Hi all. I looked for this topic in the sidebar, couldn't find anything.
I'm curious from a theory perspective - how do you know a woman is pair bonded to you? Is it the depth of emotional connection, acts of service, etc? If anyone has sources for this, would be great.
Thanks.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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I'm at a point in my life where I would want to start a family and meet the right woman. One of my plates that I've been seeing for about 6 months treats me like a god. She naturally just does everything for me. She's been pressuring me for commitment / establishing exclusivity since month 1, but I of course haven't given it to her. She's asked me for this multiple times to commit after this point, but around month 4, I asked her to give me time and she agreed. I can see it affects her, but I still want to vet her longer before fully committing. She has already told me she loves me, I have not reciprocated.
My biggest fear / hesitation is not knowing about her sexual past. I know she had a long term relationship of 6 years (she's 25 now), but that's about it (for reference, I'm 30). I've tried to casually scope it, but I still don't have a clear idea. When it comes up, she remarks that she knows I have more experience than she does (because of how I fuck), but I also don't want to forthright ask her for her n-count since she can obviously lie and I think she gets the sense that I would never be exclusive with a hoe, which of course gives her more incentive to lie.
Everything about her (so far) is positive. I can see this progressing, but I don't want to marry a slut, regardless of how she treats me now.
Any insight? Thanks.
This post is not a humble brag, I genuinely need help. I started seeing a new plate. She and I started to get intimate, but she cannot handle my size and is generally sensitive. Even going inside her hurts her. But once I do get it in, I move slowly to open her up, but I still can't go in all the way. Usually, I just have to go in 1/4 of the way and stimulate her clit so she cums. I can't do any positions that give her those squirting vaginal orgasms I'm used to giving. Even if I want to eat her out, I can't finger her because it hurts her...
I'm starting to like this girl and see her as LTR potential, but the sexual incompatibility is hindering me connecting deeper. Any ideas on how to make sex more enjoyable for the both of us?
