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I ate bananas today. I am happy.

    

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Did wheremuhgoodmens delete his account on reddit or was he removed? He was a good guy. I had good conversations with him which got deleted. Kinda sad about it.

    

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@Typo-MAGAshiv may or may not be, ehh

    

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@BigBoiBahmani

ehh

That you, Fonzie?

    

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@redpillschool People are too bored, and there is too much validation points to be gained by social signalling the fuck out of whatever is possible.

What else is new man, it will take about 3 weeks before people forget it completely and move onto the new meat.

It is what it is ehh.

    

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My piece on anger:

Being aware of your emotions, especially heightened emotions like anger or sadness will allow you to hold frame even when you are emoting. Literally if you feel like crying just try to be aware that "This thing is making me sad. Okay." Think of emotions/internal monologue/hamstering like trains on the railway station of your mind. You can step on the train mindlessly and it can take you to a loop of negative re-enforcement. Just being aware that this train can take me somewhere allows you to emote and not step on your own dick while doing so, and not get manipulated. And helps in stopping when need be. And anger is a tool. Not a response or a reaction. It is a tool that can provide you strength, fortitude, the ability to assert yourself and not get pushed around. Anger management requires just the acknowledgement of this fact that this is a tool not a reaction. Immediately for some, slowly for some, but the acknowledgement of this fact shifts your mind's mental models to stop using anger as a reaction but a tool. The line between reaction and tool is thin, and only is defined by whether you can start and stop when you should.

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@BigBoiBahmani oh, I'm not disputing any of that. I'm just saying it was difficult to take him seriously. He always struck me as really faggy.

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@Typo-MAGAshiv His book Mystery Method and his methods are good. A little outdated, but basic concepts are still applicable. At least worth a read. On this too, Rollo and the whole Rule Zero group agrees.

    

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@Typo-MAGAshiv

He explains going from null to sex in 3 steps. Attraction, comfort and seduction. Attraction is : she seeing you as a high value male who she feels good to be around. Comfort is that she feels comfortable being alone with you, eventually leading to kiss close and foreplay. Seduction is what simply leads from kissing to sex and having a sexual relationship.

Attraction is not a choice. By this it means getting a chick 1. Being happy in your company and 2. Wanting your company, is not a choice for her. You completely dictate and determine whether she feels that or not.

Much similar to how you would go about going from 0 social group in an unknown city, to a good social circle. You know what you have to do for that innately, or you can atleast learn how to do that.

    

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Mystery put it absolutely right in his book, Mystery Method that "Attraction is not a choice." - @BigBoiBahmani

I always had a difficult time taking him seriously. However, that same conclusion has been reached by others (such as Rollo).

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Been natural but Blue Pilled Alpha since 14, had first LTR at 17, broke off after 2.5 years. I headed straight for the answers and here I am now.

"I don't act like I know the game. I am, The Game."

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Boundary Enforcement and; Explicit, Unapologetic Self-Interest.


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