then she clearly doesn't care. Stop over-thinking this like it's a problem and just enjoy the time you spend with her when you spend time with her. With what you've share, should fortune smile upon you let your tombstone be the thing that lets her know how much older than her you were.

@AbusiveFather1

ugly girls sabotaging your reputation

in social circle game, how do you stop ugly girls that you've rejected from sabotaging your reputation and cockblocking you from getting with pretty girls? let's say there's 10 ugly girls and 2 pretty ones: you've rejected the uglies and now they've made you a target. if you really are a catch, the pretty girls technically shouldn't care, but getting with you will get them ostracized by the majority of the girls (uglies) in the social circle, so they don't dare to. how do you combat this? especially if you're the new guy

www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YDqm7LXt2g

Failing that, having your wits about you is unavoidably necessary in life. While first impressions can be important, if you're going to let yourself be drawn into any females orbit you'll not only have to deal with competing males, but ugly females angry over their poor odds of success. People who build an entourage for quantity over quality should be avoided as their ignorance and stupidity makes them a liability to everyone around them. Defending yourself from those who would employ mockery, insult, and ridicule is one of many skills you'll need to develop. In other instances, you will need to be ready to use force, if not violence.

I met this girl recently, and I’m open to talking to people in general, so I just started a casual chat. She mentioned she was from Estonia, and since I’ve travelled a bit, I guessed it right. We talked for a while, and she told me she works for a company I’m familiar with (I might’ve overdone it by calling them evil a few too many times, lol).

At some point, I noticed her hands were cold and commented on it, and she said something like, “I’m not that kind of girl.” That kind of threw me off, so I backed off for a bit. Later, as she was about to leave the bus, I asked for her number—more out of habit than genuine interest since we’re in different cities—and when she said no, I said, “Your loss.”

In hindsight, I realise saying “your loss” was kind of stupid and reactive. It didn’t come from a place of confidence but frustration. A better way might’ve been to let her go with something like, “Alright, take care, maybe we’ll cross paths again.” It’s got me thinking about how to handle rejection better and keep the vibe light without trying to force a win.

What are your thoughts on this? How do you handle situations where things don’t go as planned? Do you think saying “your loss” just comes off as salty, and how would you approach moments like this with more abundance?