@Mate1212 I don't judge it, and I have too, on several occasions.

However (sort of speaking for myself, but also in general), I view going behind a woman's back as a lack of frame, assertiveness, and outcome independence. Possibly also a lack of SMV, or at least confidence in one's SMV.

I think a man who has all these aspects of his life covered, and knows it, wouldn't have a problem straight up telling his wife/girlfriend that he's going to get some on the side.

He'd be secure in the knowledge he could handle the negative vibes without it affecting his mood.

He'd be secure in the knowledge his SMV is high enough that she would come to accept it.

And if shit hit the fan, he'd have the outcome independence to just go "alright, there's the door" if she wanted to leave him over it.

Obviously, there are other aspects to consider - like if you have kids, and don't want to split the family for their sake, or divorce laws that would clean you out.

But that is the baseline of what I'm thinking with regards to men cheating.

Do I regret it? No. It's what I wanted at the time, and it helped me take some distance, keep my mood up, and not to beg for sex. But I do wish I had the backbone to just tell her at the time that's what I was going to do (telling, not asking for permission). I don't have any moral qualms with the act of a man cheating, but I do think it betrays a lack of certain masculine qualities when you can't be transparent about stuff.

It's basically nice guy behavior, hiding your "badness".

@Mate1212 There are very few hard and fast rules in life.

I can't see why a sane man would tolerate a woman cheating -he might end up raising another man's children as his own. This is a sound biological reason that makes cheating women repellent for men unless they have a bit of a malfunction that gives them a kink for it.

Its not quite the same for women, its not about the pollution of your vessel, its about the loss of resources. This can be more or less serious depending on how much resources there are and how much she needs. If there is still enough benefit in the relationship, she will not be repulsed but she may be set on edge and made competitive or defensive.

No one has ever asked me if I regret cheating. Its a question I have never asked myself. It sounds strange to say that but I think about stuff lots up front and live with the consequences.

What I did then makes my life what it is today. It had family consequences that still carry on today, even though now I am only with one of the women I cheated with not the one I cheated on. My children know I had multiple women. My lady knows she borrowed me with a plan to steal me but I only eventually came over to her full time when I thought the balance of family interest fell that way -I saw it as a matter of responsibility to look to the interests of the majority of my dependents not my personal preference for her. That stings her, as does the fact that I won't marry her. My conservative family think I am a black sheep. I am still not sure if my father thinks he can trust me entirely.

Would I do it again, knowing what the consequences would be? In the same circumstances -probably in most of the cases. I did, after all, think hard about it up front and wanted to enough.

Maybe what I learned along the way would actually put me in positions where I would not be cheating to start. I hope it would. I got with some women that were not really high enough value to satisfy and then wanted more. I should have avoided that by avoiding the easy wins. I learned a lot about life and humanity and had a number more children than I would have. I stopped being a good sheep and played my own game and won, albeit at a price. One thing I learned about was the limits of women, what is enough to satisfy me in a woman and which ones to avoid.

Would I cheat again where I am now in my life -very unlikely, even though no marriage contract restrains me and I am not particularly happy in my relationship. I just want to do more in life than chase about pleasing women. Women are like fairgrounds -you put energy and resources into powering them up and they are for a short time all bright and fun but what do they give back? However, sometimes you need to experience a thing to see its not all that it is cracked up to be. Its no use never going to the fair just because your dad told you its a waste of money.

A Czech nurse working in a European hospital in Munich, Germany gives an unfiltered report on the ways in which diversity and third world migrants are enhancing the average European hospital experience broken into two-parts in this twitter/X thread. It goes without being said, that she does this anonymously at risk to herself as the current German regime will likely not hesitate to have her forcibly dis-employed, dispossessed of her wealth, and repatriated to the Czech republic.

Yesterday, at the hospital, we had a meeting about how the situation here and the other Munich hospitals are unsustainable. Clinics cannot handle the number of migrant medical emergencies, so they are starting to send everything to the main hospitals. Many Muslims are refusing treatment by female staff, and we women are now refusing to go among those migrants. Relations between the staff and migrants are going from bad to worse. Since last weekend, migrants going to the hospitals must be accompanied by police with K-9 units.

Many migrants have ADS, syphilis, open TB and many exotic diseases that we in Europe do not know how to treat. If they receive a prescription to the pharmacy; they learn they have to pay cash, this leads to unbelievable outbursts, especially when it is about drugs for the children. They abandon the children to the pharmacy staff with the words: So, cure them yourselves. So the police are not only guarding the clinics and hospitals, but also the large pharmacies.

We ask openly where are all those who welcomed the migrants in front of TV cameras with signs at train stations ? Yes, for now, the border has been closed, but a million of them are already here and we will definitely not be able to get rid of them. Until now, the number of unemployed in Germany was 2.2 million. Now it will be at least 3.5 million. Most of these people are completely unemployable. Only a minimum of them have any education. What is more, their women usually do not work at all. I estimate that one in ten is pregnant. Hundreds of thousands of them have brought along infants and little kids under six, many emaciated and very needy. If this continues and Germany re-opens its borders, I am going home to the Czech republic. Nobody can keep me here in this situation, not even for double the salary back home. I came to Germany to work, not to Africa or the Middle East!

Even the professor who heads our department told us how sad it makes him to see, but worth the read…especially the cleaning woman, who has cleaned every day for years for 800 euros and then meets crowds of young men in the hallways who just wait with their hands outstretched, waiting for free, and when they don’t get it, they throw a fit. I really don’t need this, but I am afraid that if I return home, at some point it will be the same in the Czech Republic. If the Germans, with their systems, cannot handle this, then guaranteed, back home will be total chaos…

You – who have not come in contact with these people have absolutely no idea what kind of badly behaved desperadoes these people are, and how Muslims act superior to our staff, regarding their religious accommodation. For now, the local hospital staff have not come down with the diseases these people brought here, but with so many hundreds of patients every day of this is just a question of time. In a hospital near the Rhine, migrants attacked the staff with knives after they had handed over an 8 month old on the brink of death, who they dragged across half of Europe for three months. The child died two days later, despite having received top care at one of the best pediatric clinics in Germany. The pediatric physician had to undergo surgery and the two nurses are recovering in the ICU. Nobody has been punished. The local press is forbidden to write about it, so we can only inform you through e-mail.

What would have happened to a German if he had stabbed the doctor and nurses with a knife? Or if he had flung his own syphilis infected urine into a nurses face and so threatened her with infection? At a minimum, he would have gone straight to jail and later to court. With these people so far, nothing has happened.

And so I ask: Where are all those greeters and receivers from the train stations? Sitting pretty at home, enjoying their uncomplicated, safe lives.

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