@Beamerboy1

Im a 20 year old dude who was raised in a very feminine environment (single mother, 2 sisters) and as a result ended up "beta", how do i reverse the damage and reclaim my masculinity?

Im new to the red pill and the whole manosphre thing, as i said in the title i grew up with a single mother who used to force me to hang up with my older sister because she didn't have any friends (long story) and i was rarely allowed to hangout with my male friend from school, year of exposure to feminine nonsense (such as whining about stupid shit being overly dramatic, etc, ) have rubbed of to me and now other guys treat me like a beta and im unable to attract any women, how do i reverse the damage and become masculine, thanks in advance!

“Man cannot remake himself without suffering for he is both the marble and the sculptor.”

— Alexis Carrel, "Man, The Unknown"

There's plenty you can do, but we don't know where you're at in your life presently, nor do we know where you want to go, and I don't want you to take this as an invitation to share. At your age, most young adults whether they grew up with both parents in the home, or not, are either struggling to maintain their situation of fledgling independence, or prolonging their childhood by pursuing a college diploma. Whatever you're doing, the best suggestion I can make to you, if you're living in the US, is as follows:

1. Register yourself a Google account with a firstname.lastname username and use it only for professional and business mail.
2. If you're currently unemployed, find and secure a job for yourself.
3. Open a savings account for yourself with a local credit union.
4. Find housing for yourself independent of your mother, if you don't currently have your own place.
5. Find a potential profession, trade, or vocation you'd like to pursue.
6. Look up the various trade associations representing the professions, trades, or vocations you're interested in.
7. Make a list of things that you'd otherwise like to do with your life, but had otherwise been putting off. Don't worry about how silly or stupid the ideas you have might be, just write them down.
8. Take that list and re-write it by placing what you believe to be the simplest task first down to the most complex.
9. As you live your life work your way through that list and don't stop until it's done.
10. Exercise regularly.

Beyond that, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.